Happy Chinese New Year everyone!
Today is the second day of the first lunar month. Maybe you have already gone to visit relatives on the first day of the lunar new year, or you have only started visiting your family today. In any case, you must pay attention to safety on the road. The time is long and life is not easy. Yesterday, on my way to pay New Year's greetings, two drunk young men collided with a car on a motorcycle. The consequences can be imagined, but fortunately, the two of them survived without any problems, only a little scratched Point, be sure to pay attention to safety and cherish life.
How to define your 2018
Sometimes I feel that I like to record myself, and I like to reflect on myself often. At the end of each year, I will write about all kinds of interesting things that happened to me this year, as well as my own gains and losses this year.
For the summary of 2017, I have summarized it before, and students who want to read it can read it in my CSDN or short book.
Today I want to write about my vision for 2018, and I also hope that you can also benefit from it. In 2018, you must have your own dreams, have action, have choices, have persistence, work harder, and give up everything. The temptation, the fulfillment motivation to complete your plan for the year, whether it is school or fitness, or travel, etc.
Life does not have to be stressful, but there must be poetry and distance.
In 2018, I think four things are very important.
One: pay attention to the choice:
There are more and more crossroads around us, and sometimes due to the existence of these temptations, we are forced to change our original intentions, maybe because of love, family, environment, etc., and get lost in choosing the road, we just look When it comes to immediate interests, we forget that long-term interests will make us thrive.
In the new year, you may have a bad job and seek a new starting point; or your own reasons force you to break up with the other party and end your long-distance love; maybe your education is too low, and you may get a new height; or in 2018, you have no plans and are flat I live an ordinary life lightly, because the plan set in 2017 has not yet started in 2018. You say that the plan can’t keep up with the changes, and it’s nothing to do. It’s meaningless. But what I'm saying is, you have to make a plan for yourself, push yourself a little bit, and you'll be better. Faced with choices, you must find your own interests and strong motivation. When you choose a new job, you must do it down-to-earth, instead of being too ambitious and feeling that this job is not worthy of you; choosing a new education also means this You are alone and you have to suffer. No one will supervise and encourage you like the college entrance examination. Your faith will be your motivation; if you choose to break up, most of it is because you are not good enough, then you have to work hard, Gradually change yourself to be different from before, either in character or salary. Since the choice is right, the result is not important.
The worst life is not to make a bad choice, but to waste time and energy in entanglement, torment, conflict and escape, and finally consume the sunshine of life. shadow.
Two: learn to persevere
If you make a choice, you have to persevere. Any choice you make is worthless. You must persevere. Maybe there are various things that bother you on the way. You thought about giving up, but you persevered. After that, you will feel that there will be another village. Maybe it’s hard to stick to it, and you are a three-minute hot person, and it’s even more difficult, then you can imagine a motivation to do this in your mind, and complete it step by step, and the effect will be slightly better. Fishing in one day, netting in two days. Don't be half-hearted and distracted when doing things.
I read a sentence written by one of my classmates before. She (who has successfully passed the postgraduate entrance examination) said: On this road, maybe I am slower than others, but I will keep walking. , until I reach the step that belongs to me, I am covered with bruises and scars, and I am not afraid.
So be sure to persevere.
Three: work efficiently
在我们身边不乏有这样的一些人，你明明很努力，但依然比不上毫不费力的他们，于是你开始抱怨社会，开始怀疑自己，甚至想过放弃。但是有没有真正地去反省过自己，到底是自己笨还是自己做事的方法以及思考问题的方向出了问题，对于我们普通人智商是肯定差不多的，只不过思考方式不一样，她也许对某件事的思考能力稍微强些而已，这个就需要我们在现实生活中慢慢去探索自己的方式，如果方法和方向错了，就要赶紧改变，砥砺前行。要不断寻找属于自己高效的方式去完成目标。
四：做好自己
在你奋斗的过程中，记得不要亏待了自己。
身体和精神是一生中最重要的事情，没有任何事比得过他们。
在物质上：1.不管起的多早，一定要吃早餐
2.要按时饮食，切勿暴饮暴食
3.少吃地摊货，说不吃是骗人的，毕竟烧烤的诱惑抵挡不了
4.一定不要熬夜，可以十一点睡，六点起床
5.少玩手机，多看书
在精神上：
1.不断地鼓舞自己
2.极度相信自己，而不是盲目自信，更不是自负或自卑
3.切勿跟别人相比，做你自己
4.遇到不开心的事，时时调节
5.保持心情开朗，舒心
总结：
最后祝愿大家完成2018目标，活成心目中的自己，不断努力，终有一天与心中的自己相遇。
再不奋斗就老了，加油吧骚年！