Ssh connection with the operation of a graphical interface really is not good, although the command faster, but can not remember many commands.
first step:
sudo apt-get install xfce4
Step two:
sudo apt-get install vnc4server
The installation is complete start the service
vnc4server
Window system connected with the need to install a further client, VNC viewer can download the official website
Connection [just below demonstrates, using their own specific ip, Figure 3 is returned fancy]:
192.162.11.1:3
If you have not previously set a password, the password is ssh login password.
[The next section about how to set up VNC viewer boot from the start]