"In IT, we often hear the term mid-life crisis. In fact, this is just a paradigm change that must be experienced in cognitive transformation. There are crises in this world. We all have ways to deal with crises. The so-called mid-life crisis is also It's just a transition period or a low point in the second growth. As long as we strengthen our confidence, we will be able to transform successfully."
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There is no smooth sailing in this world,
The mid-life crisis is actually the least crisis situation
Compared to being trafficked, a mid-life crisis is actually not a crisis. Because it does not fundamentally threaten all of a person's environment, it is just a need to change one's own ideas, from the thinking mode of office workers to the thinking mode of doing business for yourself.
Every one of us has to go through this transitional stage. Unless it is a public institution or a civil servant, he can work for a lifetime without having to consider resignation. Of course, this is not necessarily true. Everyone else will experience a change in cognitive model.
Some people need more time to change because their thinking mode is solidified, but in fact, everyone knows that as long as they are not dead, they will be able to change successfully. Although a few people achieve higher achievements, most people can actually live it. .
If you have confidence in yourself, in fact the so-called midlife crisis is nothing more than alarmism. Whose life has not had ups and downs yet. Excessive emphasis on crisis, but did not see that this may be another opportunity to understand the world, just a sense of tension and fear of consumption, in fact, there is no real value in doing so.
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The life crisis of most people,
Except for death, it will eventually pass.
What is a crisis is when we hope that the future will be better, but we do not believe that we have the ability to maintain it. If we don't have any hope for the future, it is deathly silence, and of course there is no sense of crisis.
So a sense of crisis is actually a good thing, which proves that we are still working hard not to give up. Of course, the friends who have given up should also believe that as long as the hope is not extinguished, no matter how difficult it is, as long as we firmly walk toward the hope, we will eventually gain full. There is a bright future.
Therefore, the midlife crisis is actually a small life process. The character cultivated in the life we have experienced in the past will not be different due to changes in the environment. On the contrary, good character will only be affected by changes in the environment. Become more precious.
Our perseverance, our belief, our bravery, and our non-giving up will all become more profound through changes in the environment of the midlife crisis. The midlife crisis will only allow us to broaden our cognitive boundaries, strengthen our courage, our confidence and hope. So as to continue to happily welcome the next change in direction.
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The midlife crisis is not terrible,
The terrible thing is that we have lost confidence.
We are no longer too worried about the midlife crisis. Because no matter what experience we have, we will learn to be grateful from this world, thanking what we already have, and continuing to love each other in the way that our loved ones like.
After experiencing so many ups and downs, most of us have actually become accustomed to the way in this world. We have all learned a set of methods to manage fear and anxiety, as long as we still believe in wise goodness and love , Life has a bright future.
We should get used to changes as soon as possible and continue to actively change our life style. When we have experienced many active changes, our ability to adapt in all aspects will finally give us a sense of stability, and this underlying sense of stability is The midlife crisis cannot be shaken.
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We can be stable and adapt to various changes
We will understand the operation of this world better
When taking the initiative to change, we must have a sense of crisis. Of course, we will treat everyone with kindness, but we will never forget the imperfections of human beings. When we should be vigilant, we must be vigilant. After all, not everyone is as good-hearted as you.
There are many people who manage well in all aspects, so pay attention to your own principles. Don't underestimate a person's ability to pretend, but also believe that people's ability to make progress is very strong, so change is inevitable.
But we have to believe that people actually have the desire to do good, and we have to cultivate an ability that can inspire the kindness of others and bring real happiness to their lives. We have developed the ability to deal with various situations in order to be able to wisely help the worthy.
Our existence is to make other people's lives better, of course, the premise is that we ourselves must first resist temptation, such as about money, not to be money slaves. Distinguish the difference between hard work and love for money.
We will not worry too much about the mid-life crisis. Our life lies in knowing the world and trying our best to help others in this self-centered world. We must deeply believe that love is the bottom logic of this world.
In this way, as long as we have love, practice it for life, and maintain self-control, there will be a bright future. May your kindness be treated gently by this world, even if you are injured, you will still believe that love is eternal. I firmly believe that each of you will have a happy life. Not to show, but real happiness.