I won because I dared to enter!
Everything you encounter in life, every attempt you make, has the risk of hitting the southern wall or even losing a mess. It depends on whether you have the courage to endure temporary failure. If you caress your aching arm and tell yourself that just try a few more times, the hard wall will be pierced by you, and your sincerity will surely move your destiny. If you are greedy for comfort or afraid of getting hurt, turn around and seek another way, You are bound to be easily knocked down by difficulties and into a " dilemma " that you cannot get out of.
Many people only find out after breaking through themselves: some walls do not exist, and some predicaments are just our own inner imagination. Even if they exist, they are not terrible. They may be broken as soon as they are hit, and they cannot withstand the challenge at all. It is people's own cowardice that makes them stronger hundreds of thousands of times out of thin air.
We often give up halfway in doing things, and the reason is often not because the difficulty itself is too great, but because we keep implying that our success is too far away from us. To be precise: we often fail not because of failure, but because we are afraid and dare not try.
No one can "win every battle", and even Buffett, who has the reputation of "stock god", has had a failed investment experience. He himself said that he too was cowardly, withdrawn, self-doubting at one point. But he was able to shrug off those negativity and continue to enter the game bravely, rather than being tied to his legs by the emotions of defeat -- the difference being that he'll be more calm and determined than he was in the past. But few can do that, because people live in constant fear of the unpredictable risk of failure.
Uncover your inner fear
Many people have encountered such a situation: they are reluctant to do things that are really important. This is because they subconsciously are full of worries about the unknown, long for stability, dare not take risks, and are afraid of failure... It is the fear in their hearts that makes them close their eyes, take the initiative to surrender, retreat and flee, and tell themselves absolutely No more "stupid" attempts.
Think back to how many times you gave up on an action you were about to start because you were afraid of making a mistake:
- After the plan was rejected by the boss, he completely gave up the opportunity to revise and adjust, and chose to withdraw, complain or adopt an attitude of refusing to cooperate.
- Easily compromise with your opponent after the first round of negotiation fails, passively agreeing to most of his conditions and demands in order to defend the bottom line
- When chasing love, in the face of a cold attitude of intentions, the inferiority complex of "I must be out of the game" arises.
- This time I can't, which means I really can't, no matter what I do, I can't succeed.
- I really can't make it through, so I'd better stop. If I knew this, I might as well do nothing.
- It has been proven time and time again that I am doomed to fail, and there is no one more incompetent than me, right?
- This time I hit a wall because I didn't do a good job of detailing, I'll just pay attention next time
- I am inexperienced and still need to learn from my boss and colleagues
- Although I failed this time, I have found my strengths and will do better next time, and many people are not as good as me.
Die in the conference room, or die on the road?
While others are still skeptical and weighed about your work style, you can harvest as much fruit as a big house. Thinking more is worse than doing more. Even if you do something wrong, you have time to correct it. So don't be afraid to make mistakes, as long as you act, there will always be different gains, but if you spend a lot of time on consideration and watching, your work will not be productive.
Be proactive: think before others, act before others
In the face of the fierce and cruel market and competition, seizing the opportunity is undoubtedly the most important key to winning. The first person to eat crabs always benefits the most and eats the most meat, while those who follow the trend can only eat soup and wash their plates. This is the successful experience of shopping malls and the highest wisdom in the workplace.
Ensuring Preemptive Efficiency: Think in Action, Save Time and Guaranteed Results
Don't wait until everything is thought through before taking action, it's easy to let the opportunity go to waste. Even if the pie falls from the sky, it will not fall down after you have figured out how to pick it up. You must know that there are thousands of foragers who are just as eager to try as you are at the moment. You can never think of a perfect plan. Don't wait until you have full confidence before making a move. Even if everything is possible, there is a possibility that you will owe it to the east. Never expect to do things with zero risk. Risk always exists, everything is there, and only by doing nothing will there be no risk.
Preemptive strategy: Foresight, proactively striving, and doing my part
More important than courage is vision. Successful people can not only seize opportunities, but also have the vision to discover opportunities. When an idea is just a vague idea in someone else's brain, the successful person may have already done the relevant feasibility analysis and drawn up a specific plan, which means "thinking and acting one step faster than others" "The conditions were created.
善于在工作中抓机会，是成功者要“狠”的首要体现。他们不会让自己浪费每一分钟的时间，会全神贯注地做每一件事情，敢于以最快的速度抢先行动。只有这样，他们才能成为真正的赢家。因为“幸运喜欢光临勇敢的人”。越没有风险的生意越不赚钱，越万无一失的计划，恰恰会出大问题。当别人还在思考时，你已经果断采取行动，全身心地迎接挑战，那么，最终成为领先者的人，非你莫属。
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