1. Never both be angry at the same time.
不要两人同时生气。
2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
除非房子着火，不要相互大喊大叫。
3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.
如果必须为争论决出胜负，让你的伴侣去赢。
4. If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.
如果不得不批评，用爱的方式批评。
5. Never bring up mistakes of the past.
不翻陈年旧账。
6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
忽略世界而不相互忽略。
7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
争吵不过夜。
8. At least once every day try to say one kind or complimentary
thing to your life's partner.
每天至少一次对你生活的伴侣表示关爱和赞美。
9. When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it
and ask for forgiveness.
做了错事的时候，勇于承认并请求宽恕；
10. It takes two to make a quarrel, and the one in the wrong is
the one who does the most talking.
吵架，一个巴掌拍不响，说的最多的恰恰是有错的人。