You can look at themselves around those successful people, after careful observation, you will find an interesting phenomenon, that is:
Failure of people, each have their own reasons, and successful people, in fact most have the same characteristics.
1, focus
Focus is the primary reason for the success.
To me there is indeed a small part of the "smooth and slick" of the people, that they could test door door first, but got round to participate in various community activities.
Roommates in the dormitory when playing games, eating fried chicken, those who learn tyrants can block out all outside interference and concentrate on learning.
When people all day clubbing, eating supper when those cattle always distractions, day after day of learning and training.
These people not only with one mind, and even multitasking.
They hung open this life, is hard to envy and jealousy.
But for most people, just be able to do one thing well, we have enough of it out of the.
If people do not like cattle, there is extra "gift", then you want to "wear many hats" Just too hard.
Therefore, most of the good people, in the face of various options in the simultaneous emergence of life, tend not to be too greedy, but only choose one, and stick in the end.
You might have many choices, but can really push you to move forward, are often painful and lengthy,
Good people, never covet too many choices, they always put their limited energy and focus, are devoted to the same thing.
2, persist
Good people, not necessarily able to insist, but to adhere to the people, no one does good.
There is a law of sociology, called twenty-eight quantitative.
Say is: in any group of things, the most important and only a small portion, about 20%, though the majority of the rest, but it is secondary.
After repeated testing and verification of people found that twenty-eight law, not only in sociology, but also in the field of economics, psychology and so on, Pareto phenomenon everywhere.
Therefore, it was deduced:
20% of people seize the opportunity, 80% of people miss the opportunity.
20% of people will insist, it means that 80% of people will give up.
20% of people succeed, it means that 80% of people will not succeed.
Each person according to their own daily experience, can judge, above the law, in line with the actual reality of the situation.
The eight law is substituted into the growing, we can find,
When you are determined to do one thing, 20% of people really put into practice, while 80% of people just talking about it, three minutes.
When you practice in the face of setbacks, only 20% of people choose to continue to adhere to, while the remaining 80% will gradually give up.
Pareto rule in just a second, it has eliminated 96% of the people.
Therefore, the road to success, in fact, not crowded, because people can stick with it, really small.
Ma There is a saying: I am very cruel, more brutal tomorrow, the day after tomorrow is good, but most people died in tomorrow night, do not see the rising sun day after tomorrow.
In real life, we can always see a lot of successful people, they in fact there is nothing extraordinary talent, but they look for the target, and, as always, adhere to in the end.
3. Replay
When you run too tired, I suggest you stop and look back at the way they have ran.
Think of mud on the road, think about Hom encountered on the road, think about why they fall, also think about why his original departure.
I have found, whether in study or work, those good people, often have the habit of summarizing and re-set.
Replay, originally chess terminology, that is the players after the game, play this game of complex footwork to check the key moves of the pros and cons and pros and cons.
In this way, learning and work, the more attention.
Only often re-set, you will be able to leak filled, Yangchangbuduan.
I had a teacher, when she was intern teacher, every school should bring a voice recorder recording.
Every night she will take the time to listen to it again a good class recordings, lectures analyzed for the presence of their own problems.
She's such a re-set of thinking, not only to help her success to positive, but also let her win all over the province's teaching competition.
Even the famous CCTV host Dong Qing, each presided over, will be repeated viewing their own hosted video, reflect on their own typhoon, see their facial expressions it properly.
Often I hear people say that the lower the efficiency of their own efforts, the more efforts the more confused, in fact, is the lack of a re-set of thinking.
No matter what you do work, you will need to re-set from time to time, stroke clear idea of the re-set the course, lessons learned, reflect inadequate.
When you can not find the way forward, often re-set, it is more important than work hard.
A man of good, has his reasons; a person's success, there are always his mysteries.
When we look up to a person, do not ignore the pain and effort behind these people pay.
While they keep up the pace, while examining themselves, and constantly adjust their pace, the only way you can slowly into, the group of outstanding people in the ranks.
By that time you will find that successful people like a cloud of light, and they spent a long time, you'll never want to go back to darkness.