WeChat is a social tool, but do you really use this social tool to socialize?
Just like chatting face-to-face, chatting on WeChat also requires the ability to read words and expressions. The following 10 basic rules can help you quickly improve your WeChat chat EQ, so as not to be quietly blocked by others.
What aspects should we pay attention to when chatting on WeChat? Come and see with us~~
Table of contents
1. Don’t post to Moments without replying to friends’ messages
2. Don’t keep asking “Are you there?”
3. The other party replies "um", "ah" and ends in time
4. Feel the other party's chat status
5. The other party replies "It's very late" and don't continue the chat
6. Don't leave endless messages under other people's circle of friends
7. Don't continue the conversation when others change the topic
8. Don't make fun of other people's selfies in the circle of friends
9. Prepare for rejection in advance
10. Try not to send a series of voices
1. Don’t post to Moments without replying to friends’ messages
If someone chats with you and you don't reply, then don't post it on Moments. It will be embarrassing for others to see it, and they won't feel good whether they are good friends or not.
2. Don’t keep asking “Are you there?”
Don't keep asking "are you there", it will give people a creepy feeling. After asking "Are you there?" Regardless of whether the other party is there or not, it is recommended to clarify what you want to say, so that people know whether they should tell you whether you are there or not...
3. The other party replies "um", "ah" and ends in time
When the other party's reply is only one word such as "um" or "ah", the other party may not want to chat with you anymore. At this time, end in time and don't disturb others. If the other party's answer is "um, ah, ah", it means that the other party is in a good mood and is still listening to you carefully.
4. Feel the other party's chat status
Chatting is an interaction between two parties. Only when two people chat on the same channel can they get closer. Therefore, in chatting, the most taboo is self-expression. You must learn to understand the other party's state and then talk in a targeted manner, so that the chat can generate value. For example, there are a few common signals that you don’t want to chat: um, oh, ok, got it, haha, ellipsis, emoticons, etc. If there is no substantive content, when the other party has such signals in two or three consecutive sentences, especially if the reply speed is very slow When it's slow, it's obvious that you don't want to chat anymore, and those who are sensible should end the topic in time. On the contrary, if the other party replies with expansive content and the reply speed is fast, it is a signal of a strong chatting nature, and you can have a more enjoyable chat.
5. The other party replies "It's very late" and don't continue the chat
If someone tells you "it's late" when chatting at night, it means that the other party may be going to sleep or doesn't want to chat anymore. Don't reply with a yes and then continue the chat. This is very annoying.
6. Don't leave endless messages under other people's circle of friends
Don't chat endlessly under other people's circle of friends. If you have anything to say, you can chat in private. There is no need to leave a message under other people's circle of friends, which will make people feel very awkward.
7. Don't continue the conversation when others change the topic
If when you ask others for help, others always change the topic or talk about him, it is unwilling to help, enough is enough, there is really no need to bring it up again and again, so that two people All embarrassing.
8. Don't make fun of other people's selfies in the circle of friends
It's really impolite for others to post selfies for you to praise, especially in places like Moments.
9. Prepare for rejection in advance
The most typical example of this is when a friend who has not been in touch with you for a long time suddenly complains to you that life is suffering and financial pressure is high, and you feel that he wants to ask you to borrow money. If you don’t want to borrow money, you’d better dispel his idea in advance. You can also follow him and complain that you have been very poor recently, and you have to pay back the money, then he may retreat in spite of the difficulties, and it will not affect the relationship. If you wait until he says to borrow money before refusing, That would be more embarrassing. There are also many scenarios for this application. For example, when you are in a relationship and you happen to be very busy, but you feel that your girlfriend wants to ask you out, you should tell about your busy situation in advance, instead of waiting for her to say it before refusing, and the other party will not be very good at it. I think it's an excuse, and it won't affect the relationship between the two.
10. Try not to send a series of voices
Some people like to send voice messages, and they send a long string of messages. This is not very polite, and it may be inconvenient for others to listen to WeChat voice messages. If it's really urgent, you can call.