Today I have time to climb up and talk to everyone about when I first went to college, I was fooled by the entrepreneurial mentor for most of the semester. The routines were all routines. Psychology gave me a deadly grip.
Having said that, through that pitfall, it has become the most memorable experience in my university. In this experience, I have grown up, my cognition has changed, I have gradually become more cautious about what I do and whom I should give.
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It's a long story, let's make a long story short. In the next semester, I remembered that there was an elective course, so I mistakenly reported an elective course for undergraduate entrepreneurship. Well, in the first class, the entrepreneurial instructor looks a bit older. As the saying goes, "Ginger is still hot." , I will confirm this later.
In this way, after taking a few classes, in each class, the success tutor said that he was awesome, how many entrepreneurs he had cultivated, and used various cases to fool people. In fact, the purpose of promoting their achievements and awesome abilities is to deter some people, commonly known as "brainwashing".
Soon after, the entrepreneurial mentor began to select people to form a team to engage in a wave of things (entrepreneurship). Speaking of things like entrepreneurship, for me at the time, it was the most exciting thing. I am a person who loves tossing. Although love tossing sounds good, it can be regarded as one of my fatal "shortcomings". It was taken advantage of at the time, and I was completely kept in the dark.
I formed a group of several people. At that time, I competed to be the leader of the club. I was accidentally selected. Two of them were from other colleges. Later, because of this, the three of them became friends who talked about everything. With contact.
In this way, we formed a team, although we led some people, basically the three of us spent all our spare time to do it. At that time, I was really awakened every day by the "chicken" thoughts, and my whole body was filled with adrenaline.
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At that time, the entrepreneurial project that I thought of doing campus services started from the official account. It was the first time I came into contact with the official account at that time, which was a semester. I could only toss about an unfamiliar platform and tool every day. Tossing every day until midnight, I had a lot of small ideas of my own at the time, but realized that it was not what I thought of.
I started to do some campus services on the official account. In three days, the entrepreneurial mentor asked the three of us to go to the office to "brainwash", um, the so-and-so, the editing ability is quite strong; that Xiao Li, quite a concept of time, in fact, every Every time I go to praise you constantly, and repeatedly praise you, maybe this is a routine to gain trust slowly, let you trust him enough, if there is nothing you can't do with him.
It’s like fishing. Fishing first involves nesting. Sprinkle some bait in the water. When the fish finds that they have eaten some bait and find that there is no danger, they will often come to eat the bait, but I don’t know that one day there will be fish behind the bait. hook.
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After operating for a period of time, the official account can be regarded as a little attention, and there is nothing to realize at this time. I was trying to do some paid services, but was awakened by a phone call at five in the morning.
On the other end of the phone, I started to say crazy about your various things. At the time, I was quite dazed. Yes, it was the entrepreneurial mentor. He was finally out of breath. When I saw the official account, I helped him run a little better. Just think of various ways to PUA, the following is the whole process and routine of PUA.
On the phone, I started to say that there was nothing, and enlarged your shortcomings infinitely, repeated your shortcomings, complained about you constantly, and added all the "crimes" to you. Now think about it, Isn't this TM a PUA routine?
At that time, it really made me cry. You can say that I am not good at it, but don't wrong me. In fact, this is a step in the routine. Later, the login authority of the official account was taken back in the name of the school. In fact, this is fine, I worry about him every day.
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Later, in the sophomore year, the entrepreneurial community began to recruit the next freshman year. At that time, I secretly wanted to fool me as the president. I refused, but I fooled me, and wanted to fool me. Is this possible? Besides, shit is unpalatable, and money is hard to make. Do you want me to serve you?
In fact, I later discovered that although the official account was withdrawn, it did not play a substantial role. Every day, the official account promotes his success learning courses, and there are still a few trustees below from time to time, and I leave a message every day to reply to him. After all, the entire official account has been worked out by myself from scratch and operated by myself. Later, after graduation, I saw the official account again, and still used the amount of attention, and the tweets became all successful courses that sold for tens of thousands of dollars.
The above is my general experience and process. Some details have been ignored by me, but overall, the process is still quite deep in memory. After all, I suffered a lot from here.
summary
In fact, this experience in university helped me a lot. Although I suffered a lot, fortunately, it was a small loss in a small circle like a school. It didn’t matter. It was not a big loss to myself, at most it was a long time. A memory.
There are gains and losses. Later, when I wrote the official account myself, I lost a lot of pitfalls, including related content such as typesetting and matching pictures. And I have a lot of thoughts and conclusions about my personal cognition. I summarized the following points:
1. No matter what you do in the future, you always have to deal with people. How do you judge whether a person is good or bad when you first meet someone? I believe everyone should have this ability.
Later, I came into contact with the field of psychology. Before entering society, I summarized a set of standards and methods suitable for me to judge people, such as through some behaviors, actions, speech, observation of words and colors, etc.
2. There will always be some routines in society. We should not only see the appearance, but see the essence behind the routines, otherwise you will be caught by various PUAs if you are not careful.
3. There are no shortcuts to what you want to accomplish, and every step is correct. Those so-called success tutors have not succeeded themselves, how can they teach you success?
4. The last one is very important, and I often use it to urge myself, "If you are ugly, you should read more, and if you are ignorant, you should read more."
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