2019-08-15 morning chicken soup
Many people see this, I will doubt that it is difficult to appreciate? This is not a natural thing? Someone help yourself, then your own will from some aspects likely to help each other. If you think so, then you have learned to appreciate, but for most people, they can not learn, or did not grow up.
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In the 18 years I interdimensional blow spike is directly mentioned I give their children a name, write your own named program, it is convenient, the name was soon played.
Some time ago, a group where people give their child a name, and then I turn this article, and gave each other the source code. If you give your child a name, then the source code to change it, but the other is not doing research, so I added a friend, did not say anything, give hair a red envelope, but I did not receive, from this point look, to prove the other party is very sincere.
So we talked at, and I really think the same, the other side does not modify the source code, so wanted my help, but also specifically to say, if it is too time consuming, then it does not bother me. This modification Fortunately, the next question each other from time to print birth certificate, also found enough, so I agreed to help each other.
Finally, I would help each other with the program screened nearly ten thousand name of it, by score in descending order, sent to the other party of their own choosing, the other very grateful.
Later I found my attention the other public number flysnow_org, and a reward from time to time, and then I go to the article's circle of friends, he would point praise. At this time I understand, because I did not receive his red envelope, and then helped him busy, he always remember, and then use them to help me to help my way.
Well, now we have become friends.
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Instead of the things I have encountered, just graduated, a colleague do not understand programming (non-programmers), but usually need to use some tool environment, then mostly ask me, I will give each other answers . Over time, the other for granted, and then once I am more busy, not so timely, and ultimately was not like gratitude, are complaining.
This is not necessarily the other side remember your good, but can not say thank you should help, as a matter of course, as a habit.
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Way of life, may encounter some elegant (non-great luck), who will get back to you on your road of life some help, they help, as may be easily and do not necessarily want nothing in return but this does not mean, other help is cheap.
We should remember this situation, now is not the future can also, remember and appreciate.
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Life on the road, you can also help some people in helping, you might not think too much, then you may feel that the other side has a shadow, or think it very motivated person, or met this threshold, but What this ridge is not for you.
He helped helped, and not necessarily ask for nothing in return, so that it can be relaxed.
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Some elegant, may be more severe. But remember, just a stern attitude might be personality dictates, you may want to flogging, in short, you are not severely judge each other's good and bad standards.
Not because the other side of your requirement stern, strict, not even to face, I felt the other side not helping yourself, the other for their help is rejected, even angry, that is one-sided approach.
Whether there should be help, whether for their own good as the standard. Strict teacher but also a great day of it; no weak soldiers forcing men also do; mother more than it lost children.
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In their own time to help some people get as much as possible to consider each other's feelings, you may be a good starting point, but it may be difficult to understand each other, and finally result in tensions, more harm than good.
Humans have self-esteem, with the appropriate manner, the effect may be better received.
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Although it may be as casual and, although it may not care, though ...... but the best help is mutual, which is a positive cycle.
Not just the harvest, do not pay. Only the formation of a virtuous circle, help each other, can be endless.
At last
Helped people know how grateful; to help people learn to choose those worthy of help in this process, to find like-minded people.
Original link: https://www.flysnow.org/2019/03/21/learn-grateful-grow-up.html
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