Doudou eats a little better recently, and seems to have gained a little weight.
2016-11-01
Doudou went home and said, "The teacher criticized the whole class several times today. One of them is related to life!"
"What's the matter? It's so serious?"
Doudou: "I did it today. In the scientific experiment, a child took a piece of dry ice and put it in his mouth. The dry ice is more than minus 70 degrees."
"That is too dangerous, it should be criticized and criticized hard. Do you want to try it too?"
Dou Dou: "I don't want to, I don't like to eat ice!"
"What? You can't eat it if you like it or not. A lot of chemicals are very dangerous, the family must remember
!
" matter. Doudou doesn't know how big a mask is to draw, can you figure out how Doudou did it?
Doudou actually lay down on the paper and drew the outline of the mask with a pen and paper around his face.
(Fortunately, the holes in my eyes were not poked into my own eyes.)
2016-11-03
I chatted with Doudou today, and Doudou actually knew the two popular words "blue thin" and "shiitake mushroom". I am the former I just learned about it two days ago, and I didn't know the meaning until I consulted others.
Doudou is rarely allowed to play with his mobile phone, and most of the time is just doing homework (doing homework together, children's fun dubbing, Quick Calculation Box and other apps) and playing chess. Just by checking your phone occasionally, Doudou can also get knowledge!
2016-11-04 Switched
from QQ Go to TOM Go (required by the Doudou school club). In comparison, the people on TOM are a bit more professional. a few plates. I think it has been around level 3 and level 4 on QQ at the beginning.
2016-11-05
Recently, I have often urged Doudou to complete the "homework together" (a mobile phone APP, where teachers often leave homework and the ranking of class members) early and with high quality.
Doudou asked: "Why do you attach so much importance to 'doing homework together' recently?"
"I want to tell you a truth, study is a very important thing, and you must strive to be the first. Especially for difficult things, you can't Give up, work harder, be able to do what others can't, no one can succeed casually! Don't be confused and indifferent. The result can be less important, but the process must be very hard."
(Sometimes "children's voice dubbing", one sentence, time The requirements are very short and the words are very difficult to speak. Doudou, who has not signed up for English extracurricular classes, can’t get it right for dozens of minutes, and always wants to give up.)
2016-11-06
The ginkgo forest in Zhanggezhuang has been famous for a long time, and today I decided to Check it out. It was a little late, and there was not a single leaf on the tree. The leaves in the city haven't fallen much yet.
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2016-11-07
Recently, Doudou likes to say "okay". "How did Mom cook today?" "Did you enjoy going on a study tour today?" and so on, often answered with "OK".
Tell Doudou the meaning of "okay", and tell him clearly that "okay" is the general meaning, whether it is good or bad, and if you are satisfied with something, you must clearly say "good", "very good", not always. Use "OK". It is necessary to accurately grasp the meaning of "okay" and control the occasion of use.
2016-11-08
We pay great attention to the cultivation of Doudou's ability to judge and make his own decisions. If there may be a problem with the decision, I will ask him the reason for the decision, tell him the possible consequences of the decision, and persuade him to adjust. Teach him to take responsibility for his decisions, including working hard for them, accepting the consequences of decisions, etc.
In the past six months, I signed up for a painting class, and Doudou said many times that he did not want to attend. "I asked for your opinion when I signed up." When Doudou heard this, he immediately closed his mouth and went to class obediently.
It's time to sign up again. I asked Doudou for advice. Doudou was very tangled. While thinking about it on the road, my attitude changed several times.
After the class, I asked him: "How is it? Are you happy with the class today?"
Doudou: "I'm very happy, all the troubles when I was painting have been forgotten."
This is the realm of becoming a master in the future. "Then apply for another half a year?"
Doudou: "Okay."
2016-11-09
Recently, I have thought about Doudou's performance in all aspects, and I feel that "not fully enlightened" is more appropriate to describe Doudou . Understanding ability, execution ability, self-management ability, concentration, interpersonal communication, etc. need to be strengthened. But Doudou's obvious change in the past six months is conscientiousness, especially homework, which may be related to the strict requirements of the teacher, but this is the basis for a gradual improvement.
I heard a sentence today, "Children depend on teaching for three points, and waiting for seven points." I've been asking too much and too hasty from Doudou for a while.
2016-11-10
Actually, when I communicate with Doudou, I often don't get along with him. The language system of the two is not unified.
For example, in chess, I often train him not to be serious and not to calculate. Sometimes he asks me, and I tell him "it's very simple, calculate it by yourself". He complained to me: "Just say the simple, leave the difficult to me."
Today, I finally figured out a small problem: Doudou sometimes doesn't know how to calculate. I thought that Doudou would definitely know how to calculate "qi". It was the basic knowledge that the teacher taught very early. There was no match, and Doudoubai suffered a long time of "not serious chess" training.
2016-11-11
Doudou sometimes doesn't like me watching when he plays Go, because I often nag him. But sometimes with him to kill the opponent Dalong, the scene is thrilling, and he is also very excited, "This game of chess is very enjoyable."
So sometimes when I avoid him, he will call me for help.
"Don't you hate my nagging?"
Doudou: "Listening to your nagging is better than being killed by an opponent."
2016-11-12
Every night I see Doudou, the first sentence will ask him: "How is it? Are you having a good time at school today?"
Something happened in the school some time ago, which had a great impact on Doudou's mood. To give a few examples.
(1) I
lost my support at the sports meeting and was severely reprimanded by the teacher. I was very sad and scared. When I came back from work, I cried myself in the room for a long time, and I didn’t even want to go to school. I took the initiative to talk to the teacher and have a comprehensive communication. Let the teacher understand Doudou's grievances and entanglements. The teacher criticized him for throwing up the lack of collective consciousness. In fact, Doudou was an unconscious loser.
(2)
Doudou said one day that when he shared and communicated, he said that "the whale can be up to 4.3 meters in length", and was laughed at by the teacher and classmates, saying that it should be 3.4 meters, and it is impossible for the number in front to be larger than the number in the back. Very aggrieved. I asked him to use WeChat to communicate with the teacher, but later found out that it was a misunderstanding. The teacher and classmates thought he said "3 to 4 meters".
(4)
Doudou often said that he was arguing with children, and the teacher only talked about him, not others. This question has troubled me for a long time, and it is difficult to find a teacher for verification. Later, when I took a basketball extracurricular class, I discovered the problem. When the coach was not looking at them, a child threw leaves on Doudou's head twice. When the coach looked at them, Doudou threw leaves on the opponent's head to counterattack, but Doudou was trained alone. After I figured out the whole story, I told Mr. Doudou not to target him, and to teach Doudou not to make trouble during class, and to keep his eyes open during the trouble.
(5)
Wearing a pink school uniform to school, and being laughed at by classmates for wearing women's clothes. After persuading it, it was very effective, and I continued to wear it the next day.
Knowing such a thing, I actively help Doudou to solve it and help him get ahead. Gradually, Doudou became less unhappy, and her heart gradually became stronger, and she would take the initiative to tell me what happened at school. Chatting today, I also talked about the unhappy things about the kindergarten, saying: "In kindergarten, he had a bad relationship with many children. Once in kindergarten, the child wanted to give him only half a candy, but he didn't open it. I just gave him a piece of candy."
"Ah?! Is there anything similar now?" Doudou : "It 's long
gone now." There are many methods (reasonable, not allowed to go out to play, not allowed to watch TV), but nothing works. I often go home from work, only do a little bit of homework. , but also to do more than 10 o'clock in the evening. There was no other way, harsh reprimands and threats of force had some effect. Going home today, Doudou told me: "Today's homework is difficult, I do less, I think you must say me, so I play two games of chess." 2016-11-14 Doudou is sometimes special Annoyed, I made clear the requirements for writing with him: spelling the wrong word, tracing it twice, writing without erasing it, and rewriting it after erasing it. Seeing that the left and right parts of his word were far apart and the sizes were different, he asked him to rewrite it. 15 After listening to Huang Bo's "My Requirements Are Not Too High" many times, Doudou can hum a few lines without knowing it. The rhythm is not bad, but the words are not right. My requirements are not too high, a small nest of 80 square meters, and a gentle concubine children can go to college smoothly, and there is a good job after graduation ...
2016-11-16
Recently, I have made great efforts to help Doudou correct the problem of not listening carefully in class. I often ask the teacher about Doudou's class attendance, ask Doudou to listen carefully every day, ask Doudou to actively answer questions, and ask the teacher to strengthen management.
Many efforts have produced certain results.
Doudou: "Dad, I raised my hand to answer a question recently, but the teacher didn't call me."
"Oh, that's because the teacher didn't call you because you were serious in listening to the class recently. The teacher may like to ask people who are not serious in class to answer the question. .Although I didn't call you, you must keep thinking positively."
2016-11-17
Doudou: "Dad, something very irritating happened at school today."
"What's the matter?"
Doudou: "Today I kicked In football, a kid kicked the ball into my hand, it hurt my hand, and said I committed a foul!"
Fortunately, I, a pseudo-fan, know some rules. I told Doudou the rules and two stories to Doudou. One is Baggio winning a penalty by fame, and the other is Maradona's "Hand of God".
2016-11-18
Recently, Doudou likes to eat dumplings filled with leeks. Grandpa is very strong, he packs it almost twice a week, and Doudou can usually eat twelve. It was later discovered that if there were fourteen dumplings on the plate, Doudou could eat them all.
According to the precedent that Doudou will vomit when he eats pizza, he does not dare to give him more.
2016-11-19
Doudou told me something: a child asked me how to pronounce the word "should"? As soon as I saw this word, I couldn't read it, so I wanted to teach him. Thinking that the teacher often used the word "should" to train people, I said to him fiercely: "Yeah!"
2016-11-20
The weather forecast said that there will be heavy snow today. Doudou was very excited when he heard it, and when he opened his eyes in the morning, he asked: "Is it snowing?"
It turned out that it didn't snow at night. Doudou also said: "This weather forecast is really unbelievable."
2016-11-21
I remember going to buy long pants with Doudou. Afraid of Doudou talking nonsense on the road, he also taught him: "If I ask him if he likes something or not, he will say 'I like it, but it is too expensive'. Don't say 'buy, just buy this'".
Doudou: "Yeah."
As a result, he saw a pair of long johns and decided to bargain, "This is a bit expensive!"
Doudou immediately connected: "It's not expensive, it's not expensive at all, just buy this one. ."
Annoying. I finally picked another one of the right size, but the trouser legs were a little dirty, so I asked the boss to make it cheaper.
Doudou connected again: "It's alright, don't worry if it's dirty, just go home and wash it."
The boss was amused.
I was also very happy: "Where are you Doudou ? I asked you for nothing on the road.
" Doudou didn't complain at all, because Doudou was playing racing on the trial phone and had a great time, and he didn't want to leave when he left.
2016-11-23
Doudou liked to eat it very much when I was very young, and then I stopped eating it when I was a little older. Today, my mother fried chi, and Doudou didn't know which tendon to turn, and started eating again, "This is the best food in the world. Some foreigners don't dare to eat chi."
After a while, eat At that time, he said: "I don't eat eggs today, because I have eaten enough protein."
2016-11-24
Today is Thanksgiving. Something happened that suddenly made me feel that Doudou has grown up and is really sensible.
Doudou flipped through my phone, saw my notepad, and memorized some of his words. Ask me: "What's this for?"
"This is for Dad to remember interesting things about you. Dad is in memory now. If you have something to write, hurry up and write it down with your mobile phone, otherwise it will be easy to forget."
Doudou suddenly hugged me and said : "Dad, don't write about me anymore." Still tearful.
"What's the matter? Do you think your father is vilifying you?"
After asking several times, Doudou said, "You are in your forties. It's so tiring to remember me every day."
2016-11-25
Doudou said: "A female classmate learned a letter from him and said 'love him'."
"How did you respond?"
Doudou: "I said 'stop talking nonsense', and she replied 'but I really love you' Yeah, I'm speechless."
2016-11-26
On the wall at home, Doudou doodled something. Once I came to play with my classmates and drew some things. Doudou was not angry and wanted to break up with him.
In response to this matter, I told Doudou two truths: one is to think about it in reverse, that is, to get along with others, be careful not to do things that offend others, otherwise friends may not be able to do it; two, their own children, parents If you are concerned about the growth of your child, you will criticize it severely. The same thing, when a child from another family has done it, it can only be said simply because it is a child from another family.
2016-11-27
I usually accompany Doudou to do her homework, or read books, or look at materials on the Internet, or play chess, but Doudou is really slow to do her homework. Today, in order to give Doudou pressure and motivation, I said to Doudou: "Dad accompanies you to do homework until after ten o'clock every day. After you sleep, daddy can do his own work. Do you think daddy works hard? , finish the homework neatly?"
Doudou is young and very sensible, and generally does not easily promise what he can't do: "Otherwise, Dad, you go to bed first, I will do my homework by myself, and I will sleep by myself when I am done. ."
"Come on, so don't wait until twelve o'clock!?"
2016-11-28
I want to write notes tonight and say to Doudou: "Dad also has homework today, we two do homework together, see who is focused, Let 's see who can do it faster." As soon as
Doudou dawdled, I said to him, "See if Dad is serious?" At
about ten o'clock, Doudou finished his homework, and I was still writing, and my mother said, "Look Dad is serious or not, he is still doing his homework so late!"
2016-11-29
After more than half a year of hard work, Doudou's habit of doing homework has not improved much, but he understood a rule, that is, he is not allowed to eat until he has finished his homework. Things, reading extracurricular books, and watching TV are not allowed. Basically, you can follow this rule without a word. With this rule, it is estimated that it will only be a matter of time to get rid of the dawdling habit.
2016-11-30
After work at night, Doudou hugged me and said, "Dad, it's my honor to tell you that I had a bad time at school today!"
"How is it? What happened?"
Doudou: "Kick Soccer, the ball hit my head."
"Oh! Did it hit my nose or eyes?"
Doudou: "No, but it really hurts!"
"You know that in football, sometimes you use your head and head Head the ball into the goal. Protect yourself when you don't want to head the ball."