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Recently due to physical discomfort in the hospital for a week, has never been hospitalized this week, I feel quite slow too long, anxious to see my wife, she has comforted me in the side.
Patients with room also chatted with each other day, his wife is a "chatterbox" and who has a topic, and I really like a man alone, let alone because I have a lot of time to think about their own.
In the same house he lived four patients, so I met with them in a few days with a number of different sentiment:
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One bed is a 60-year-old uncle, live in when I just had surgery, had lived for a week in the hospital courtyard, · estimate that it will stay for some time.
Nursing is the uncle of his wife, meticulous care, very careful, changing the law every meal prepared for him to eat. That is just something your uncle, his wife to go back and deal with it, then find a temporary close relatives to take care of his uncle.
Uncle to take care of this man greater than he, come talk with an empty bed asleep, all after noon and it still did not give his uncle ready to eat. Can not move because of his surgery, he booked a meal on the phone.
And other food to the people who take care of his uncle woke up, they eat together. After dinner he took advantage of the chance to throw in lunch boxes, uncle to his wife called and said on the phone to let her come soon. The aunt on the phone may ask how, uncle vague about her relatives to take care of okay hung up the phone.
Aunt got off the phone quickly came to say thank relatives let him return home.
Others go, uncle said: "I have no water this morning drink" and then quickly went to fight aunt hot water, and then to change clothes, they began meticulously cared for.
And other uncle lying on the bed of their own, said the sentence: "hey, or his wife okay."
He finished these words, many of us laughed.
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The 2nd bed live in the age of 70, just live here when there is no deep impression, but soon discovered that this one is very characteristic.
Old hand finished to the ward after surgery to take care of two people, one is the old man of his wife and the other is old girl, two men on a watch face that feels good to get along with.
Soon the two men began to attack each other.
When the girl is not in the house, the wife began to say all kinds of bad girl on the other person's bed.
When his wife is not in the house, the girl began to say all kinds of bad for the wife of another man's bed.
Say scandalous, linen, but for them it is not reserved, spade, what are ugly Wang Chu violence.
They attack each other by learned this after his wife and elderly people to come together, living together for 13 years.
Due to the demolition suburban places, the old man of the house may be imposed to accompany the money, so the girl would leave no stone unturned trying to get rid of the old man's wife.
The rest of us feel this girl is somewhat too!
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Three bed lived in a 50-year-old uncle, had just finished hernia surgery to live in the ward.
The beginning of this uncle of his wife and son-girl and take care of him, but soon his uncle's wife, " thrust " home. His wife said she took care enough, let their daughter and son-impact work.
Daughter wanted to stay to take care of his father, but his mother insisted that they go. After the two men left, the girl returned to his wife to call him to let her Do not tell anyone sick things.
The aunt told us, explains: "Everyone is busy, I heard you're sick, do not be afraid if you pick arguments, if the still want to buy things and to give money, it also favors too much trouble, and we can get sick on their own I can take care of. "
Think carefully aunt said quite justified, whether relatives or friends in some cases, do not bother to respect is the best way.
During this period there is a small story, as long as the aunt out of the ward for some time, give her a call, said the uncle wound pain, as long as the aunt came back he was sitting next to him It does not hurt anymore.
After a few uncle aunt said: "You can really tinkling Joseph, I go to call you sore, I come back to you It does not hurt anymore."
" I think you're vain shortage heart ," his uncle said.
" This shortage of what you are an old married couple ," the aunt said, laughing.
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Sentiment
通过这三个病友的接触让我感觉到一个人到了晚年还是与自己的结发妻子感情最亲密，那种感情跟自己的儿女都没有那种亲密感。也许就这是所谓少来夫妻老来伴吧。半路走到一起的夫妻也有感情好的，但是相对的会少一些，大多的半路走到一起的那些人在一起都是各有目的，互相堤防，何谈真感情呢。
不管多么幸福的家庭多多少少都会有一些矛盾或者问题，但这都是内部“矛盾”一定不要家丑外扬，肉烂也要烂在锅里。就像2号床那家一样，“勇”于自暴家丑，这勇气真的可嘉，对于听者来说除了对这一家印象降低外没有其它任何好感。
另外，能自己解决的事情尽量不要求人帮助，其实求人的成本有时是很高的。
夫妻之间多相敬如宾，互相包容，互相体贴，互相照顾，这样越老彼此才会越有依靠。两个人在一起久了磕磕绊绊很正常，不是爱情或感情变淡，而是变成了生活习惯。不是不知道感恩、回报，也不是为了索取。只是各自在默默的为了这个家守护奉献着。
两个人在一起久了，就习惯了相互依赖。时间磨合掉了当初的激情。慢慢的，爱情兴许就转变成了亲情。但爱情从坎坎坷坷中走到今天，唯一不变的是感情。
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留别妻
【作者】苏武 汉代
结发为夫妻，恩爱两不疑。
欢娱在今夕，嬿婉及良时。
征夫怀远路，起视夜何其？
参辰皆已没，去去从此辞。
行役在战场，相见未有期。
握手一长叹，泪为生别滋。
努力爱春华，莫忘欢乐时。
生当复来归，死当长相思。
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Yin Yunfei pseudonym of blossoms also silent, undergraduate and graduate graduated from the Northeast Agricultural University and Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications, is currently engaged in software development for many years. Like creative writing, freelance writer. It has opened a personal micro signal, Jane books and columns Today's headlines column number. A weekly original articles, a monthly book review, uninterrupted ....................