The reason why people would worry is that memory is good. The mind should not mind will stay in the memory. And we should always remember to forget things, forget to remember things. Why do some people say stupid cute, funny, because he had forgotten his people to ridicule and indifference, forget love and hate this world, forget the secular fame and fortune, forget all this world, so he lived in their own world in arbitrarily happy with, silly smile.
So people would rather make yourself unhappy, but also do not want to fool. If you can remember it should be remembered, and forget what should be forgotten. Or forget the past, as to be able to start a new day, that the more good. However, easier said than done but it is so difficult.
The reason why people feel the pain, is the pursuit of too much. Living life, everything seemed impossible, do not often feel that they are unfortunate, in fact, the world's more than the pain of our people. You know that some will never be able to achieve the ideal, never answer some questions, some stories never end, some people always just familiar stranger, may still be struggling in pursuit, waiting, dreaming.
In fact, pain is not someone bring you, and your own lack of moral cultivation, not necessarily afford. You deliberately simple things look very serious, to think of simple things too complicated, it looks like you will be painful. Learn to lay down, lay down some so-called ideological baggage, comfortable with everything, so everything comes naturally, so you will make yourself comfortable.
The reason why people are not happy, is to care about too much. Not that we have too little, but we care about too much. Do not see other people being happy, and that they kind of sense of loss and depression. In fact, you only see other people's appearances, he had perhaps not as good as you're happy. People's desires are endless, and everyone in the pursuit of high quality of life, everyone wants what she wants, everyone to their own goals, in a busy day, struggle to give up, happy moment, not pain I know.
The world is not perfect things, in fact, is a kind of beauty is not perfect, only in the constant fight, continue to endure failure and frustration when, in order to find happiness.
The reason why people do not know enough, that has a lot of vanity. As the saying goes better than richesBut there are a few people can reach such a state. Not because of what people have too little, but too many want. The wider world of wonders, there are too many temptations, we could not be tempted, do not expect the impossible, not impossible fantasy.
Faced with many temptations, how many people can grasp their own, how many people will not get lost yourself? But then again, with contented heart, which will be self-motivated? Era in the development, life goes on , we need to continue to strive, to seek, if content with the status quo, blindly immersed in their own contentment in, then what lofty ideals and pursuit?
The reason why people are not happy, is not contented heart. Everyone is the same feeling of happiness and requires an easy to meet, know how contented people more likely to be happy. Have seen this sentence: "Happiness is like a pyramid, there are many levels, the higher up the less happiness, happiness is relatively more difficult it is more likely to feel more happiness in the bottom; more from the bottom across. the level, the more intense their happiness. "happiness is a hope, is a spiritual feeling. As long as we are hard to find, hard to feel that you will find happiness actually is all around us, just so happy that we often ignore.
The reason why people live tired, just want too much. Physically tired is not terrible, terrible is the heart tired. Tired heart will affect the mood, will distort the soul, would endanger the physical and mental health. In fact, everyone has been implicate others, the burden of his own time, but some people will timely adjust, and some people have not caught them their music. In this competitive pressures of society, life there are too many problems and troubles, do not want to live a little tired is not realistic.
People of different ages have different mental state, before, our material life is very poor, but the mental state is very good; now, our material lives improve, but may lack the spiritual life. Do every thing is like a dead end, let yourself saddled with a heavy burden of thinking, thoughtful things to consider too, which resulted in us tired of living.
In order to find happiness, we will promise some promise. But when actually do, but we found some promise is hypocritical lie. But guess what hypocrisy is that these kind of liesLet's happiness full of hope and confidence. In fact, commitment and nothing, what is missing is not too, everything of its own fate.
Happiness is their feelings, needs its own carefully to understand. Happy distance, sometimes close, sometimes far away, that just right close, instant still in the horizon. A quiet life as a glass of water, drink up and insipid, do not know exactly what it's pristine just let our happy life, life will know how people taste the sweet and well-being in the flat.
Happiness is such an elusive but also there is real. Of happiness gradually began some perception, people look around, happy smile, but also lonely mood. Look at yourself, not so, there are happy, there are lonely time. Life for several years, is faced with many challenges, there will be a lot of gain and loss, there are many successes and failures.
People will always be contradictory subject, often in hopes of hesitation and confusion, caught in the secular way street, not far away, we can not go back. Who really is a elusive creatures, most only know their own forever.
Life is not smooth sailing, happy to be a day, or a day troubles, then why not let yourself happily live a day?
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