"Money and status are just resources. They cannot make a person happy or happy. These can only one-sidedly reflect a person's state, but the real measure of a person's happiness and happiness is whether he has the ability to love others. This is the true embodiment of a person’s value."
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When we learn to love others,
The world will become brighter
The secular standard has always been that a successful life is money and status. This is only correct in a certain sense. In what sense? It is right on the road of self-enjoyment. If you have money, you can get some material enjoyment.
More and more people who have received material enjoyment find that the satisfaction that material enjoyment brings to people is only a moment, and has no permanent value. For example, when you buy a lot of luxury goods, you suddenly realize that, in fact, that is nothing It's just a bag. Most people don't think the bag you carry is so valuable.
The reason why we buy luxury goods is just to look for superiority. Of course, some people have become valued for the quality of luxury goods. They are not looking for superiority at all, because they have treated luxury goods as ordinary products that we use.
Many girls who have bought it feel that luxury goods are not as beautiful as they had originally imagined. On the contrary, some high-quality and inexpensive things are more popular and do not appear impetuous. Therefore, when money and material enjoyment reach a certain level, the satisfaction it brings to people is limited.
What really brings us satisfaction is the satisfaction of our customers after our serious work, the trust of others, and our gratitude for our services, as well as the sense of accomplishment and happiness that we have received positive feedback from a long-term operation.
When we truly learn to love others, and when others live better and more independent because of our help, that satisfaction is actually priceless.
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When we are helping others,
Is actually helping yourself
For example, if we share some things, don’t be afraid that our knowledge will be learned by others, and what should we do if we are surpassed by others. Don’t worry about things like this. This is a highly open world, not a closed society in the past. Your experience, knowledge , Cognition, and mode are all unique.
When others learn your knowledge, you also have enough abilities to find a place to play it. Moreover, the more you share your knowledge, the higher your knowledge will be. In fact, the greater the benefit to yourself. This is a win-win model. There is no church apprentice or master starved to death.
As long as the master has enough ability, there are many places to eat.
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Life ups and downs, but love is priceless ,
Make a balance between loving yourself and loving others
Our life is like this. There are ups and downs. There are high points and low points. For example, when we have a job, we are suddenly fired, and we don’t have a job. Sometimes business is good, sometimes there are no customers, sometimes when we pay wages. It can be sent out, and sometimes it takes a few days to get enough.
There is no such thing as getting rich quickly, all the people who promote getting rich quickly are rich. Many people have already seen that it takes time to slowly polish themselves and polish products so that they can withstand greater setbacks, withstand the criticisms of others, and withstand the ups and downs.
Only by oneself can you generate value and realize the true meaning of this world. Of course, it is not money, but character, and love. Money must be available. It is impossible to have no money, but people actually need not much money as a basic life need.
Money is only an external necessity, a form, and of course you can't live without it, but if you only value money, this kind of life is really dark, and how much unnecessary suffering such a person should bear.
For a person, the most valuable thing is love, the selfless love others give him, and the selfless love he gives others. This is very precious, but ignorant people abuse the love given by others, and as a result, they can only keep themselves depraved.
If there is no love, life is actually worthless. If it can't bring beauty and love to others, then why does his life live? Is it just to meet the needs of the body? No matter what kind of environment a person is in, there will be opportunities to radiate humanity. If the environment does not allow it, come out of that environment.
Break the environment where you can't let yourself express love. If one year doesn't work, don't be afraid, then use 10 years, 20 years to change. When we really care about the people around us, we should love wisely. We have to love wholeheartedly, but we must also consider the limits of our abilities.
Use wisdom to balance. We will love others as well as ourselves. This is comprehensive, and we will not be happy if we are too biased towards one side. Make a balance between loving yourself and loving others, and love with all your heart whether you love others or yourself. In this way, you can harvest a rich life.
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To do what we should do is to love others
And achieve the ultimate, this is a kind of life belief
In fact, our life is extremely empty. We have done a lot of all kinds of things. In fact, it is just like that. There is no special satisfaction. Of course, we will not be stupid enough to destroy ourselves for the bad things, because there are so many meaningful things. It can be done, why do you want a moment of pleasure?
In all human activities, there are many valuable and interesting activities. Although people have the same ending, doing such valuable and interesting activities will bring a sense of beauty and meaning to people while they are alive. What are the valuable and interesting activities?
For example, work hard, strive for excellence at work, take care of the family, be loyal to your wife even in the face of temptation (the same goes for your wife), and continue to deepen your love with your wife. Raising children, taking care of parents, learning foreign languages, learning a technique, and constantly expanding their abilities, including patience, tenacity, and self-control.
Travel, read, communicate with meaningful people, help others, exercise, write articles, give lectures, do training, etc. In fact, there are so many valuable things that can be done. If you do these things all the time in your life and you are addicted, it will be fun.
Our motivation for doing these things is because of love, we want to take care of ourselves and our family better, and we want to help others when we are able. Of course we also enjoy life, but our family and friends also benefit from it. Isn’t it worth it?
So don’t always tell your wife and children that I work hard for you. Yes, of course, there is a part and we also believe that a very important part is for the wife and children, but isn't it for yourself? If you don't get any benefit yourself, who would work so seriously?
So what everyone knows is that it’s right to work hard, but to balance it well, it’s basic to do a good job. This is a comprehensive manifestation of loving oneself and loving others.