Talk about career planning, the kind of doubting life!

A few days ago, I launched a small poll for everyone in the circle of friends. I want to hear everyone's wishes and choose a writing theme that I want to read. Some comments are as follows:

Talk about career planning, the kind of doubting life!

This..., some comments, I was speechless and broke directly~

But I still have to be more serious. In my comments, I found that it is necessary to talk about career planning. I want to talk to everyone specifically through this article~

Although the topic of this article is about career planning, it is not really about career planning for you, because Xiaolu doesn't have this super power at all. Besides, even if the career plan you make may not be suitable for you, then this article is much more interesting to write.

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Why is there such a thing as career planning?

Career planning, also known as "career planning", originated in the United States in 1908. Frank Parsons, known as the "Father of Career Guidance", established the world's first career counseling agency, the Boston Local Employment Bureau, in response to a large number of young people being unemployed. "the concept of.

When I first came into contact with the term career planning, I was thinking more about not how to do career planning, but to understand why some unemployed and confused young people should do career planning. If you can understand this question, you don't need a career planner to do career planning that sounds a bit "nonsense" for you.

The following is purely my own thinking, and different opinions are welcome. The main reason for the emergence of "career planning" is that there are many "lost" young people. When you want to understand why people are confused, you know what you should do and what you shouldn't do, or the saying, " Teaching people to fish is better than teaching them to fish ."

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I have been thinking about a question based on my lost experience before, why do people get lost? When people are confused, they always ask for help. What should I do and what I should do now, except for the comfort of some friends, did not play a substantial role.

Think about the state of being confused, worrying about how you will be in the future, worrying about the decisions you make, and worrying about the wrong path in the future. Anyway, in addition to worrying about this, I worry about that. I don't know what I should do. I always feel that every decision does not fit my best plan for the future.

In fact, the reason for the confusion is very simple. At the age when you should be struggling, you just think too much and do too little. If you think about it carefully, you find that this is really the case.

I think a person will experience confusion in a certain period from childhood to age, because a person's cognitive ability will definitely change, and there will be a feeling of sudden awakening. But if people are always in a state of confusion, there are really some problems.

I wonder where these problems are? The Jewish education method gave me some thinking and inspiration.

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Perhaps most people don't know much about the Jewish people. According to statistics in 2017, there were less than 14 million Jews in the world, which is not as large as a first-tier city, but the contribution made by Jews is amazing.

About one-third of Harvard's students are Jewish, and 23% of the Nobel Prize winners are also Jewish. For example, Albert Einstein and the famous psychologist Freud are also Jewish. Almost all investment banks in the United States are invested by Jews. Among the Fortune 500 companies, 30% to 40% of the companies are also controlled by Jews.

Back to the topic, the main reason why Jews have made so many great contributions is that they differ from many countries in the way of Jewish education. The Jews did not have a college entrance examination system, but instead completed high school and directly served in the military. After all, Israel values ​​the country’s military strength because Israel is surrounded by powerful countries.

Therefore, every Jewish student who has finished high school must go to military service. After the military service is completed, the government will give these students a large amount of subsidies, and then let these students travel around the world, to various countries and cities, one year later , And then think about starting college.

We can think about it. At this time, the purpose of Jews going to university is completely different from the purpose of those of us who directly pass the college entrance examination. They know better than us what the purpose of going to university is. Coupled with the unique method of Jewish education, students have no restrictions at all. Instead, they go to university with the spirit of exploring the world, with curiosity, and their own ideals. This is why Jews go to university. Love learning, the reason for making so much contribution.

It’s not like us, forced by our parents to go to high school and then take the college entrance examination. We don’t know why we have to learn such boring knowledge and content. When we ask, we always tell us that only with academic qualifications can make big money. There is no enthusiasm for learning and curiosity about the world. Don’t most people come here in such a realistic way? We don’t know who we are, where we are going, let alone how to go, we have never seen the world view where the world comes from, and we have not experienced life experience and Frustration, where's the outlook on life . It is too easy for a person to be confused and lose himself on this kind of life path.

to sum up

There are more people who are confused, and naturally there are more people who are unemployed, and the career of career planning mentor has emerged. The so-called career planning mentor still hasn't solved the fundamental problem, but just handed over his own destiny planning to others. In essence, no substantial changes have taken place.

Finally, I will summarize my little experiences and thoughts. As a confused person, I hope to learn from you.

I think a person’s worldview is very important. Although we do not have the ability and conditions to go to various places in the world in the early stage, it is very important to establish our own worldview. It will affect your "pattern" and "decision-making" and " The way you see yourself".

Now that the Internet is so developed, there are many ways to see the world. Don't lower your head and see only your feet, let alone raise your head too high. In this impetuous social atmosphere, it is good to be able to rent to look straight ahead without being restricted.

There is only one reason for the confusion, "too much thinking and too little doing"!

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