Mature and grow
From birth to now, we have been born more than twenty years. To learn language from trained, better educated (about expansion), what makes us get so much ability? The answer is self-evident. We are through a little bit of learning and accumulation, slowly growing, that gradually grow into mature appearance. Boy's voice gradually vicissitudes of life, the girl's voice has matured. The next two decades, we braved the body shell, and whether it has really grown into a mature shell with corresponding psychological? Let's test it.
What are these five characteristics are?
1. To immediately return.
2. undisciplined
3. often swayed by emotions
4. do not want to learn, self-righteous, no zero mentality
5. do things that do not rely on faith, relying on hide.
Whether these characteristics are accounted for, or is virtuous and talented person, one did not. These are often interspersed appear, perhaps on something you are not for a return immediately, but on another matter and anxious. As we are not asking for anything even when good deeds, but when we learn English is particularly urgent want to see the results. This is immature moment, we have to avoid this moment of our emergence. Learn to control their emotions, our compulsory. Can not be swayed by emotion, I want to be masters of mood. Self-discipline give you my freedom, only after the self-discipline to plan out our time, have more free time. Moreover, you should establish their own right Three Views, Do not be dictated to, not complacent, self-righteous. Some people outside, there is day. There is a small story: Ancient several farmers working in the fields, leisure time chatting about the generosity of the royal family, one of the hide, the emperor is not starting a hoe arable land made of gold ah? So in later life should get rid of these habits, from immaturity and slowly grow into a mature person.
How to grow into mature, into the success? Then use the seven habits of successful people we are talking about.
One habit: Do not expect anyone actively push you away
habits of the two: Begin with the End loyal to their life plan
habits three: First Things First select the currently doing
habits four: the pursuit of a win-win away from the arena
Habit five: the principles of good communication and empathy
six habit of: integration synergy 1 + 1 can be greater than 2
seven habits of: continuously updated comprehensive self-balancing
these are not very familiar with, yes, this is our philosophy classes to improve similar, carry out our study life in all aspects. Let us step by step to grow into mature people, successful people. Slowly accumulate, 1 + 1> 2. Growing use of thinking, our accumulated wealth of knowledge. Growing human subconscious mind believe that a person's learning abilities and talents can grow with time and experience. When a person believes he may be more intelligent, he will believe that hard work can bring success. So he would devote more time to work, and finally reach higher achievement.
So how can we mature, to be successful? That is in the process of growing up, implement growth-oriented thinking, Seven Habits of training process, avoiding the five characteristics premature. Finally the efforts of all people (mainly their own), growth for the elite.
