Professor Tsinghua said that her daughter should be an ordinary person, but she did not tell you that "academics can be inbred"

Reprinted from Jiubian, Jiubian’s masterpiece is consistent with Jiubian’s consistent education. Although bloggers are still in their middle age, they are still learning and educating their children by setting an example. It is not persecution and self-thinking as "guidance". For bloggers, Jiubian is what the blogger looks up to. Just like what the article said, I hope that while working hard, I can also take advantage of the wind.

In the past two days, Liu Yu’s speech has become popular. Some friends may not know this person. For a few years, this person was very active and wrote a set of "Democracy Details". I also watched it. At that time, I thought it was pretty good. Later, after living in the United States for a period of time, after field experience, she found that her books were also full of the sour taste of liberal arts intellectuals. As for the speech, the same old tune is in fact repeated: the
child is under too much pressure and the parents are forced to die too much, so they still have to give the child some breathing space.
He also said that he was a mother who surrendered without a fight, and that his daughter was becoming an ordinary person unstoppable.
Everyone’s value ranking is different. Not everyone is willing to exchange success with comfort, calmness, and ease, and it is not necessarily a sin to pursue comfort, calmness, and ease. If one chooses to "freely" and give up "success", this is not necessarily a bad thing.
And she said about her view of education, "After saying so much, what is my view of education? In fact, it is just two sentences: know yourself and accept yourself."
It's probably like this. If you want to read the original text, Baidu "Liu Yu General People" can see.
You might think I am going to refute what she said.
In fact, I think everything she said is right, and I agree, but you ask me, will I let my child follow the logic she said?
will not.
There is only one reason, I am not a Tsinghua professor.

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There are several universities in society
. The education we have received since childhood is to study hard, because in the future, we will go to university. There are several kinds of universities, 985, 211, ordinary universities, and three, and three are not available and there are junior colleges.
But many people may not have noticed that there are still many hidden universities in this society, with intelligence, beauty, family background, and relationships. There are hierarchies in each dimension, and they are divided into universities, three undergraduates, and junior colleges.
And more importantly, many things can only be taught to you by your parents. On the one hand, others may not know how, even if they do, they may not necessarily say how to make money. How can others teach you? If you take the initiative to teach you , Basically they are no longer profitable skills, they ran out to sell shovels.
Don't know what "selling shovel" is? But the gold was gone, someone sold the shovel.
Generally, the market is over. Those who have made money come out to sell their money-making skills. Anyway, they don’t need it. This is selling shovels. This is why I said "How to judge whether an industry is profitable?" You go to find someone to sell the shovel. If you start to sell it, it may be over. If it is sold everywhere, then the industry is basically finished.
Therefore, the cruelty of life is not only one's own conditions, but also the relationship, knowledge and wealth of parents.
IQ is not very good inheritance, or unstable inheritance, both of them are professors, and some of their children read three books (there is no discrimination against three books here).
But this is not the end of the story, this is the beginning. After all, the long journey of life. The college entrance examination is the only "unequipped duel". The way forward is to fight for the resources of three generations, and the resources that can be inherited by others begin. It works. If ordinary people's children fail to be admitted, the Dongguan factory is waiting for you.
If Professor Tsinghua’s baby fails to pass the entrance examination, he will be promoted first and then the postgraduate entrance examination. If no tutor is willing to accept it, the parents will say hello. Every step of the procedure is legal. Can you say there is a problem?

In the past two days, I learned a new term called "academic inbreeding." It refers to those people who have resources in the university to help each other. In theory, two farmers can also help each other, but they have nothing to exchange resources. Can't afford to carry anything.
This aspect is a competition of personal connections, but also a competition of insights. People may not pass the university entrance examination, but they may have graduated from universities in other fields, but other people don't know it, and they are quite happy to lead temporarily.
Just like those rich kids who didn’t pass the university entrance exam a few years ago, they went abroad. In the past two years, you finally know the shortcut. People don’t go abroad anymore. Now the gold content of universities abroad has plummeted, and people start thinking again. Postgraduate entrance exam.
In other words, academic qualifications are the only stepping stone for ordinary people. For some people, this is just a brick in their pockets. If you don’t hold it firmly, you can get it back by other means, and it’s faster than others every time. When others knew, they had already changed the battlefield.
These logics are universal in the world, because if a child’s parents are big players in the industry and you help the child, he can get stable income. Why not?
And almost no parents say that I can help my children, but I won't help, I will definitely do it. The more people get to the latter half of the journey, the more they can discover the so-called various goals of struggle. In fact, they are all for future generations. This kind of "basic motivation" written in genes will pretend to be all kinds of weird ideas and get into your mind. Here, the more naked it gets later.
In other words, the parent's resources are themselves part of the child's resources. Moreover, the habit of helping each other is not Chinese, but the whole world, even Homo sapiens.
If you have studied English, you know what these European and American mantras mean?
"Do me a favor" (help a favor);
"you own me" (you owe me);
"we are even" (we clean up).
In this sense, the Chinese world is more implicit, less direct, and less naked. If you want to deeply understand how Americans deal with interpersonal relationships, I still recommend "Billions". After reading it, it can subvert many people's stereotypes about the United States.
Of course, I don’t want to be cynical to criticize social injustice. In fact, this is the original face of society. The essence of relationships, money, beauty, and intelligence are all the same. They are all currency and can be traded. It's the same in any country. In the words of "The Name of the People", "Relationship is not called relationship now, it is called political resource." In Chuanhuang's words, "This may be life."
Returning to the topic at the beginning of the article, Liu Yu, as a professor at Tsinghua University, can fully support his baby. Can anyone else do it? Have you seen the brilliance and beauty of the upper class in society, have you seen how brutal the grassroots is?
I find that many people without children like to say "If they have children, let them live their lives in the way they like."
Actually, most parents are not stupid, nor are they sick. The reason why they force their children every day is that they have experienced and learned a common sense. If they mix in the way their children like, they can only live happily for ten years. The rest of the day is basically the gloom and helplessness that I can't see. Most people don’t make money from the things they like from the bottom of their hearts, and they are useless. If they don’t get some self-defense skills in advance, they will be hanged in society. Drinking milk tea will not be able to drink Internet red money.
Some people even say that forcing children is worse than forcing themselves. The problem is that most people are in their 30s and they are basically formed. Forcing is useless. Children are still in the plastic period. Forcing the effect to have a bonus. Read more today. Books, you will be able to look less at others in the future.
Many people say that you can go abroad, but this is also a misunderstanding. Going abroad will solve the problem? In the circle of friends, there are a lot of parents in the United States. Many of them are mothers who quit their jobs to watch their children at home. The way to the rise of the United States is cruel competition. Do you really think you can escape by running in the United States? And what is the illusion that makes you think that the good universities in the United States are easy to apply for? You don't want to go to Pheasant University in China, you can accept it when you go to the United States? Yes, it's not an exam, you have to apply. The recommendation letter is very heavy.
And maybe the baby in the US has grown up and the world has become completely flat. They need to compete with the people from the East Asian monster house. Have you ever played by then?
Go around and you will find that in fact, most parents have nothing wrong with "forcing their children". The fault is that there is no mine at home, and the fault is that the parents have no resources, so they have to participate in cruel competition. 
The grassroots people force their children to go to school because they worry that their children will be the same as themselves, and the middle class is anxious because they worry about class falling. Only the old Wang who is engaged in real estate is not in a hurry. His son can go to University College London (UCL) if he is not admitted to the university. If he has not graduated from university, he can give five small goals, and he can pay 20 small goals. , It’s not that I can afford it, anyway, I already owe so much to the bank, why not owe too much.
So I said that Liu Yu said those things at her level, and there was no problem at all. If one day I no longer worry about class decline, I might think like her. But it doesn't work now, what should I do?
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"Twenty-eight Law" applies everywhere.
I always thought that the higher the society, the smarter and better people should be. After all, they are selected through layers of selection.
In fact, I have found that it is not in recent years. The reason I have said above is very clear. Some people have passed college entrance examinations and participated in social competitions, but there are still many people who are not even a college in terms of intelligence and ability. , He is awesome in other fields, these fields are already graduate students or doctors, so he was mentioned.
These other areas include, but are not limited to: a strong
family background; a
special resource;
a special background;
some magical skills.
Let me give you an example and you will understand.
When chatting with a college classmate a few days ago, he said something. He said that he now works in an auditing company with several partners and a pig. This pig doesn't come to work every day, so he becomes a partner in their company.
To say that the man is a pig is not derogatory, because the man himself said that he would be a pig as soon as he joined the job. Anyway, he wouldn't be able to come to work, but he hoped to help everyone. Everyone soon discovered that this buddy has magical skills. He can get projects for the company through his parents, so the bonus for this product at the end of the year is the highest, and the company cannot do without him.
Some friends may be uncomfortable, but this is the strange way of operation of this society, and even this mode is the origin of this society to a certain extent.
You may have seen some people who are like pigs, they don’t know their farts, they don’t know anything, but they are still in a high position. I have met several times over the years. At first I was puzzled, but then I gradually figured it out. It is also a circle.
As we all know, some people are born with "leadership", but the leader is very lonely. He has to cooperate with and fight against the people below to prevent them from fooling him. What should I do?
There is no other way but to get a small circle, get a few people in, let them watch the scene for themselves, the leader may not be a pig, but there are probably so few in his small circle, he often talks to his own small circle When dealing with circles, it is inevitable to have a lot of trust in these people for a long time, and take them wherever he goes. When he goes up, the pigs will follow.
This is why I posted on Weibo some time ago and said that many industries are actually ridiculously high. Once you enter, you will find that many people in them are doing pigs. The law of 28 is similar everywhere. Everyone is confused.

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Ordinary people’s way of making their heads After
talking for a long time, some friends may say that the style of today's article is too dark, right?
Actually not, just to talk about the logic of the operation of this society, and to tell everyone not to listen to those in high positions talking about growth. The life trajectory is different. The children of other people are born with three college diplomas. What about the others?
That ordinary people will never make their heads?
That's not it. Even in ancient times where the class was the harshest, my country had imperial examinations, and Europe could get a title for itself through overseas expeditions. Now this channel is actually much wider. Although some people cheat through plug-ins, there are still many opportunities.
First of all, we can still pass the college entrance examination. Don’t yell at those who have mines at home. We should study how to cultivate attention, how to cultivate resilience, exercise our body, and attack those difficult hills. If the conditions are not good, we are afraid of hardship. That's it.
Many people ask, can the college entrance examination really change lives?
If your starting point is very low, 10,000% will change. Whether or not to go to university is totally two life paths. Don't listen to them saying that white-collar income is not as good as bricklayer. Then why don't you do bricklayer? Isn't that work is not done by humans and there is no guarantee at all?
So when a white-collar worker is guaranteed?
Not necessarily, but there are always a few gusts of wind blowing. Even if you are a pig, you might be in heaven. For example, the kind of leadership we mentioned above might get you in when you organize a small circle. Life takes off.
Although politics is not correct, society is indeed stratified. The higher you go, the more opportunities there are, and the greater the probability of being confused. One's life depends on the waves. The higher the position, the greater the wind. When the wind blows, you may fly.

And as I said above, there are many tracks, maybe one of them has your name written on it. Someone who is born on the track of "personal connections" or "parents" graduated with a bachelor's degree, maybe which one You graduated from the track a long time ago, but you don't know anything about it, so you still have to explore and think about it.
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Epilogue
All mature societies are divided into three stages.
The first stage encourages struggle and encourages everyone to work hard. As long as they struggle, we can turn over. We are more familiar with this stage, probably starting in the 1980s and continuing through the past few years. The
next stage is the second stage, decades of experience. With rapid development, society has widened the gap sharply, and some people have accumulated huge wealth and status barriers. These people began to become calm and calm, indicating that everything is fine. If you don't believe me, I will not force myself or my baby, and I also borrowed money from a shell to travel.
In the third stage, everyone is completely relaxed. Almost everyone has their own position from the beginning. For example, the German model is the most obvious. When children are in the fourth grade of elementary school, they are confused and diverted. Theoretically speaking, junior college and vocational high school can be promoted to university. In fact, it is rare, and more and more countries are now adopting this model. The picture below is from the Weibo blogger "Lawasha".
Of course, there will be a large number of articles to provide theoretical support in this process, such as telling you that it is very good to go to a vocational high school, and that the manual labor is also good, even better than white-collar workers, but those who say these words will put their children in college.
Many people in China have been applauding this model in recent years, but Germany has criticized it a lot, thinking that this model has torn up society. Aren’t many people in Germany boycotting masks this year? These people’s brains are flooded. Blind heart, I can't see that the upper class in Germany hides in the village, nor can the middle class in Germany are covered tightly. Some Germans have learned that this is the result of years of tearing up education, and some people are turning back to pigs.
There are also some people in Germany who are promoting education reform, but it is very difficult, because the beneficiaries of the education reform are not obvious, but it will harm the interests of some people.
We have repeatedly said that the middle class is not worried about curing, they are worried about not curing enough, they are most annoyed by the grass-roots mud legs to grab the position of their own babies by recklessly fighting, they have piled tens of millions of equipment on their bodies. School district rooms, countless interest classes, extracurricular tutoring, etc., the inheritance of intellectual instability is simply a nightmare for too many people.
Let me summarize at the end of the article. Anyone in the upper class says that he wants to let his child be an ordinary person. This is no problem. If you encourage others to do the same as yourself, you are basically unwilling to do what they ask you to do.