"I think, you think ..." From other people's perspective, "you think, you think ..."
There is a cold that makes your mother feel cold.
There is a kind of simplicity that makes you feel simple.
Projection effect refers to the tendency to attribute one's own characteristics to other people. When recognizing and forming an impression on others, they think that others have similar characteristics to themselves, and project their feelings, wills, and characteristics onto others and impose them on others, that is, pushing themselves and their cognitive impairments .
Do n’t judge lightly without experience.
You think it is simple, maybe you have experienced it, and people who come over are naturally easy to judge;
but more often you have never experienced it, just think that it is self-imagination. The simple thing you think is because you have not suffered and have not taken the position of the other party. I have thought about it;
pushing yourself and others, the things that you find difficult may be in the eyes of others, but it may be countless obstacles to your decision and execution, but you ca n’t talk to people;
I think. . . And I think, I think. . . Is a commonly used language, but also a habit.
Think about it all the time, think from the standpoint of different stakeholders, and then think and think that this is a safe way of expression.
But sometimes more often, I just look at the people and things that happen from my own standpoint and angle:
"Isn't it just a matter of raising your hand; isn't it just a little accommodating? Isn't it just something that moves your mouth ... "..."
and then came to a conclusion "why can't you do it; why can't you open your mouth; why can't it be like this ...
It seems that everything is so simple and logical, but who can understand the situation of the parties, really so simple, why bother so.
Understanding is not an empty talk, not only do you think that others should understand you, but also that you should understand others first.
What you have to understand is: not everyone ’s affairs are around you, you have troubles, not everyone should help you get rid of difficulties and solve problems freely and selflessly, not everyone like “I think” To support you, always be ready to serve you.
Understanding is the part of love, not understanding is the part. There is no reason, only to understand first.
There is nothing to take for granted, nothing "I think, I think ..."
