Make an active person
Challenge themselves, to develop their own potential
I was in Apple's work, one day, the boss suddenly asked me when I could take over his job? I was very surprised, and said he like him lack of management experience and ability. But he said that these experiences can be developed and accumulated, and I hope he can do it in two years. With such tips and encouragement, I began to consciously strengthen their own learning and practice in this area. Sure enough, after two years, I really took over his job.
Beat around the bush, insincere, the results of a waste of everyone's time is valuable. Indecisive, for fear of saying the wrong thing, the result is becomes timid coward. Worse, some people, do not say face to face behind Luanjiang,
Objective, straightforward communication
Learn to cherish life on campus
The development of science and technology with each passing day. The purpose of studying in these schools, in fact, to grasp the basic learning tools and methods. The future use of these tools and methods, go to learn new things. For example: class learned C ++, Java can learn yourself? Lessons learned HTML, XML can learn yourself? Not so much to college to learn a profession, as it is to learn how to learn, so that they can "self-taught."
I think, in general, work from the students is a good thing, is a way to broaden the field of view. For example: working in research institutions, we can learn the latest technology; working in product sector, can learn techniques and skills development; work in the marketing department, you can understand the operation of business. I believe that every student should have the experience to work, but do not play some "useless work." We must first understand that work is only a supplement student life, learning is the most important. The purpose of the work is to broaden their horizons, not the work ahead of time. If you translate the book, entered into the database it takes time to devote to study the future can make more money. The money is to go far beyond the current wage income.
What you want to wear a hat Dr.
When I entered the PhD study at Carnegie Mellon University, Dean had told me, when you get your PhD, you should become a research field you are engaged in the world of experts. This sentence for me fledgling just out of reach, but also let me smug, try it. So, after five years read it slowly, day and night after work, he would expect result so naturally emerged. A person intends PhD, you should give yourself set a high goal. If there is no ambition, they do not self-deception, and perhaps do business or engage in other work, there will be greater achievements.
After aims, I suggest you design a plan three years of study and research for themselves. First, you need a thorough understanding of others in related fields existing work and achievements. And then put forward their own ideas and opinions, to do the work down to earth. In addition, the latest research progress in this area but also keeps track of. The only way we can stay focused, avoid duplication of work, to focus on the most valuable research.
In academia, it is generally considered "a great day." You can see how great mentor in your growth path in effect yes. So, you should take the initiative to find their own areas of research where the best teacher. In addition to your teacher, you should go to ask for advice from experts all around. Do not forget to ask for advice more often go to the "most knowledgeable teacher" - Internet! Now, almost all of the papers, research results, advanced ideas can be found online. I also encourage you to send e-mail directly to consult some of the world recognized experts and professors. In my experience, for such messages, most of them will soon get back to you.
I have more than once wondered if he had done really successfully. But one day, a result made in the middle of the night three points when I feel the taste of success. Later, research progress has been rapid, instructors are beginning to use my research methods. I made my doctoral dissertation research as one of the natural language research was the most influential work.
In a certain sense, a person who intends to engage in research work for a lifetime, then from the habits of work during his doctoral formed, research methods and ways of thinking basically you can determine the outline of his future work. So, make sure you do a "Kind", make full use of the time in school, to lay the foundation for their future.
How to improve the personal qualities
Honesty and integrity
Awareness training initiative
Objective, direct exchange and communication
Challenge themselves, life-long learning
Emotional intelligence and leadership
What is emotional intelligence?
conscious
empathy
Self-discipline
Self-discipline must be based on good faith
Relationships
Good to Great
Modest progress.
Dedication means that we adhere to the correct direction, staunch determination and will.
Winners need to have enough courage to face the challenge.
Successful, confident, happy
Successful first step: to grasp goal in life, to be a proactive person
Successful Step Two: Try new areas to explore your interests
Successful third step: for interest, set milestones, step by step forward
Finally, once again remind the students, the goal is yours, only you know what you need.
Self-confidence is not the conscious pride
Confident people dare to try new areas, to develop their interests and talents faster, more likely to succeed. Confident people are happier, because he will not worry about the time and beware of failure.
Many people think that success is self-confidence. Old was a student first, he has self-confidence. An employee always been promoted, he also has confidence. But this is only successful unified and centralized self-confidence.
The first step in self-confidence: Do not underestimate yourself, give yourself pep
Chinese people believe that education is a process of continuous growth to overcome the shortcomings, so the teacher is more criticizing students, for students to make up for the worst discipline. Although each department should have learned "good enough", but the value of talent is to fully achieve their full advantage. US Gallup recently out of a best-selling book "Now, explore your advantage."
Confident Step 2: perseverance, courage, self-confidence from the success in obtaining increased from conscious fail in
Confident third step: consciously set specific goals, humbly listen to other people's assessment
Happiness is more important than success
Happy first step: accept your parents, the environment, they are not happy for some people always frustrating thing sulking, not like their parents and teachers, do not want to read boring books, reluctant to meet the test. For these frustrating thing, I hope the students can learn to accept them frankly.
Happy Step two: give vent to your emotions, control your temper
Happy Third step: Some people share their happiness is doubled, someone to share the pain halved
Chinese students blessings
I have always believed in doing things the following three principles: the courage to change what can be changed, there is a measure of acceptance can not change things, the wisdom to know the difference.
Blessing Chinese students, when you encounter setbacks, can use these three principles to measure, courage and wisdom to help you ride out the storm.
Blessing Chinese students, when you pursue a successful, confident, happy, do not forget that success is diversified, do not forget the self-confidence is conscious and not arrogant, do not forget the happy people always understand, accept and love yourself.
Blessing Chinese students, when you step by step to be successful, confident, happy, you will find a virtuous circle: get confident and happy in the success, to be happy and confident in the success, successful and happy in confidence from.
Blessing Chinese students, when you have a successful, confident, happy after, do not forget to help others succeed, confidence and happiness.
Fourth letter to the Chinese students: four years of college should be spent this way
February 2005
Today, I reply to the first question since 1000, "Kai-Fu Student Network" opened. After turn off the computer, students always have a letter from lingering in my mind, lingering:
Kai-fu teacher:
To graduate.
Looking back at the so-called college life,
I want to cry, not because of parting, but since have learned nothing.
I do not know, how to write resumes, if ever I'll leave it blank.
Perhaps the greatest achievement is to have nothing ...... patience and adaptation ......
This letter points to a number of junior and senior students of voice. During college, many students indulge themselves, wasted time, there are always many students can not find the right direction of learning. When they were first wake-up make-up notification when they receive your first letter from the applicants declined enterprise, was surprised to find these students, their future is so uncertain, all efforts seem to be too late ......
People entering the university campus should master the seven learning: learning self-study of the road, basic knowledge through practice, interested in culture, pro-active, control the time, dealing with others. Just do this seven, the biggest gains when students came to graduation will never be "nothing for patience and adaptation," and should be "what can be some confidence and desire." As long as seven do this, you can become a potential, thinking, valuable, promising a happy graduates.
University: the Key of Life
College is a critical stage of life. This is because you go to college is finally put down the burden of college entrance examination, for the first time began to chase their dreams,
Self-study of the Road: from giving top priority to self-taught
I remember when the Columbia University Assistant Professor, Chinese students had parents who complained to me:? "University in the end what you teach my child to read a sophomore computer science, not even VisiCalc [1] are not used . "
I then replied: "The rapid development of computer We can not guarantee any technology university taught still works in the next five years, we can not guarantee that every student can learn techniques and tools we can guarantee that. your child will learn to think, learn and master the method, so that no matter what kind of new technology or new tools emerge after five years, your child can ease. "
She then asked: "learn the latest software is not education, that the essence of education what is it?"
I replied: "If we learned something forgotten, the last remaining thing is the essence of education.
I said these words from the famous educator BF Skinner. The so-called "remaining things," in fact, is the ability to self-study, which is giving top priority to or without a teacher's ability. Universities are not "professional training", but allow students to adapt to a society, to adapt to different jobs platform. In college, to learn professional knowledge is important, but more important is learning to think independently, ability to judge the whole culture, the only way college graduates to adapt to the rapidly changing world of the future. I know a lot through college in China to the United States graduate school friend. They believe that after coming to the US, whether it is to study, work or life they are most lacking is the ability to think independently because at home they rarely independent thinking and independent decision-making.
Self-learning must start training at university. Many students complain that teachers always teach well, do not know much of the school curriculum unreasonable. I usually advise these students said: "Rather than curse the darkness Better to light a candle." Students should not only behind the teacher's footsteps, but should take the initiative to walk in front of the teacher. For example, a university teacher in a class where usually covers information content textbooks dozens of pages, only through classroom lectures can not put all the knowledge learned through, and thoroughly of. The best way to learn is to put issues related to the textbook clearly pondering before the teacher, then the teacher's control on lectures make up for their deficiencies in the understanding and knowledge.