1024 you may be the same as me! On the way to solve bugs or write bugs.
If you are not a programmer today. How would you spend this day.
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Just after get off work, I turned on the computer in the taxi and connected to the mobile phone hotspot to write this article. Today I don’t sell anxiety, talk about technology, and talk about work.
The seven year itch
In the past 7 years, I was able to quarrel with my current position, and finally achieved a positive result. I have experienced a lot of ups and downs. From the university campus to the society, from a different place to being together, sincere, upset, crying and laughing, all exist. , But the one who always accompanies me is one, hard work will definitely be rewarded! What have I been doing these seven years?
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In the past seven years, in addition to work (working overtime, typing codes), I have been working hard for my love. Compared with all couples, I have experienced more, but not less. As an ape, I have always tried to balance work and relationships. , In fact, balancing this kind of thing is really a headache for me, but I still bite the bullet. Maybe compared to people who are just married, they don’t have to worry about pressure under the protection of their parents. Their work and house down payment are all in Going on the right track under the arrangement of the parents. I have more things. I can’t lose my work, nor can I lose love, and I have to do the down payment myself, because these things are more difficult for programmers. Especially because you graduated, it's even harder to find someone you like.
When I met her 7 years ago (2011), the idol Jay Chou was still singing "Princess Disease". Today, Jay Chou is married and has his own little princess. The song and painting style is full of fatherly tune. The new album " "Jay Chou's Bedside Story" is also what I like to listen to. Time is fast, 8 years in a flash.
In 8 years, I wandered in three cities. From the days when I only spent 5 yuan a day on white noodles, to the days when the two of Modu ate 300 or 400 meals a day, they are indeed constantly upgrading and fighting monsters, because I know her. She was not pretty at the time, and she had nothing compared to me, just because she liked it! But I still miss the barbecue stalls next to the campus, because beer is really cheap hahaha, so don't think I am rich, or I like big legs and so on, because it is not easy to run it for seven years. It's that simple.
I remember watching "Break Up the Contract" starring Peng Yuyan after college. There was a line saying "We will be single in five years and we will get married." It was only in 2016 and 5 years that I got the certificate. Then you didn't get married when you were single, did you break your promise? And now it is indeed 7 years, we already have our own baby.
It was taken in the school building in 2013.
Thank you for your company throughout your life, treat everyone kindly, and cherish everything, because time does not wait.
Photos on the Bund in Shanghai during the National Day in 2014.
Although I have almost nothing in my career in the past few years after graduation, I can only count as a mess, but in these years of emotional exhaustion, I think it is worth it. Isn't everyone working hard for the family? Isn't it more important to consume life in advance? it is good?
Many people say that they are under a lot of pressure. Why am I not? Every month mortgage, milk powder, and other expenses add up to 2W, but I can't hold it hard. In the face of family, I can't say that I can't.
Did the programmer fall in love and marry early?
The whole thing is said to many people that the sooner the better, because after graduation, there is no time to work, and no energy to fall in love, eat with girls, watch movies, and always maintain the vitality of surprises. Girls, regardless of age, actually have a princess. My heart, so the best time to find a girlfriend during college is less money, more time, and easy to coax. This is definitely less than the cost of finding a girlfriend after graduation. But some people say that the economic cost of marriage is also very high. Great, why don’t I meet my favorite flash marriage when the time is up, it can also save the time consumed by work, it depends on you, if you work first, it’s okay to go in love when the conditions are ripe, but for many It’s better for the N-generation of farmers to get married early, because when your parents are old and want to bring you a child, you won’t have the strength, not to mention that you are still in a different place. These are actually our concerns.
Just like my twin children need more human resources, if my parents are not there or are old, the only thing left is that I give up work and take care of the children. The pressure can be imagined.
Is the house important? Is love important? Is work important?
These three points are usually encountered by many people and need to choose. If you encounter these three aspects, which one should you choose first? It depends on which one is right for you?
If you choose love, many people will have to give up their job somewhere. I suggest you choose love. Can you change your job? If love is gone, it is difficult to get it back.
If someone you like asks you to give up your 30k job in Beijing and go to the second line to get 15K, I encourage you to go to the second line, because you have not only love, but also her family's contacts and other resources that radiate.
If there is a choice between house and love, few people have a chance to meet this. Will you give you a house and let you leave a woman? Is this possible? I think this choice is probably when your girlfriend asks you to buy a house, let you choose to break up without buying a house. If your wife’s family asks you to buy a house, this is actually a normal mentality. After all, it’s a big job. If you leave it to you, I guess many men will think it’s too much, in fact, it’s not too much. If you don’t ask you to buy it in which city, it’s easy to do. You can buy a house in the third and fourth tier, so that your love will not be lost. Many people will think why I lost the opportunity to buy the first home when buying a house on the fourth tier, so that it will become a second set when I buy it. Seriously, this fourth-tier house actually gets more than just one. Feelings, maybe you are together. Instead, he saves you money and works hard together. Of course, if you encounter a mother-in-law who must buy a house in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, if there is no room for maneuver, let go early and find a value that fits together. it is good.
Finally post a photo taken during the National Day this year!
No matter what difficulties you face, how many twists and turns you encounter, fellow programmers, come on, there will be bread, women tickets, cars, and houses. Everything will be better. I hope everyone will live as a man in the comics! I also hope that everyone will really work hard for at least something or someone! After all, whose youth is not lost!