Tell you a horror story:
Today is a Monday.
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do not know you have not had this experience:
Get up in the morning opened his eyes the moment, think they have to work a little later, I felt tired and mourning, feeling boring.
Just the thought, from wages in the distant future, think of a mountain of work, think of the pressure of work, every minute on the anxiety to want to quit.
Sometimes desperately efforts, hard work, but with little success; and others, relax and be able to make Hello months are not making money.
Sometimes, obviously I spent a lot of effort, costs a lot of time and effort, but always missed the promotion and pay rise.
Sometimes, you can only watch, and you also recruited colleagues are a little bit slowly overtake you.
Sometimes I think, not always pay off.
Their work, always go wrong in case you can not imagine all kinds, the more you seem to ring true, more is to come with you against the world.
Sometimes, I feel that they do not work, do no use.
So you will be feeling, tired of life, tired of life, tired of work.
Sometimes, really, I do not want to work hard.
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A friend of mine, came to me two days ago.
He said that because of the enormous work pressure, leading to several weeks he has not slept through a soundly.
Overnight, he seems to have suddenly haggard and a lot of years.
In fact, when the job first, he was full of enthusiasm, tireless.
Because the dual pressures of life and family, he was obliged to buy a car to get married as soon as possible, so he wholeheartedly in the work, just want to save money as soon as possible.
During that time, as soon as I contacted him, in all likelihood, he will be busy because of work, and I hastily hung up the phone.
During that time, he said, he is like to play with blood, anxious excitement to work every day.
Fortunately, his efforts were not in vain, he tasted the sweetness of work.
But it also led to his more day and night of your life to work.
It did not last long, because he was a long-term stay up late, overtime, entertainment, stress, the body ruined, serious enough to stay in hospital for some time.
But let him pain, in fact, not a hospital.
But after he was discharged, he found it difficult to get back the original state of the work.
Wait on the side of caution at all times to strike their own bodies, while teetering on the edge have to work in your life.
Coupled with continuous can not make the performance, which made him more and more pressure, more and more people throughout the funeral.
"People have to live so tired doing? Why strive to be so hard? Live comfortable point not do it?."
His words, like asking me, like trying to persuade himself.
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This world, people work hard, and more and more.
Everyone is busy working, busy making money, busy become excellent, upgrade their busy, busy race each other to each other, busy competition.
"Effort" has given way to "leisure" has become a luxury.
Society are constantly warned us, "effort" is the norm promising youth, "laid-back" is mixed with food to die.
All of this, a great people onto the high speed treadmill, people no time to stop the foot, only desperately ran forward.
But in fact, people have their own periodicity.
No one has been able to stay motivated, always washed up front, everyone is the same, there are highs and troughs. It is also normal natural state.
"Suddenly I do not want to work hard," but is that you are going through your trough.
And there is this idea of people, mostly in fact, people have been desperate efforts.
They are not only hard, and strive to do nothing.
So after trying to see sense, see the way forward, they always blame themselves: Why should I work so hard?
They even thought many times to give up, but still trying to find a, so that he can continue to adhere to reason.
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In fact, in my opinion, a lot of people suddenly do not want to work hard, nothing more than two situations:
Either that their pay not return, think again stick to it, not be very meaningful.
Either is found, even if they keep trying, no match for those with innate talent or acquired advantage.
In fact, either of these cases, as people have been very desperate.
But it is undeniable that the above two cases, both real and cruel presence in our lives.
When your efforts not return, maybe you should think about: Are you just look very hard, or that your efforts towards the wrong direction.
If so, stop in time, in fact, than the teeth Yingkang, to be more effective.
Working too hard, go for a run, take a look at what movies, listen to songs, do not work-related.
Suddenly do not want to efforts to stop it hard to make themselves dry, properly let yourself relax, recharge your batteries properly.
Keep a good spirit, in order to start again, to calm, confident face of all the unknown future.
If you're really tired, to do it is to rest and not give up.
When you feel that they have a very hard time, you need to understand that an unfortunate fact that, no matter how hard you try, there is always someone better than you.
There are always some people, they can effortlessly, reached the height of your reach.
But this is not a reason to give up your choice.
Because the world's most terrible thing, is not also work harder than you than you good people; but those who are less fortunate than you, they still persist.
If you want to make a new effort, then please make every effort to fight.
Because only if you are doing all you can truly and objectively judge their own in the end okay.
So how to judge their own only "effort", rather than "doing all" mean?
There is a saying, maybe can be used to objectively answer,
That is: when you work hard, you will feel that they have been doing the best, and when you are doing all you it will feel hard enough.
So, you believe that the efforts might lie, but will not be in vain.