Survey shows that China currently has more than 58 million people in the city, lives a solitary life. Among 20-39 year-old youth, more than 20 million.
More grown up, the more we become that, from their homes, a man living a solitary life, Empty Nest youth.
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Empty nest youth, saying that those small places alone came to the big city to work hard group of people. These people, not much income, the circle is small, a lot of overtime, leisure small, single is not a long distance relationship, in short, is due to various reasons, lives alone in the rental house.
Empty nest, like a rite of passage of a new era, if only through the baptism of this layer, you can really grow into an adult.
I had a female student, a little thin, seems like a high school student.
After graduating from college, she was a person to go to Beijing, became a North drift.
I often see the circle of friends of her hair, a person to see her move, cook, clean up the house, look at her flowers, and more kinds of meat, the gusto of a person living alone lived.
Once, she sun a photo, the photo of her, holding a tool.
This photo sun because she is, she just by virtue of the power of their own bedroom for a bad outlet.
After a long time, And I saw that she was a person for a drainage wash audience of aging.
Sometimes, life is more brutal, the more people will become stronger.
Life, to live a weak woman to woman forced to become a man, you know, college year, she will not even cover quilt.
In short, a person live a long time, that is, before now will not, and can not do before now have done.
Some people say: the difficulties of living alone, and that no matter what came up the mess, you have to pick up.
In my opinion, solitary life there is a difficulty, that is, in fact, no one cares if you upset now.
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Because living alone, we become stronger and more independent, but also because living alone, we become more silent and lonely.
In the confrontation finished, after assorted trivia life, we need to Jing Xiaxin, silent and lonely battle.
Empty nest solitary life of young people, is what kind of experience?
New Year back home, my mother asked me to leave an emergency contact phone in case I am a man in the field, she could not find me, you can also find that one person. I think for ages, not even a name not want to come out. --Eve
Siri and became good friends; after the discovery on the couch watching TV, accidentally fell asleep, woke up, no one gave me tuck, no one to help me turn off the TV. --2333
Empty nest young people, the holiday might as well go to work. Because you can go to work non-stop busy to concentrate on doing one thing, chat with colleagues; it is a holiday, I do not know they have to do something, no one to speak for a whole day. - Bima Wen Monkey King
Want to go out, but do not know where to go, whom to go, so I kept thinking, one day later. Sometimes I think we do not go out to die, so the makeup dressed, packed up everything to go out, go out the results also lacks something, buy a few eggs went home. - Daily curiosity
The first thing that came home late at night, not open the music, it is to put drama or variety, the volume to maximum, even though no one spoke, but do not want the house to quiet scary. - Deng Wenzai
Night became very sick, almost dehydrated, address book hundreds of people, but can only be dialed 120, go to the hospital, the doctors say, "Let the families to pay", tears instantly stayed. - Shrimp rice
Obviously living in brightly lit magic of all, obviously the streets full of people, obviously ears filled with the sounds, but I think so quiet, surrounded by empty, I seem to be the same as the darkness swallowed. - Anonymous User
Shut the door of the rental, as if the world left me alone, loneliness reports. - seventh
A time to be alone, always feel that they are alone. But turned his head and think about it, it seems not alone.
Because we live in these fragments alone, more than 58 million people nationwide who are being staged.
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We are this city, small and individual.
If you ask me, a person, lonely?
I'll tell you alone, but not lonely.
Even again, still so choose.
We leave their homes, fled the parents RBI good comfort zone, a stranger came to the city, the official start of a person's life.
We could have, and stay at their parents circle of protection, parental care and enjoying the small town where a stable life, but still hesitate, choose to go alone to become a combat soldier.
Even if they are playing live and work retreat, but also do not have to give up, even learned Kuzhongzuole and self-healing.
Romain Rolland said: This world is only one of heroism, that is, after the discovery of the truth of life, still love it.
Thus, for a second-tier cities still insist on fighting empty nest youth, we might not be able to become, the imagination of their own, but it has become the hero of his own life.
Moreover, alone, is not nothing.
It gave us enough time and space, let us think carefully about their own life and choices. Also gave enough quiet atmosphere, let us listen carefully to your inner voice.
A person, we do not need to cater to anyone, just to please yourself.
I have most of the time, you can go to Jing Xiaxin think, even trance meditation.
I slowly become stronger, become no longer need to rely on anyone.
May often feel lonely, lonely but then this is normal life, getting used alone, and you will learn that a person alone in the carnival.
Lonely course terrible, but worse than alone, it is succumbing to the dual pressures of life and work, give up resistance, and slowly turned into a salted fish without a dream.
I always believe that loneliness is only temporary, struggle and hard work, we will slowly fill the emptiness inside.
In big cities, everyone is one lonely soul, no one can really save anyone.
The only thing we can do is dream has not been extinguished before, alone and not be overthrown pressure, become their own life superhero.
Would like wandering people have wine, lonely people will be willing to sing.