Give everyone, to share a little story:
Said the old duck duckling: you grow up a little, we will not bully you so ugly duckling grew up, longer bigger than other ducks, so he went to play a swan.
Swan said to The Ugly Duckling: You fly again a little further, we are willing to play with you and then the ugly duckling to practice flying, and finally a swan took off.
beautiful lake face the ugly duckling said: you so white that it into a beautiful white swan
so ugly duckling efforts faded gray feathers when he flew on the lake, the lake going to ask what time he can become a swan, he found that the reflection from the lake - he was a white swan.
Only by continuously enhance its own strength, you can put those people laugh at you behind.
I often ask myself, why self-esteem? The reason: their own this is not good, it was not good. Areas that are not good, this is not, that it will not. But I never ask yourself why others will, but he will not.
I hate, people are always big competition, boast how good their children more than good, and I always say, when other people's children, you girl I was so. Does not live up to expectations, there is no way.
I seem to adapt to such a mediocre life, he has been living in the comfort zone. Efforts do not want to, do not want to prove yourself, just think of those who laughed at my good hate.
Now, I epiphany. Even on the two institutions, do you want to live a mediocre life? No, I want to counter-attack, I want to precipitation, I want to protect plot thin hair, a fantasy fame station. (Dream or do, after all, at no cost. Maybe, one day, good luck to achieve it?)
I started to learn programming but for me, too difficult. He has problems and I'm always dragging dragging forget. Eventually he gave up. Fresh three and a half each time. Set goals again and again and again. Insisted on not down. This is a serious procrastination ah. But it is difficult to resist the temptation to want to change, believe it to play a mobile phone.
Well, how can we overcome procrastination, self-discipline live?
1. Develop a reasonable goal
I had read a book about effective learning: which provides a method. You would not wash up when I say wait for the next in to do, because time is short, speaking to you so easy !!! right, for example, that you want today completed a 30-minute jog, at first glance, it is not difficult. In fact, this is just your heart function. You will find it hard that he could not complete. So when we set goals appropriate given low point. Take two kilometers, I would say tomorrow morning to jog for 8 minutes, 8 minutes if even insist on not down, he is not too useless now. But when you completed eight minutes of jogging, you will feel that they are not very powerful, at the moment, you have the strength to run again, you tell yourself to run all ran, and ran eight minutes not break a sweat, is not too Unfortunately, so you will stick to run again. When you can not run, you tell yourself, I can then hold on. In this way, unconsciously, you will find that you already completed 30 minutes of jogging.
The above example has fully demonstrated, to develop a reasonable goal how important it is.
So we can, for example, I do not like to do English reading, I told myself, just back today on five words, one reading. When I was about to give up, do not understand the question, bored, very quickly, I would tell myself, hold on one minute, to see it again, read it again. Slowly, he persevered.
So after a while, you will find that you have unknowingly develop a good habit.
2. Interest
Interest is indeed the best teacher, I was learning the computer. To tell the truth before you learn the computer I looking forward to it. But learning the computer, I found that I did not like, and it suits me. I might like a new kind of media taking pictures, writing articles. But the results not good, I can only bite the bullet and learn how to develop their own interest in computers that do?
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Some articles concern the computer field, and your areas of interest. You may be due to a blogger's style and like to see him write articles, so like a field, at the beginning, you are looking at learning his blog, then you slowly try to write the article, when you published your own after the first article was published, someone give you praise, increase the amount of preview. You will find that you wanted to send basin writing articles Circle of Friends, like, I want to get more recognition. You will find a way to improve their layout, language, organizational skills, quality of content of the article and so on. You will stick to publish their articles, focus more knowledge in this area, you have to study hard and learn. And then into his own ideas, put this knowledge into its own. You also fantasize, about the same level until the time of their articles of read and liked the amount of bloggers, you will private letter to him. Ha ha ha.
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Try to do some small projects, you can buy a server to explore the secret. You can make a personal website.
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Can hold the thigh, along with bigwigs mix, participate in the competition, learn more unknown things.
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Learn more about some new things, to mobilize their own curiosity.
3. ask
More exchanges with teachers and students to discuss and exchange the same time, you will find the best in others, and the detours they traveled. You can avoid detours. After all, teachers have tried to come, have some insight into these things give you some advice. As the saying goes, "listen to Jun's words, read in ten years." Perhaps, a teacher, is your life elegant.
4. Learning method
Second, learning is very important, different people have their own set of unique learning method. I am here to recommend a few commonly think a better way for everyone:
Feynman learning
first step: Select the destination
Step two: teaching
third step: correction and in-depth study
Step four: simplify
sum up is to use the easiest way to tell others to listen, and make others easier to accept.
Two checklists
two checklists investment guru Warren Buffett is a commonly used method.
The process is simple: before the write target 25, the most important pro-circle 5 on class A, after 20 minutes at the target class B. A goal before completing the class, it does not take a second time on the class B target.
Each target has a cost, most people tend to prefer free to switch a lot of fantasy, rather than actually taking action.
The first five goals is important, the rest is noise, you will cause interference at any time, must be avoided. Either get, or deleted. It seems cruel, but the only way to make people more focused.
Two checklists is actually grasp the principal contradiction, completely abandon the secondary contradictions.
Mind mapping method
Thinking Map popular, taking notes with mind mapping, will make people easily organize knowledge in the visual environment, to establish contact. Learn to use the analogy, the abstract concrete information, imagination, let internalization of knowledge. Build a picture in my mind, it can be a useful abstraction of intuition.
Mind Map strengthen the connection between the fundamental concepts and complex ideas. How to put a three hundred thousand words into a picture of Letters, belong to the artistic process, rather than mechanical excerpt.
Get used to chart notes, can really improve understanding and memory, but the memory of a great limitations, after all, it is best to build their own database, the ability to meet the required one-touch call.
to sum up:
There is a saying I like: The more you know, the more you will find that you do not know.
Background: Human knowledge is like a circle, the circle which is known outside the circle is unknown. The more you know, the greater the circle, the more you do not know. - Zeno
Zeno is a famous ancient Greek philosopher, is Elia send representatives, students and Parmenides heir. Zeno is known as "the father of paradox," he said, he had four mathematical paradox has been passed today. He once said a "knowledge circle said" story. The story is this: Once, a student asked Zeno: "Teacher, your knowledge and more knowledge than me many times, you solve the problem and very correct, but why do you always have questions about my answer then? "Zeno easily being on the table and a small draw two circles, and pointed to the two circles, said:." areas large circle of my knowledge, is the area of the small circle of my knowledge your knowledge than you multi outside of these two circles is that you and I are part of the ignorant large circle smaller than the circumference of the circle longer, therefore, the scope of my ignorance contact also more than you. that's the reason why I often wondered myself. " is this story, Zeno likened the knowledge circle, it has vividly revealed the knowledge and ignorance of the dialectical relationship
On the road to explore the unknown, we must strive forward. This is why those who learn good, successful people. Obviously has been very good, and has been kept in the study. Learn good are struggling, you still qualify, not to learn.
Hello everyone, I'm Lele ah, is above all a personal point of view, there is also the wrong place please correct me. Thank you for reading.
