Wrote my child
Children, first of all I want you to start to finish is an idealist. You can be a farmer, it can be engineers, actors, may be tramp, but you have to be an idealist. When you are young, we tell the story of a hero to you, you will not want to be a hero, but I hope you have a pure character; when you childhood, we let you in contact with poetry, painting, music, is to let your mind filled with exquisite tastes. These exquisite tastes will support your life, make you the most harsh winter will not forget the roses, it will make people superior ideal.
Children, do not worry about their appearance or looks. Your ideal pure temperament, but also because the most beautiful woman vulgar and boring. The road leading to the ideal is often unsatisfactory, and you will do this had suffered. However, the child, even though you go to fight, but never tragic outcome idealists poor. In that looks like a rough life, you will get to know many wise and gentlemen, you will see the scenery and many others can not experience the miracle. Select mediocre, although safe, but no color. Do not give up their ideals as petty, not as some kind of trend and change their beliefs. The appearance of the material world is too complex, you have to know how to reject the temptation of vanity. The ideal thing is not affordable, it often can not bring pleasure to your earthly. So you have to get no appreciation you learn to enjoy the spirit, learn to live with others different.
Secondly, boy, I hope you are a practical people. Life is too short, and too many imaginary things, it's easy to get confused, and ultimately nothing. If you're a beautiful girl, a young man many men will spoil you, you get something too easily, which makes you tend to be shallow and superficial; if you are a very smart boy, thought he would be able to achievement many events to flow in frivolous. Remember, the limited ability of each person, we live in the world can do one thing well enough. Write a book, do a housewife. Do not underestimate ordinary people, not opportunistic, not to attack their own can not do. After that you will grow up to know, to do something difficult, but never to give up.
You need to know and cherish feelings. Both men and women, regardless of wall wall, an intersection is not easy. Dating process will have misunderstandings and friction, but you think about it, the huge world, destined to knot can mix and lines and several people? You have to understand that friends will eventually leave, life is to be with someone around you, listen to you talk, talk to you, you should be grateful. To love yourself and love others, to understand themselves and understand others. Your mind should be as soft as a stream, you wavefront to be like a spring charming. You will cry, will alone sitting in the dark and listen to sad music. You have to appreciate the tragedy, the tragedy can enrich your soul.
I hope you do not kitsch. You are a separate people, no one can deny your independence, unless you compromise with the secular. To learn to appreciate really, really want to see under the heavy mask. Sleek world standard of many people, but very few outstanding people. The outstanding and often hidden under Beisuo wild swing. Formally, we can not battle with the established secular, but in his heart, we are all their own king. If flattering smile on your face comes out, I will hide my face in shame away. Although many worldly things bright but no value, do not place themselves on the scale of the public, therefore you will know what to do, parrot.
In the specific man, I hope you do not interrupt the conversation, do not squeamish full. You have to come up with at least two hours a day to reading, to reply to a letter to your friend. Do not dwell on what others should do for you, but to think of how to help others. To borrow something others also, we should not accept other people's favor. Remember, other people's things, no matter how good of others, their own thing, and then the difference is their own.
One more thing, although it is hard, but very important, which is to have the courage to face their own shortcomings. In the year you will grow up, gradually you will encounter stronger than you, better than you, you will find yourself had many shortcomings you hate. This will make you depressed and low self-esteem. But you have to face up to it, do not dodge, little by little to be corrected. But also to overcome their difficult and rewarding than to conquer others.
No matter how the world changes in the trend, but the person's good qualities is timeless: integrity, courage, independence. I hope you are a
A good person.
Source: Liu Juntao's blog
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