In 2020, I said to myself: develop good self-discipline habits and change them secretly.
My previous state was like this: 2T space was sent to the network disk, and it was finally filled by various tutorials. Yes, I also have a wide range of interests. I have built several favorites by type, and the numbers on them will only increase. Looking through the space and circle of friends, occasionally I can see a few dynamics that only I can see.
Time waits for no one. Later, I also realized that I had fallen into a state of pseudo-effort, and tried many ways to change it. Here I will list a few methods that I think are more effective:
- After rational thinking , set a Flag for yourself, make a TODO list and put it in a conspicuous position. I personally have a wide range of interests. In the past, I would give myself many different types of goals. In the end, I was slapped in the face and swore that
I would never set up a Flag again! Now I usually think clearly first , is this something that must be learned? Is it so urgent to learn? How much time and effort does it take to learn? Is it because of interest or can work better? After asking and answering yourself in this way, you can remove many goals that were added without thinking. This will allow you to pay more attention to the goals that are currently the most profitable, and can also reduce the frustration of a large number of tasks that cannot be completed. At the same time, remember to put the list in a prominent place, I put it on the main screen. Remember, treat yourself as an ordinary person, your memory will not be too long, you need to be reminded , and you can only do some things well and make trade-offs . - Give yourself a little quest reward and cross the quest off when the quest is complete . I made a list for myself. When I finish a task, I usually give myself a vacation to relax and go out to buy some fruit to reward myself. At the same time, I watched myself cross off the tasks one by one, just like pinching bubble wrap!
- Sort favorites and set up a watched favorites. I will arrange my favorites according to the order of learning. At the same time, I also have a watched favorite. This favorite can be placed on the top, so that you can see it every time you bookmark it, and there is a certain amount of supervision for yourself effect. And watching the number on my watched favorites keeps increasing, the sense of accomplishment is overwhelming! There is another one at station B that I will look at later, and I have used it before, but the related buttons are relatively hidden, and you may never see it again after putting it in. It is not very recommended.
- In the end, this is what I am now, bravely share your list and goals. I will post my list and let everyone know my Flag. I hope to encourage more people to join in, and I look forward to your supervision . Wait until next year and I'll post my list for comparison. See what you have accomplished in a year. If I forget next year, please remember @我哟!
We are ordinary people, but we can also be extraordinary. come on! Look forward to us getting better together!
