"You Are the Designer of Your Own Destiny" main content introduction: Are people's wealth predetermined? Is longevity predetermined? Is there no way for everyone to change their own destiny? It is false to say that this person was a provincial governor when he was born, that he was a minister when he was born, and that this person was a beggar when he was born, and I do not believe it. There are two sentences in the "Book of Changes", "A family that accumulates good deeds will have surplus blessings; a family that accumulates bad deeds will have surplus disasters." We see a lot of people who have three ups and downs , speak their hearts, have nothing to do with gods, have nothing to do with feng shui, and have something to do with their own behavior. The eyes must learn to laugh, the mouth must speak kind words, and the ears must be able to listen to good words and distinguish evil words. The most important thing is to always be kind to people and think about the benefits of others. This is called gathering light. If you want to have a good destiny, you must manage the three cornerstones of maintaining family relationships. That is, the love of husband and wife , the love of brothers and sisters , and the love of filial piety to parents. Home and prosperity, this is the key to our destiny.