What is PUA, do you know the connotation of this word?
What are PUAs?
PUA, the full name "Pick-up Artist", originally meant "pick-up artist". It originally refers to the behavior of men who have received systematic learning, practice and continuous improvement, and self-improvement of emotional intelligence. Heterosexually obsessed people and related behaviors.
Later, with the passage of time, "PUA" no longer simply refers to the high value and attraction between the opposite sex, "PUA" has gradually appeared in many scenes of social interaction, the most prominent of which is workplace PUA.
So, what is workplace PUA?
Workplace PUA refers to the mental control of subordinates by superiors in the workplace. The "learn learning" from love, just changed the target in the workplace, that is, the leader precisely hit the self-confidence of employees, so as to achieve the purpose of controlling employees spiritually.
The phenomenon of the "order Mala Tang takeaway" incident in the comics is a kind of PUA in the workplace.
In the development of an enterprise or a company, whether it is a manager or an employee, everyone has the same original intention and goal, which is to complete work tasks efficiently and with high quality, and promote and promote the company's development.
However, the emergence of PUA in the workplace has caused the development of things to run counter to the expected goals. Employees who have suffered from PUA in the workplace gradually lose their self-confidence and work motivation. ? !
"In an avalanche, no snowflake is innocent."
The same is true for workplace PUAs.
So how do we avoid PUA in the workplace ?
In the workplace, as a manager, you should use correct and effective methods to improve work efficiency, rather than meaningless mental suppression and control.
As employees, we must also learn to see through the traps of PUA in the workplace in a timely manner, and distinguish between the true and the false, good and evil in the workplace. In addition, we must maintain a clear self-awareness and emotional stability. When we identify with ourselves, respect ourselves, and have a strong heart, our self-confidence is our indestructible armor!
There is a famous saying in the philosopher Sartre's play "Confinement", which says: If you can't treat the judgment of others correctly, then the judgment of others is your hell.
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