1, the family did not mine for young people, real independence, not wear designer, live Superior Suite, travel abroad everywhere, but a healthy body, a large deposit, good awareness . Can be around people who need help, there are easy to solve the problem of capital, can encounter great difficulties at the time, the ability to get rid of difficulties, rather than go home eating old friends to borrow money or seek help.
2, look to go look under a layer of human skin. For example, people are not necessarily good kisser experienced, there may be talent. But she can make a good kisser [this] judgment, it will certainly experience. Read a person, not to read the surface of his behavior, he must learn to read the underlying logic. It is a real mature.
3, anything that makes you unhappy, as long as you are willing to will away comfortably. You do not stay away from, would have been uncomfortable.
4, cheap things, only at that moment that a single value, using up time did not worry day, good quality stuff, that moment is Routeng money, but very happy with it every day, feeling turned a profit.
5, suddenly grew two moment: one is to lose a person who loves you, and second, to lose the one you love the most.
6, the people who love you there, daring love life.
7, in hate your people there, trying to see the world.
8, encountered "live ETC", by ignoring the like. Some people are like ETC, like, 24 hours are automatically bickering, and this sucker is not on the length of summer insects can not phrase ice, can greatly enhance your well-being index.
9, consciously and constantly optimize the self-sustained.
10, you use the adjective judgment of others, people will often apply to you, is called "involuntary transfer characteristics," people are with each other, so you want people how kind of you, how you would like others. For example, do you think I have the answer to your inspiration, give me a praise, I would think you are very good across the screen, willing to create better content to you in return, I get encouragement, gratitude you get, this is a simple Like a point caused by the action of a win-win.
11, choose to work there are promotion opportunities, select entrepreneurs have an opportunity to get rich, only people caught in the middle of hesitation will not succeed.
12, any unconditional sacrifice and dedication, are affixed cheap label for themselves. Blindly generous pay, will not lead to any respected and looked silly. A spineless one day do not want to help, he will immediately become a great evil; but a wicked big day made a return to good, people will feel that "this is a nice thing."
13, leading the slightest attention to you, what would you be frank, what matter rushing to dry, do you think this is sincere, in fact, this is silly . Do not let yourself become careless workplace. The more people who expose themselves without reservation, the more contempt and leadership beware. First, learn to always reserved 30% of mystery to anyone , I do tell the truth can also be a valued person.
14, the human mind is like a mathematical equation, it is a linear regression. That fixed, that is your own core cognitive thinking, is your side closest to the mean of five people, is whether you are a kind of person.
15, learn, not just shouting slogans.
16, adhere to learn to read and to think independently.
I just go to college, is a waste material, sleep late every day to play games live, then finally want to understand what they want to start a lot of reading, continue reading. A few years later, I saw nearly 500 present (see some fine books, some books will look a little, there is need to look at the part), I am grateful that the book practical vivid case, high-dimensional perception, true It helps me solve a lot of practical problems encountered in daily life and work. If you also want to develop good reading habits, but it does not know what to read, you can focus on my public number ironwood Jun, return books, you can receive one thousand books and my personal quality of books.
17, life is no shortcut.
18, time and time again to force myself to do the impossible, you will become the largest possible.
19, who has a regret, but when the opportunity to do it all over, not many people can grasp.
20, work, give you a thing never come into contact, so that you completed within the specified time, you will be the beginning of a group of ignorant, after a series of crazy looking for information, sets of templates, pieced together could not look works. You will begin to self-doubt, so by the supervisors also discontent even accused. Then you change over and over again, over and not, twice, no one can ultimately make prick finished. This is the growth, growth experience is so built up, no one exception.
21, his face like the same broadcast weather forecasts, so that everyone can see at a glance confront, are generally not far away.
22, most successful people, life smartest thing to do, is to hope and accomplishment scattered all nodes in life, little by little to reach, but not desperate, put all your eggs are packed in a basket.
23, most people learn to listen to the silence, long conversation with a small group of people.
24, your ears to hear, eyes to see, are enough to make you really understand a person. Really allows you to see a person's time, behavior, and his performance when angry.
25, most women would put aside all disguise in front of true love.
26, then do not say dead, absolutely do not do. Treat people good, steady work, when someone stepped on your bottom line, learn to fly him off with a smile. Such people around me, no one will not be respected.
27, if you are an ordinary young man just graduated, neither was not any background connections, to succeed, then do these three things, you can make out the plight of confusion in the workplace accurate, fast, hard to stabilize the heel.
1) Standard: identify the first practice. A careful analysis of future directions, and do a three-year career planning. After looking for direction, during the school recruit, and finding internships where you can really learn something, salary is not important, the work content. In the internship continue to improve their skills and knowledge to improve cognitive thinking, it makes you eat a lot of pain.
2) fast: tough and willing to guide you to find a career mentor. There is guiding people, than blind themselves trying to spend a lot of time to explore much faster. You can indicate severe mistake, and you tell people to do things thinking that allows you to get promoted the highest quality in the shortest time.
3) ruthless: early hours, re-set to reflect, sports and fitness, quit all things physical and mental harm, do apply what they learn.
Less than three years, you the people will look, the successful completion of cross-level upgrade.
28, adult social, hesitation is polite. For example, "I ask you," and "I ask you now" is the two meanings.
29, met her a lot of people might not have the opportunity in this life to meet.
30, teaching is the best school. The fastest way to learn, you learn is to explain to someone else. Because you will be in the shortest possible time, the most streamlined core content expressed, this is the most efficient recovery disk .
31, not to other people care about embarrassing things, as a flavoring agent you chat with people, always talks about.
32, there is no strong heart, do not take interest in a career. Suppose you are interested in cooking, but when interested, you do salty or short, it does not matter, but when the work became a cook, everyone will be judged by your dish, just did not do that bad, so the kitchen will be become a battleground, interest will become torture.
33, received the first reply is a social lesson for adults. Receive information from the first time to reply, if busy or do not want to talk, you can say something, talk to you, so that next time when the chat will not be embarrassed and embarrassing later.
34, a friend of cattle around you, you will not let others look at the high. Big brother is always big brother, you will always be you and only you become powerful, they will you differently.
35, do not be afraid of failure, not just look at the people, will not fail, but not even think about success. The ship was in the port of the safest, but this is not the original purpose of shipbuilding.
It allows you to go further decisive factor of two:
1) innermost desires. What do you want, you want to be in the end what kind of person, constantly analyze their own, get your final demand, rather than the pursuit of material floating on the surface, which is the most basic first step to success .
2) large and effective attempt. Bold, repeatedly attempt. Failure does not matter, analyze the causes of failure, continuous feedback optimization, society is a large field trials, intrinsic motivation is your navigator. Navigator can only be the way, really make you reach the end of is to learn to put down the handbrake grip plate starting to learn to step on oil uphill, around obstacles.
36, do not run to no material basis of marriage. Those eachother got married, and eventually will be daily necessities of life, mortgage, car loan and other press severely friction on the ground, eventually becoming find any. The basic material guarantee, you and three outlooks, character, content partners are fit, the source may have been unswervingly's.
37, the opportunity has been there, do not chase it, let it chase you. You chase the opportunity, if the chance of miscarriage, you also followed it comes to an end. Heart sank, spend time a few years to lay a solid foundation own, may not be jumped on, but in this life you will not be missing opportunities.
38, when all your happiness and sadness, but because the appearance or disappearance of a person, then you lose from TA is a step closer . Because you have already lost self, it is no longer attractive.
39, adequate sleep is the body best security, it will not let you do things hit within 8 hours.
40, learn to agree is the greatest virtue, when you see a good answer, point a praise agrees is the best virtue.
41, a girl greatest success, not selected blue chip stocks, but to become potential shares. Then good boys, you can not keep up with his pace of growth will only make you more and more obvious height difference, ready to be thrown. Always strive to improve ourselves stay awake at ease, you can bluff their own at the crucial moment. No hard and fast love, only the flow of the conservation of the heart.
42, from a low of ordinary people to sit high, generally superior to others, trying to figure out to learn his strengths, its essence, even if you could not understand how he was.
43, is the core of efforts to solve most problems.
When I began college, I was a waste material, playing the game up late every day, then finally want to understand what they want to start a lot of reading, continue reading. In college, when students around very confused when I get up at 6:00 every morning, running to the playground, and then go to the library, the day after class, back to the dorm to open a computer for writing, one year wrote 300,000 words, knock bad two keyboards, have refused from the submission of each contributor to "China Youth magazine" 6 from 6 in. Now he graduated less than two years, I successfully founded two culture media companies.
I still firmly believe:. "Self-discipline who go free, by virtue of the extent of most people's efforts, fail to get much time to fight talent" If you want to grow together and iron wood monarch, I would like to become self-regulation, cell phones and quit game, trying to develop a good habit, you can focus on my public number ironwood Jun, respond better, get my years of accumulated experience and knowledge, I taught you how not painfully self-discipline and early hours, easy to form good habits persistent efforts.
44, only the passage of time, will not let you grow. Determine whether a person is mature, do not look at age, but by nature of mind.
45, people's income growth is not linear, but exponential growth. Not because wages have not increased dramatically within one year, I felt the ceiling work, no future. Most people believe one thing is missing, and the ability to adhere to the long-suffering. As long as continue to accumulate a large enough base, when it comes to your own life turning point, your income will achieve explosive growth.
46, really makes you grow, those that make you afraid to escape the pain of something.
47. There is no same kind of bitter, people only suffer clear. When no ability to provide practical help, not to judge others encounter casually, advising people to understand. Needle did not tie to your body, you can not imagine how painful.
48, with colleagues always retained a safe distance by step. Colleagues are not friends, because of the presence of the interests of the people will become defensive. Today you still wine and song, because it may become outdone work tomorrow.
49, give yourself set up "imaginary situation." Everything, have done the best preparation for the worst. Imagine yourself experiencing more difficult times, how to deal with, listed several specific response options, so that when things are really bad suddenly, you will become the fastest response that one.
50, the real reason many people know, do and do well, the difference lies in the execution. After understand the essence of a thing, coupled with efficient execution, it is your first step to a successful close.
51, self-extracting people will be able to go further. Some people reading very powerful, but it is a test case of insomnia, leading to performance loss. Ability is very important, it will relieve the pressure, so the ability to better release and more important.
52, away from the people to resist so that you give up life. Quit smoking itself is not difficult, the difficulty is to resist the repeated advise you to others a passion. Make your circle of friends, determines your level of life. Stay away from those lazy, self-abandoned people, and more self-motivated to make friends, you will be influenced by them, naturally become full of positive energy and power.
53, saw the life of crushing happiness. 100 million prize, a monthly income of 100,000, live in 200 square meters big house, just bursting with a sense of longing for such a happy, make you ignore the small indeed fortunate in life. You get home from work a table of hot dishes, brown sugar, a cup of water when the uncomfortable, you have been waiting a mechanical keyboard, these tiny patchwork happiness, in fact most people a lifetime of pleasure composition.
54, do not like you ≠ never like you , love is dynamic, caring people will open a window. Do not be afraid, we must boldly pursue favorite girl, miss even worse than mistakes.
55, most of the really good people who have a sense of justice, almost all relatively low-key because of their sense of proportion and principles, not good talk, do not blame Yizhengciyan others, not just to maintain the non-normal means. Not met the right thing, would prefer to quietly resolve not pull hate attack, not when the keyboard Man, so they often thankless thing to do, but because no big crusade together with pseudo-justice be attacked. But this man once mastered the right to speak, often far-reaching impact than leaving a lot of people, because they are for the people and things around, responsible enough, true enough.
56, you want to change, not from now on, will never start. Can see here, that you are a good thinker, because you've been thinking about and digest these reasons, the next step is determined to act only. Change themselves, to start with the first step in answering this point like a start! You have learned and came to realize the flexible use of the life.
The last one I always send you liked the words: "Your ideas will greatly affect your behavior when your brain tells you." Can not do ", but you still choose to act, the result will begin to change.
