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I saw a newspaper story.
A woman hurried home from work as usual hastily got into the elevator.
Empty elevator, the elevator she subconsciously by the mirror according to the picture himself, when she looked up to see their own time in the mirror, could not help lower the daylights.
A sleepy, gray face, a pair of tight twist eyebrows, drooping mouth and trouble, cloudy eyes ......
She took a deep fear: This is what I do? When did I become like this? When a child, Mr. sorrow gloomy face me face How does it feel? If I own this face is the face of what is the response? Then she thought of the child silence at the table, Mr. indifference ......
She suddenly cold sweats, long talk that night to find her husband, the next day to write a piece of wooden sign hanging on the door to remind myself, wooden sign that read: front door, take off your troubles; home, will bring joy .
As a result, a miracle happened, her home from becoming warm and harmonious, this wooden plaque to remind her of not just one person but a whole family, even visiting relatives and friends also become joy.
Well wise, good and loving woman, " before the door, take off your troubles; home, will bring joy" , just a sentence or two families but contains a profound philosophy.
Joy and annoyance mood is contagious, if everyone shows a happy home, so the family is naturally full of laughter, on the contrary, if everyone shows trouble to take home, then the home must be the dismal gloom.
2
Not long ago, a female friend gave me describe something happen to them the true story.
There was a time I had a pretty depressing. Company managers always favoring others, full of infighting among colleagues, wages are not high, the future of confusion, to do things I did not like, can not afford a house, the family crowded into a small rental.
Every little thing can touch my frayed nerves, are not satisfied with the slightest will feel very irritable.
This leads to my mother and I talk to become cautious, introverted son becomes silent in front of me, and the relationship between the husband becomes even more indifferent.
One time off work to go to the supermarket to buy things, a draw in the silk, the mood became a little bit beautiful, time to go home, I am pleased hugged her son, said to me: "Mom, you become so beautiful today ! "
I am curious son asked: "Mom Why become beautiful it today?"
Son look decent, said: "You laugh because my mother today, good fun!"
After listening to his son, I feel deep remorse, I, as a mother does not live up to their responsibilities, my bad mood has seriously affected the children.
But this fleeting remorse, after work, I was at work to endless trouble engulfed, their colors, became the unhappy themselves.
Until one day, I was cooking in the kitchen, living room suddenly heard the cries of his son.
I dropped the spatula, went to the living room and saw blood dripping hands of his son, already has a pool of blood on the floor tiles.
I saw a knife, there are even blood next to him, was his knife play hurt yourself, I suddenly feel very irritable, no longer irrepressible their inner anger, directed at his son howling: "Who to play your knife! how can you be so naive! you deserve it! "
My son was scared shrink to a group, burst into tears, trembling scared I hold him to the hospital.
The doctor gave his son on a sterilization dressing, I took him back, put him on the living room couch, gave him a look like he's "Bear haunt" cartoon.
Son watching TV, I clean up the blood, the heart is still very impatient.
When I wiped the blood and found a bag of pistachio nuts, plastic packaging is very thick, there are traces of the teeth move, but no open bite, and some knife cut a small hole.
I am curious, holding pistachios asked his son, my son was afraid, afraid to answer.
I took him in my arms, pretending to get to the bottom gently, so softly son told me: "I want to open the bag to get you to eat pistachios, but the teeth are not open, only with a knife, because my classmates tell me, eating pistachios people will become happy, so I want my mother to eat has become fun! "
After knowing the truth, I could no longer hold back my tears, hugged the children burst into tears, he kept his son's head with a small touch my hand and said: "Mother do not cry, I'll be good, and then not play knife a ...... "
Later, the son's wound had healed, but left an ugly scar, every time I see the scars, I feel heart was severely stung by the needle.
I have a sensible and well-behaved son, there is a love her husband, I am still not satisfied, often for little things to heart, herself very unhappy, and even let his son to bear the indelible scars for me, I really commit a sin, really seek death!
I work hard, continue to reflect on their own, I realized his mistake, vowed to change the mentality, to bring their own happy family.
After my husband and I, quit his current job, re-find a job I love paperwork.
Since the company can not change the environment, it would change their environment.
Due to cook their favorite work, people become cheerful, positive work up a good motivation to see my leadership, he gave me a little management positions, and later her husband's unit also received a big project, doing well, his salary has continued to rise.
Later, I will be thinking of ways to bring happiness to their families every day, even before we do not enter the house will be happy to let his face becomes warm, her husband and son under my influence has become active brightened, our family is no longer the past dead the atmosphere became warm and harmonious, steaming scene.
2 years later, we took a few years of salary saved up, a house down payment, and now we have moved to a bright and spacious room inside.
Often, when memories of this story, I still marvel, not only has a deep shame there are less scared of his son, if I continue to insist the bad mood to bring the family, really unimaginable consequences.
3
Hu "My mother," the article said:
I gradually came to understand that the world's most objectionable thing nurturing an angry face, the world's most obscene thing nurturing the angry face put to anyone, even worse than this cursed.
Because of worries angry face, even though you did not mean to put to his family, but it has virtually hurt the family.
Perhaps most of us feel in front of his family is free to willful, unconscionable, but the bad thing is always bad, no matter you are more close to people's eyes, it is bad.
Your loved ones will not leave you, because love you, does not mean they love you've got those bad feelings, no one will like the bad mood!
We did the most stupid thing: the best to temper the stranger, and the worst temper to his family.
How can they stand in relation to your foul temper it? Just because they are your family? Just because they love you and will not leave you? That makes your family really pathetic!
You can hurt, are you the most pro favorite people, to change to change the face family treat you right.
High EQ people before you enter the house, would choose to take off their troubles!
