A new month has begun, and every day is being perfected.
Diary writing this month has been a bit of a struggle. I feel that there is very little to write, a lot of time is spent on homework, and there is very little time to play happily and communicate.
2017-04-01
Chatting with Dou Ma, talking about beating children, Dou Dou answered next to her (Dou Dou particularly likes to answer): "How can you beat a child casually? Beat it to death."
2017 -04-02
Doudou liked to play with sand when he was very young. Now in second grade, he still maintains this hobby. He often plays sand with a pair of shoes, and he can't change it after saying it a few times.
Today I thought of a solution: let Doudou wash his shoes every time he plays with the sand. I hope this method can change the habit of playing with sand.
2017-04-03
Chatting with Doudou during dinner.
"Doudou, at school, do you guys flatter the teacher?"
Doudou: "Yes."
"Who? How do you do it?"
Doudou: "The main reason is that I take more pictures, such as complimenting the teacher. She looks pretty or something."
"Is the teacher happy to hear that?"
Doudou: "Well, it's beautiful."
2017-04-04
Doudou: "I dreamed about zombies yesterday."
"Have you ever seen zombies? Still dreaming of zombies!?"
Doudou: "I have seen it, 'Plants vs. Zombies'."
(It seems that this kind of game should be designated as "not suitable for children".)
2017-04-05
Grandpa and grandma are currently living with us, helping to pick up the children and cook. Doudou is often asked to think of his grandpa and grandma if he has delicious food; he is not allowed to say disrespectful words to his grandfather and grandma, and play military chess with him when he has time (Doudou always loses, and does not like to play with grandpa). I think this is a huge benefit of living with grandpa and grandma, and it will be easier to gain the respect of Doudou's next generation in the future.
2017-04-14
I watched Doudou's basketball game today (Doudoubao's extracurricular class is one of his favorite extracurricular classes). It's already the third phase, and it's basically a bit like it, but it's still quite messy.
This is not the point of today's talk, the point is that during the intermission, Doudou stepped on a Sprite bottle and jumped, and fell to the ground in a very funny way, making everyone laugh until their stomachs hurt.
2017-04-16
This weekend, the teacher left a very pitiful homework: reading for 3 hours. Doudou also complied with it very seriously, and read it carefully for three hours. Fortunately, I didn't let the writing look after the feeling. But the homework was done after ten o'clock in the evening.
2017-04-17Doudou
recently, the problem of inattentiveness in class is more prominent, and the teacher specially gave me feedback on this problem. In fact, in the extracurricular classes of Go and cross talk, Doudou's problem of inattentiveness in class is also more prominent. I kept reminding him that he often slipped.
The teacher gave an idea: do listening and reading training. It is to read an article to him and let him listen to the number of words that appear in a certain word. This trains his attention.
My mother and I took turns training, hoping to have a certain effect.
2017-04-18
Doudou's feet are rather stinky. Now the weather is hot, and the taste is super strong.
After dinner in the evening, "Doudou, have you washed your feet?"
Doudou: "I did."
"It still smells so bad after washing?"
Doudou: "The smell will come back by itself after washing."
2017-04-19
Take Doudou to buy things, remind him in advance not to talk nonsense, tell him only to say "too expensive", and he still insists on helping people who sell things.
"Doudou, your school has a market day, can you buy good things at a good price with this bargaining method?"
Doudou: "On market days, I usually follow someone who can bargain, and if he buys something, I will also I like it, after he buys it, I can also buy one at the same price."
2017-04-20
Doudou School has often left homework for reading recently, requiring a certain amount of time to read books, any book is fine.
Doudou has a good habit of loving reading. I was fooled and bought him a few sets of books that he liked.
When he completes his homework, he is serious and real-time, and every second is not bad.
After setting the alarm clock, picking up the book, and getting ready for reading, he said to me, "Dad, please click to start
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" According to the feedback in the WeChat group, it is a common problem for many children in this age group. I think of a lot of ways:
(1) It is stipulated that the buttocks are not allowed to leave the stool without finishing the homework. Doudou is quite funny, and sometimes leaves the study table with a stool attached to his butt to read a book.
(2) Promise that he will accompany him to do some things he likes after finishing his homework, such as playing Three Kingdoms, basketball, and riding a bicycle.
(3) Break down the homework tasks, and you can play for a while after completing some of them. (This is the method taught by the teacher.)
(4) Often when he is doing his homework, I write programs and do my own work beside him while accompanying him. His position is behind me. The teacher reminded me that this is not good. In the end, I can let him be in front of me, which is convenient for supervision, and avoids him being distracted by watching my situation.
The solution is to think a lot, but to little effect. Maybe it's just waiting for Doudou to grow up and be able to control his behavior.
2017-04-22
Watching TV, Doudou heard a new word: organic fertilizer. Ask me: "What is organic fertilizer?"
I explained it a bit.
Doudou: "Oh, isn't there a chicken in the fertilizer?!"
2017-04-23
Doudou: "Dad, why can't American houses be fried?"
I told Doudou with my limited knowledge.
Doudou: "Oh, I thought the United States couldn't quarrel in the house."
2017-04-24
Chatting with Doudou about the fact that the apartment only has the right to live, but not the right to use it, and it will be repossessed in the end. Doudou is keen to capture a key question: what do I do in the future?
I quickly followed the bar to increase the internal motivation to study well.
Doudou: "The house is so expensive and it goes up every day, how can I afford it?"
(In this era, the house price keeps rising, and it can easily reach tens of millions. Even a young Doudou knows that the house price is super high. I don't know how long Doudou is What kind of situation was it when I saw this text when I was a teenager.)
2017-04-25
After Doudou washed his face, he ate some watermelon.
Mom: "Wash your face again."
Doudou: "Why?"
Mom: "Because you ate watermelon."
Doudou: "I don't eat it with my face, why do I have to do it again?"
2017 -04-26 I
found a particularly good way to change Doudou's various problems of getting up in the morning, that is, let him experience being a father, and I will learn his various behaviors in the morning. It was agreed that the weekend would be Dad's experience day. I learned from him and let him control the time. After experiencing it once, Doudou began to protest: "Although I dawdled a little in the morning, I wasn't like you. Usually, you call it two or three times and I get up."
The existing problem of Doudou waking up in the morning has basically been changed.
2017-04-27
When I got up in the morning, as soon as Doudou dawdled, I said, "Doudou, how are you being a father today?"
Doudou protested: "Isn't it only on weekends!"
"Then why don't you get up soon!"
Doudou got up obediently.
2017-04-28
Doudou told me a few times that a child named Liu in the class always beat him, sometimes for no reason.
In the past, Doudou was always taught not to cause trouble and not to fight with others. The Doudou school under the education of this concept was very depressed. I just told Doudou that next time something like this happens, I will beat him back hard.
Doudou: "I can't beat him."
"If you can't beat him, beat him hard. Be careful not to get caught by the teacher. Be careful not to slap in the face or hurt others."
(I teach Doudou Is this a bit inauthentic about Dou? The main reason is that children can solve this trivial matter by themselves. There is no need to find teachers or parents.)
2017-04-29
With my teachings, Doudou became tough . I fight with a child named Liu almost every day. In Doudou's words: "I beat Liu ** again today, it's really cool." She was so excited.
2017-04-30
Recently, Doudou's school taught time recognition, just as I was learning SVG, so I made a small program for Doudou to recognize the time, run it on the mobile phone, the finger can rotate the watch hand manually, click the button below to display corresponding time. Also improved it twice based on Doudou's comments. Doudou praised: "Super support!"
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