Today, Xiaolu climbed up to talk about his three views. Although this topic is very big, I still want to write down what I think at the moment. It is a reflection on my own life stage. I may look at this article later when I look back. A kind of memory.
It is precisely because you and I are like-minded and have similar interests, that the collision of the three views has made us know here, otherwise you can't pay attention to this account for no reason.
The so-called three outlooks are what we call the world outlook, outlook on life and values.
1. What is the worldview?
The so-called worldview, to put it simply, is how you view the world, in other words, what does the world look like in your mind?
2. What is the outlook on life?
The so-called outlook on life, what do you think people should pursue in their entire life? How do you think people should live their lives?
3. What are values?
The so-called values are what do you think are most valuable to you in your life? Is money? Is it powerful? Or is it substantial, simple, and labor?
There is a saying that it is good, the three views are not in harmony, and there is no need to make a living. There is no such thing as absolute right or wrong in the three views, because each person’s growth environment is different, personal family concepts and growth experiences are different. Therefore, the three views are different. We have no reason to ask others based on our three views, and there is no reason. The reason is to regulate oneself with the three views of others.
In this article, I don't talk about any major principles, nor do I write about soul chicken soup or the like. From the daily comments of some readers and chatting with friends around me, I have sent it with feelings. I will briefly talk about my three views and talk about some of my own thoughts.
By the way, I would like to emphasize again that there is no absolute right and wrong in the three views, so we have to look at everyone's three views rationally.
4. My worldview
Worldview, how do you see this world? After I was born, I was full of curiosity and mystery about the world; before 15 years old, I was full of ignorance and ignorance of this world; before 18 years old, I was full of dissatisfaction and complaints about this world; before 20 years old, I was full of hope and yearning for this world. Until now, I let myself know the world again.
Speaking of the world is a wonderful thing, you say it is as complicated as it is, the universe is huge, full of infinite mystery and mystery, the birth and continuation of mankind, the history and culture of China for five thousand years, are full of mystery Color, these are worth exploring in our lifetime.
To say it is simple, it is really that simple. From a philosophical point of view, it can be as simple as Lao Tzu's word "Tao" to summarize everything in the world.
If you feel that "Tao" is difficult to understand, you can understand it from the perspective of our technical people. It can be summarized in two words, that is, "object". Don't you always say "all things are objects". Yes, it is abstract and generalizable. Maybe the world is like this.
From a biological point of view, all matter is composed of the simplest atoms and molecules. It can also show that complex things are also composed of simple things.
In fact, when it rises to the level of philosophical thinking and adds a bit of mystery, it rises to "Tao". Although "objects", "atoms" and "molecules" do not represent "Tao", their emergence is "Tao" from scratch. The role of Tao.
The world is complex, and the complexity behind it is constructed by simplicity. Therefore, everything in the world, and even the universe, cannot be separated from being constructed by simple things.
But often we are often confused by the surface of complicated things, such as hot news, entertainment gossip, etc. At the same time, because of the existence of these, we will continue to consume our energy and time, which will make us lose our mind or affect us for a long time. A lot of judgment in doing things gradually fell into confusion and self.
Especially in recent years, the world has developed very fast, but a lot of negative information has also brought various influences on you, which has changed your understanding of the world. But this world was originally that world, but it is the self that is constantly changing.
The above is this stage, my understanding and generalization of the whole world.
5. My outlook on life
Have you ever thought about such a question, what should people ultimately pursue in this life? Specifically, what should you ultimately pursue?
Many people will answer that it is money and power. They thought it was too vulgar to talk about money and power. It now seems that behind the pursuit of these seemingly vulgar materials, it also reflects the reality and cruelty of society.
After the internship, one of the topics I heard most graduates talked about was that society is so difficult, and it is not easy to make some money. If you want to do what you like, you will either be starved to death, or you will choose to return to your original job and continue doing the work you don't like. I dare not say that everyone is like this, but at least most people are like this.
Some readers sent messages saying, Brother Lu, I want to enter the factory. I said, talk about your reasons, because big factories have good welfare and high wages, so you can live better in the future.
I want to say, "Everyone knows that beauty is beautiful, but evil is nothing; everyone knows that good is good, but what is bad is not good." The meaning of this sentence is that the reason why people pursue beauty is because of the existence of ugliness, and the reason why people know good is because of the existence of unkindness.
There is a low for a high, a short for a long, a small for a big, and a loss for a gain. The two are inseparable and transform each other. One kind is sure to make the other slowly lose. Behind the welfare is 996. The so-called loss has become a physical exhaustion. Although everyone's life is different, the time given to each of us is the same. So what you pursue is up to you to weigh gains and losses.
What are you pursuing in your life? This is determined by your outlook on life. In terms of outlook on life, my personal principles and pursuits are: what I have obtained, not arrogance or rashness; what is not obtained, be calm.
If you have been following me for a while, you must be aware of Xiaolu's temperament, and if you plan for the worst, you will start tossing around.
When I just entered society, someone told me that you are still young and you have to learn to adapt to society. As a representative of the post-90s generation, I think our generation is not here to adapt to society, but to change society. Even if the blood bleeds at the end, what can be done?
Life is a joy to live. One thing I usually ask myself is, if today is the last day, would you regret what you did today? I would pat my chest and say, there is nothing to regret. From the university all the way to society, I did not make a decision that made me feel particularly regretful. Instead, I felt that I was particularly lucky.
Regardless of whether others say good resources or bad resources, it has a place for you to learn, and you should have a humble heart to learn the strengths of all things. There is one thing that I am particularly profound. Before, I personally hated training institutions, but then I changed my mind. In fact, there are content in training institutions that I should study and explore.
In fact, this process is also the process of gradually improving my outlook on life. There is no so-called good or bad in the world. My personal principle and pursuit is to choose his own strengths, regardless of whether it is good or bad, and finally use it on myself. Help, that's a good thing. Know things and pursue things without prejudice.
So later, I will not only learn the knowledge in the programming field, but also learn the knowledge content in other fields. Whether it is the development of the current field or the development of the future, this is a pursuit of life for me.
In the end, I summarized my personal outlook on life in a simple sentence, do not ask for great wealth, but only ask for a clear conscience.
6. My values
Values, what do you think is the most valuable to you? Money, power, sharing, technology, love or affection, these can all be the most valuable things in your life.
Deer, what do you find most valuable in your life?
In the second half of my life, I dare not say that in the first half of my life, I regarded responsibility, sharing and credibility as the most valuable things in the first half of my life.
1) Responsibility
I think the value of responsibility is linked to one's own outlook on life. If a person has no sense of responsibility, especially irresponsible to himself, it can be said that he has no outlook on life. We are irresponsible for our pursuits, let alone other things.
2) Sharing
The value of sharing. For me, who has been writing original for two years, today I am qualified to talk about writing and sharing. What makes me stick to it, I summarized it in two aspects.
The first aspect is to improve yourself. The initial orientation of writing is to improve one's ability. Remember the transformation of gains and losses mentioned above? There is output, which urges me to have input. Where does the input come from? In the final analysis, from reading, from practice, from work summary, from life, from study.
In the second aspect, sharing is supplemented. It may be said that in this Internet age, there are too many people sharing, but to be honest, many of them are mainly sharing, and others are supplemented.
But if one day in the future, no one really reads the articles you shared anymore, will you continue to share it? You say, I will, then how long can you hold on?
According to Xiaolu, sharing is only a supplement, even if no one will read your article in the future. You will find that this matter is still very valuable, because you choose to write and share this matter mainly to improve yourself, even if no one will read it in the future, it does not seem to affect your pace of life.
3) Reputation
The value of credibility is particularly important to me, and credibility is built on the basis of sharing writing. It is also because of credibility. I am respected by others, and it also brings me a steady stream of resources.
Let’s talk about the interpersonal relationship first. In the early stage, it was difficult for me to receive any projects. However, when an opportunity comes, it depends on whether you are prepared and able to grasp it firmly.
Now it is said that the Internet is messy, various scammers, and people’s reputation for surfing the Internet has slowly been wiped out. However, the more so, the more we should build trust and credibility between people.
I remember that when the first client and I developed a project together, it was because we were strangers who had never met before, but trusted me more. Therefore, I was able to do a good job in this project and gained credibility. As the foundation of trust, until now, those old customers who have been cooperating for many years continue to bring me new customers. Whenever there is a project, I will think of me, because credibility reminds him that he is reliable.
In addition, there is too much credibility between me and the readers. For example, I think I recommend really good information to you, you believe me, this is your trust in me. For another example, some readers of some outsourcing projects I develop, this is my kind of trust in you.
Trust is mutual, and it is also a matter for both parties. Without one party, there can be no full trust. Of course, trust is a double-edged sword, with both advantages and disadvantages, but in the long run, the advantages outweigh the disadvantages.
Responsibility, sharing, and credibility are all key to the establishment of my personal values, as well as the foundation of other values. For me, these three are the values of my life.
I really like the sentence, money can be recovered if it is lost, and it is difficult to recover once it loses its reputation.
At last
The above are some of my sharing of my three views, which are basically positive, but the world is not as black and white as you think, but in this respect I don’t have much to share, so I just rely on it. The rest of your own learning and understanding, because you will gradually find that the more you learn, the more you understand the less you know.
Maybe now I am immature, some ideas are immature, or some things are not done right, but I believe this is the test of life. Now it's not like before, science and technology are advanced, and society is also advancing.
Why are farmers very afraid of being poor? Because at that time, they were really afraid of being poor. My family is also in the countryside. In this life, to be a person of value, to do something valuable to society. Every one of us should be thankful that it's great to live in the Internet age! It's good to be alive!