A successful man, must have done something right before success!
A person's success, it must be against what was going on, in line with the work of some of the laws was successful, he might not notice!
- old boy Quotations
Everyone is doing their own beliefs and values service that only meet the needs of people of faith and values, that people will play to their ability, that beliefs and values determine whether a person's ability to be able to play.
Issues such as weight loss, it is known to make a fat person lose weight too difficult, not many people can easily lose weight successfully, successful people who can lose weight must be reshaped's own values, that is, aware of the weight loss What are the benefits of their own, ? For example: healthier, more beautiful, more confident. If a fat man thinks his current situation very well (also values the same), it will not produce weight loss of power and action.
But if there is reward and punishment, then, limit weight loss success is reward, punishment has failed, it will form a values, think about what the real benefits of weight loss after the (health, charm, self-confidence) is also a value to myself.
Values meet the more intense, the results easier to achieve; meet other people's values, others generating capacity and actions you want to meet their own values, their own actions will have what you want, from multiple perspectives to meet a person values, and the person's ability to act will play a more thorough (and playing chicken blood), of course, the benefits of this weight loss may be known of.
Above it shows the beginning of the old boy's sentence: a man successful, it must be done on what was going on, in line with a certain regularity of doing things was successful, he might not observe sleep ! - Old Boy
But from a psychological perspective, people have to make a move and you want to have good results, in fact light meet his values, but had instilled in them the belief, that is, to solve his success and believe they can lose weight good for their own belief.
For example: to find a weight loss success story to tell him how to do to lose weight 50 pounds, would greatly strengthen their faith must lose weight. Let them talk about the state of health after weight loss, confident attitude, bring yourself and the people around more pleasure and comfort, thus confirming that they have to be able to lose weight and lose weight, this is faith. In fact, self-confidence, I believe there is a successful conviction, as well as full support of values, this action would have a weight loss, and probably there will be good results, the last wish them a successful weight loss!
To sum up, old boy give you an analysis of the basic law of psychology that a person's beliefs and values and determine a person's ability to act, if the person is not in the beliefs and values, even if it will not have the ability to play with the ability to not act.
Articles tail, old boy monkey climbing a tree to get a banana off for everyone in the metaphor a bit, so that we understand and use this methodology.
Values : let the monkeys know the trees are bananas (monkey demand in like bananas ).
Faith: monkeys believe bananas in a tree (monkeys have the ability to climb trees ).
Capacity : monkeys have the ability to (climb trees produce action).
Let the monkey get banana, have to meet the values and beliefs, at the same time, the monkey itself has the ability to climb trees, in addition, the monkeys will not climb trees.