Ant gold clothing Peng Lei has said that Alibaba's talent, in addition to the common wisdom, optimism, self-reflection capacity and other conventional items, there is a - rugged.
What is rugged? The word school named resisting ability, resilience and can withstand the pressure and frustration. Think about it, rugged people are not necessarily able to achieve great things, but great things must be very rugged.
"Flat head man" before the fire, is characterized by rough skin and flesh, grumpy, it can be regarded as synonymous with rugged animal kingdom, whether beast or serpent can not kill. So back to our lives, in the end is how rugged kind of person do?
Rugged no evident, but he had the opposite of - heart of glass, first declare some people say that this feature is not bad, but it is a necessary part of the workplace. Who has a glass heart when, especially in our entering the workplace, sometimes very hard to do something right, but because there is no focus or find out when the customer does not accept, often heartbreaking a glass, a few days the mood is not. Treated glass heart of people, we are always to be careful, for fear of say heavy, but this is often the result of the passage of time, not that hypocritical he is no longer wanted to guide him, in the workplace, was abandoned mentor is very scary the one thing that will take a lot of detours.
After a short glass heart for some time after, many people soon became more familiar rhythm of work, spontaneous beginning rugged up valuable point this time is that: to truly appreciate encountered suffering and frustration can not be avoided, but we can continue to learn from suffering, make up your own, no need to be unhappy at work and affect mood, on the contrary, these pressures and suffering like a dumbbell, the more pressure the more our muscles stronger, which is also called - - did not kill me will make me stronger.
In fact, this rugged operation that is not hard, in fact, we have to do is just change the mentality, we need to recognize: difficulties will not disappear because of our glass heart, a cry for longer fall still have to get up and go.
Rugged How important is it in the end?
1. Normal "absorb" better: compared to vulnerable people, at least I prefer to guide a rugged man, because you go to point out his shortcomings when not brain through roundabout, more directly, without fear of harm to his strike such guidance "overkill" is often better than to go beyond the effect is more in place. Like fitness, if a person never muscle strain, it is simply hanging open.
2. easy to become core team: We have not seen the team leader often made little temper, and had to trouble the? I guess not, in general we prefer to make a rugged man with the team, at least when the pressure hit, there is a core team can stop in high winds, brought up a group of people around.
3. stabilizing: the workplace in fact, there are many uncertainties player, is a lot of things to him, in addition to do is hit the run, and the general situation does not exist, and they are compared to a lot of people are more affected by Riding Welcome, a good person, whether under pressure or low pressure in the high pressure environment, can maintain normal levels of delivery, to ensure that no mistakes, on this basis, have excellent impulse may, in modern society, we prefer no surprise polarization do not want to have to gamble on him today a good state.
For life is keep practicing, from the frivolous to become stable. Not because someone else a compliment and carried away, not because something is not done well and been criticized unhappy. Experience storms, people put themselves into a Rain or shine, the heart aware of their status, regardless of wind and rain outside, I do not move from leisurely, and this is the rugged state.
When we are in the sea, it is conceivable, although surging sea, but a large body of water in the sea, but still.
Author: MindChen
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