Eating education is an important part of family education. When parents eat with their children, they constantly confuse their children's ideology. Eating is not just an important part of life, it is not just a means of survival or personal enjoyment, but also an important family parenting education.
How much to eat
Chinese parents - "There is a kind of hungry is my mother thinks that I am hungry." Chinese parents are afraid that their children will not eat enough, squatting, deceiving, chasing and letting children eat more, completely vetoing children's self-judgment and decision-making.
American parents - never force their children to eat more, even if they are hungry, then they will bear the consequences of their own decisions, and will not do so next time.
How to eat
Chinese parents - used to feed their children to eat, see children not eating their own clothes are rice grains and soup, some Chinese children are in their teens, parents have to feed.
American parents - let the children eat themselves, think that the child is born with the instinct and ability to eat to avoid hunger, you can do it yourself.
Who is delicious to eat
Chinese parents - Chinese parents are very "sacrificial spirit", leaving good to the children, the fish head is their own, the fish body is the child, and the Chinese children think that it is their own for a long time, but I only believe that I eat the most. Good is what it should be.
American parents - will not specifically give the best meals to children, everyone is equal, and resolutely avoid letting children form self-centered, selfish bad problems.
Table manners
Chinese parents - Chinese parents talk about affordable, pay attention to children eat well, do not care about eating. In front of the table, adults and children, free and unrestrained, screaming, licking their teeth, snoring, talking and laughing; finally, make a mess!
American parents - American parents do not force their children to eat well, but they attach great importance to their children's table manners. Children have to eat themselves since childhood, and they have to train with a knife and fork. Americans are not allowed to put their bowls on their lips to eat and drink. They are absolutely not allowed to reach out to take things far away from the table. They must be handed over. The most important rule is that you can't talk in your mouth with food. And you must chew your mouth shut so that you don't see the rice in your mouth. It is absolutely not allowed to open your mouth and chew, and your lips will ring. Foods such as chickens and fish with bones, skins, or thorns can not be rubbed with their mouths, and then spit out bones and thorns. They can only be peeled and peeled with a knife and fork in the dish.