Language is one of the things that sets us apart as beings, one of the things that essentially defines us as humans. When language is used well it can elicit very deep feeling in others, motivate others to action and define the nature of our relationships. Sometimes in poetry the juxtaposition of two words or a certain phrase can bring tears to the eyes, call up a whole host of imagery and move use deeply. We have seen language recently used in the politics of persuasion, used for good or ill -- depending on your viewpoint. When we use language to express our true feelings to someone it can open and deepen the connection between us. Language is a very powerful tool. How we use language shapes our world both internally and externally. How you use self-talk -- what you say to yourself about yourself and about the world directly shapes your experience of both yourself and the world. How you deliver communication shapes the way the world respond to you.
We can use language more effectively in both spheres: internal and external and directly influence the health and power of our personal relationships and our business relationships.
语言是把我们作为人类区分开来的东西之一，是本质上把我们定义为人类的东西之一。当语言很好的被使用时，它能引起别人很深的感情，激起他们采取行动，并定义我们关系的本质。在诗歌中，有时候两个单词的并列或者一个特定的短语都能让人流泪，联想到大量的意象，使人感动。我们已经看到语言最近在劝说政治中使用，无论是好的还是坏的——取决于你的观点。当我们用语言来对某人表达真实的感受时，它能打开和加深我们之间的联系。语言是非常强大的工具。我们如何用语言来塑造我们的世界，无论是在内部还是外部。你如何运用自言自语——你对自己和世界所说的话直接塑造了你对自己和世界的体验。你如何传递塑造了世界对你的反应方式。我们可以更高效的运用语言到我们的圈子中，内部和外部可以直接地影响我们四人关系以及商业关系的强弱和健康。我们可以在两个领域更有效地使用语言：内部和外部，并直接影响我们的个人关系和业务关系的健康和力量。