Dealing with others is a life-long compulsory for everyone, especially the young in today's complex relationships frequent exchanges of society even more so. Xiaoge cloud off to friends to provide comprehensive "approach principles learned how to deal with people," the right to make start a discussion. Sincerely I wish my friends interpersonal handy both ways!
1, with regard to other people's troubles: that is certainly not trouble yourself to trouble others.
2, on the beneficial own problems: it is not beneficial to their own benefit others. So we must try to do too much trouble to others and yourself too much trouble. It is necessary to promote ourselves but also beneficial to others. The secret of doing things, probably lies in how to regulate the balance.
3, reservations: too much useless dispute any errors conservation and because they own. In general, should in no hurry to show their attitude or comments, make people uncertain. Prudent silence is wise to avoid.
4, know yourself: the promotion of their most prominent talent, culture and other aspects. As long as understand their own strengths and seize it, all the people will be prominent in something.
5, is not an exaggeration: exaggeration undermine real, and people are likely to think of you doubt. Smart who restrain themselves, showing cautious attitude, speak succinctly, is not an exaggeration to elevate themselves. Overestimate their own is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation, have a very bad impact on the environment of your relationships. And beneath your elegance and intelligence.
6, adapt to the environment: survival of the fittest, do not spend too much energy on errands, to maintain a good relationship between colleagues. Do not show off every day, otherwise I would be boring for you. We must make certain people always feel strange. Show a little every day to keep people who would expect, not bury your talent.
7, learn from each other: learn the strengths of others to make up for their deficiencies. In exchanges with friends in, use the humble and friendly attitude towards everyone. The friends as teachers, will be useful knowledge and humorous words together, your words will certainly be commended, given you hear is knowledge.
8, concise: simple and can make people happy, people like it, make it easier to accept. Speak lengthy burden, lead to a loss, ad nauseam, and you will reach the goal. Concise, clear voice, you will definitely Feats half times.
9, never arrogant: his own long outside still talking, often show off their advantages in front of others. This invisible belittle others and raise their own, the result is to make more people look down on you.
10, never complain: complain will make you lose credibility. When what you do not succeed, to admit his own shortcomings, and try to make things a successful day. Moderate to review their own, and does not make people look down on you, on the contrary always stressed the objective reasons, complain about it, complained that only make people despise you.
11, do not lie, promises: to lie to friends and colleagues will lose the trust of friends and colleagues, make friends, colleagues from trust you, this is your biggest loss. Avoid talk big, say to do, can not be done rather not say.
12. speak to be careful, think less. Speak Happily, patience, "how to say" than "what to say" is more important.
13. Do not criticize others, criticize without any benefits, will only increase the resentment of others.
14. Do not miss the opportunity to praise others. Whoever is doing good work done, do not begrudge the praise.
15. gives a sincere concern, so that each person feel that he met you (she) is important.
16. To try to meet the demands of others. What if the world's ability to be a successful decision, then, is that you can capture their point of view, learn from each other's point of view the problem, just from your own point of view, like, learn empathy. The desire to provoke each other's needs, and then tell him how to do it.
17. The full of energy, upturned mouth. The pain, sorrow and despair hidden behind a smile.
18. The disputed Keep an open mind. Discussion without quarrel, disagreement owned by different, friend or friends.
19. do not listen do not pass through the grapevine. Make it a rule, do not say behind people, unless something good to say.
20. considerate of the feelings of others. Laugh, will be worth the candle, and may cause unexpected damage.
21. Do not you care about other people's scathing comments, learn to transcend.
22. no hurry to expect anything in return, to help others and get the best return as pleased.
23. keep its promise: said we should do, do not say, say it now must do, word, Sima difficult to recover this gentleman also, to remember a word:. "Is a promise use the action to be cashed. "
24. learn to treat people: how you want others to treat you, you have to first learn how to treat others, to the heart than the heart, can get the whole world, for others lit a lamp, others will you lit a fire.
25. respect for others: respect for others, others will respect you, there is no noble personality, there is no noble cause, there is no noble personality, there is no noble destiny of man will face. tree to the skin, do not fight face beatings, curse not Jieduan, revisit annoys you.
26. learn to be tolerant: open-minded as the sea, such as conservation broad and deep body of water, can melt all the ice tolerance, tolerance can let you have a the vast sky, forgiving others is forgiving yourself "be tolerant to diversity, tolerance is a big" to learn to treat people generous, endure a gentleman who can not endure, tolerate that can not be accepted, not at the people at the "...
27. learn to praise: Yes how much your criticism, praise more than others, humble people will get the respect and admiration of others.
28. Zhicuojiugai: mistake, The wrong change, do not Siyaomianzai, right is right, wrong is wrong, does not cover Dade small, should have the courage to face, dare to admit, be corrected to remedy the situation, especially late also.
29. not the villain: do not learn to small people, tricks too much, lost his tail, unjust, doomed to destruction playing with fire gets burned.
30. Gratitude: to learn to repay the debt, drip grace Yongquan phase reported, this is the principle of doing things, not ungrateful.
31. fortitude tact: tact when dealing with others and fortitude properly handle the relationship between the water is clear and there are no fish, were clever and has no.
32. the man should not be too Jedi: ways of the world, can be described as complex, fast-changing, therefore, deal with any people and things, leaving a line in Dujiangyan City, which put a horse is a horse put, do not be too mean, or else do not leave the slightest favor, "the mountain will not turn the water turn "," human left line, good to meet the future. "that is the truth.
33, far-sighted: When Live long to think of poverty, it is very easy to do. Smart man-made winter preparations. Be sure to make friends. Maintaining relationships between colleagues, friends, and one day you will value it seems does not seem important to people or things.
How personal behavior and lifestyle advice:
to others than they expect more, and do and do
not cronies everything you hear, do not spend all that you do not sleep as long
Whenever you say "I love you", please say.
Whenever you say "I'm sorry", please look into each other's eyes.
I believe in love at first sight.
Never ignore someone else's dream.
Love deeply and passionately, you may get hurt, but this is the only way to make a full life.
To resolve the dispute in a clear way, not to offend.
Never judge a book. She said slowly, but think quickly.
When someone asks you do not want to answer, smile and say; "Why do you want to know?"
Remember those who dare to take risk will gain the deepest love and the supreme accomplishment.
My mother up the phone. If not, at least I think of her
when someone sneezes say, "Buddha bless."
If you fail, do not forget the lessons learned.
Remember the three "respects", respect yourself, respect others, stand on dignity and pay attention to your behavior.
Do not let a little dispute undermined a great friendship.
Whenever you find yourself wrong, and do everything we can to make it right. Be quick.
Whenever a call, pick up the smile when you, because someone can feel!
Find a person who likes talking marriage, because when the older of the future, you will find that chatting is the biggest advantage of a person.
Find time alone for a while.
Life will change, but you do not abandon your personal philosophy.
Remember that silence is golden.
Read more books and watch less TV.
Live a good, honorable life. When you think about the past from the time of old age, you will enjoy life at once.
Trust God, but do not forget to lock the door.
Harmonious family atmosphere is amazing.
Try your best to let family harmony.
When you and someone close to you quarrel, try the sake of discussion, not pulled that Chen sesame rotten corn
not hold onto yesterday.
More attention to the implication.
Share your knowledge with others, that timeless!
Do not fool our mother.
Do your own thing to do.
Do not kiss without closing their eyes.
At least a year to go to a place you've never been.
If you make a lot of money on charitable deeds while alive of. So you can get the best return.
Remember, not all the best harvest is luck.
Understand the rules and reasonable to update them.
Remember: the best relationship is to love others unconditionally rather than make demands on others.
Look back at the goals you swear was taken, and then judge how successful it in the end.
Whether Hang tune or love, we must give 100% effort, but do not, of seeking too much in return.
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