20 proverbs about human nature

1. To a Chinese, how precious is life, how precious is face. You give him enough face, and he will give you everything! But if you hurt his face and self-esteem, he will hate you to the core and completely push you to his opposite!

    2. There are no permanent friends, no permanent enemies, only permanent interests. The essence of interpersonal communication is actually the exchange of interests. If you don't understand the principle of exchange of interests, you can only enjoy prosperity today and suffer the consequences tomorrow. Even your amazing talents can only be reduced to useless blank paper!

    3. People who mix in officialdom must be careful everywhere and always pay attention. Even if you have been honored for most of your life, if you make a big mistake in the end, your life may be ruined like this. Life is so wonderful. Being a man is like farming, and the final harvest is the standard of evaluation.

    4. Desire - strength = degree of pain. When desire far exceeds strength and cannot be realized no matter what, that is when a person suffers the most, and it is easy to go crazy.

    5. The human nature of disliking the poor and loving the rich promotes social development. If everyone likes being poor and backward, who wants to do manual labor? Who wants to engage in brain creation? Where do you get food, clothing, use and shelter? So society will stagnate, or even regress! Therefore, we should regard disrespecting the poor and loving the rich as a normal phenomenon in society.

    6. Smart people sometimes take the initiative to give up the protagonist's position to others, and they are willing to be supporting roles. This is not a failure. It can even be said that it is a strategic victory. What he has given up is just a false name for a protagonist, but what he won is a real benefit.

    7. There is a saying: "What is called for is what is lacking." Although the Chinese call for moderation, they go to extremes everywhere in real life. Because of this, the country now advocates a harmonious society, and its core meaning is moderation, so that people in the world should not go to extremes and extremes.

    8. To catch a fish, think like a fish. No matter how much you like strawberries, the fish will not pay attention to it; it will only take the bait with the fish's own favorite earthworms.

    9. Don't criticize others in an emotional way, especially pay attention to the facts and avoid evaluating others' personality, interests and family upbringing. Criticism can be more constructive if you can come up with solutions, while not forgetting to affirm the strengths of others. In addition, criticism tends to be more effective when humorous language is used.

    10. The smartest emotional investing skills are helping you get your hands dirty, not icing on the cake.

    11. At the beginning, give your subordinates a slap in the face to let them know how powerful you are, and then slowly relax the scale and let them appreciate your concession and easy-going. This is the management wisdom of the CEO.

    12. No matter how ugly the other party's words are, we must let the other party finish his words and listen to what he wants to express.

    13. Most of relatives and friends can only share weal and woe, but cannot share blessings. Between bosses and employees, most of them can only enjoy happiness together, but cannot share weal and woe.

    14. People are not afraid of not being smart, but they are afraid of being too smart. If you are too smart, you will be blind, you will be arrogant, you will be ignorant, and you will get carried away. At this time, a person who seems to be very smart is actually half a fool! The vast majority of those who suffer from misfortunes in ancient and modern times are shrewd people, and today's people are afraid that they can't be as savvy as they can, this is stupid.

    15. A person who is benevolent to others, don't keep this matter in mind, and don't publicize it for others to praise, then even a bucket of grain can be rewarded with ten thousand buckets. A person who helps others with money and always asks others to repay him, even if he pays 10,000 taels of gold, it is difficult to get a penny of merit.

    16. If 10% profit is reasonable, you can get 11%, but 9% is the best policy, because only in this way will follow-up business flow.

    17. "If you take it from the top, you will get it from it; if you take it from it, you will get it from the bottom; if you take it from the bottom, you won't get anything." This means that if the initial expectation is first-class, the final effect may be only Medium flow; if you expect only the middle flow at the beginning, the final effect can only be the last flow; if you expect only the last flow, you may get nothing in the end.

    18. If you are too brave, you will become reckless; if you are too honest, you will become pedantic; if you are too clever, you will become tactful; if you are too generous, you will become a beggar; if you are too greedy, you will become Corruption-corruption; too much attachment, and lack of heart; too much kindness, and it becomes weakness; too much tyranny, and it becomes domineering; lose your audience.

    19. People who live in confusion are easy to be happy; people who live sober are easy to be troubled. This is because a sober person sees things too clearly, and when he compares the truth, he will be troubled all over his life; while a confused person cares less, and although he lives a simple and rough life, he finds the great taste of life.

    20. The eagle stands as if it is asleep, and the tiger walks lazily and weakly as if it is seriously ill. In fact, this is the clever way for them to eat and eat people. Therefore, truly smart people must not show off or show their talents, so that they can do great things and do great things.