How to make a perfect man

To be a man, to be a mature man, to be a man of shrewdness 

suddenly felt that I was no longer the self when I was young. You should face up to the chattering of your wife, the chattering of your leader, the sparseness of your colleagues, and the giggling of your classmates and friends. 

I read a post about men, and I thought it was very good. I took it over and encouraged myself, and at the same time, I encouraged my friends and men who can read this article. 

Who said it, a person's maturity is directly proportional to his emotional intelligence, and the probability of a person's success is also proportional to his emotional intelligence. 

One: Calm 
(1) Don't show your emotions casually. 
(2) Don't tell everyone about your difficulties and experiences. 
(3) Think for yourself, but don’t speak first, before asking for the opinions of others. 
(4) Don't nag your dissatisfaction every chance you get. 
(5) Important decisions should be discussed with others as much as possible, and it is best to publish them every other day. 
(6) Don't panic when speaking, even when walking. 
(7) Confidence is good, but don't ignore anyone's ideas. 
(8) No one is high or low, don't be a drag, don't forget to be polite to people and things. You are not better than anyone. 

Two: Be careful 
(1) Always think about the causal relationship of things happening around you. 
(2) For problems that are not in place, we must discover their fundamental crux. 
(3) There should be suggestions for improvement or optimization of the accustomed way of doing things. 
(4) Be orderly and orderly in everything you do. 
(5) Often look for a few faults or drawbacks that others can't see. 
(6) You should make up for the deficiencies anytime, anywhere. 

Three: Courage 
(1) Do not use words that lack self-confidence. 
(2) Don't always go back and overturn what has been decided easily. 
(3) When people are arguing, don't lose your mind. 
(4) When the overall atmosphere is low, you should be optimistic and sunny. 
(5) Do everything with care, because someone is watching you. 
(6) When things don't go well, take a breath, look for a breakthrough again, and end it neatly. 

Four: Generous 
(1) Don't deliberately turn someone who may be a partner into an opponent. 
(2) Don't care about other people's small mistakes and mistakes. 
(3) Be generous with money and learn the three kinds of giving (wealth giving, law giving, and fearless giving). 
(4) Do not have the arrogance of power and the prejudice of knowledge. 
(5) Any achievements and achievements should be shared with others. 

Five: Integrity 
(1) Don't say what you can't do, and try to do it when you say it. 
(2) Do not talk about false slogans or slogans often. 
(3) Stop all "immoral" means. 
(4) Play tricks, it's bad! 

Six: Responsibility 
(1) When reviewing any mistakes, first start to reflect on yourself or your own people. 
(2) After the matter is over, first examine the fault, and then list the credit. 
(3) A plan should coordinate the overall situation and plan the future. 
(4) Have the courage to take responsibility for the losses caused. 

Seven: Connotation 
(1) Learn all aspects of knowledge and observe things around you with an open mind. Broad horizons. 
(2) Know yourself and cultivate your own aesthetic. 
(3) Laugh at life. Laziness is a must. Develop healthy habits. 
(4) Don't do anything blindly. Have goals. 
(5) Not only focus on inner beauty, outer beauty is also very important. 
(6) Don't face the computer all day and play with boring things. 
(7) Rational judgment and learn to control emotions.