Happy Life (Part Seven): how to guide their children aspire

Determined from the moment you begin: make a dutiful son in the family, a good student in school, being a good citizen in society.

  When children learn sages learned, how we guide them to aspire to? He said that if I do the Prime Minister, and that the goal of his life now relatively little further, we will guide the children how determined? From determined to make a dutiful son in the family, the school wanted to become a good student, in the community are determined to be a good citizen, to start from the beginning here. So I think he will now learn sages learned to help my mother brought a cup of tea, to help his mother feet, are to exercise the teachings of the sages, are doing a dutiful son. Many children will say, Mom, grow up, I will buy a big house you live in, buy a big car to give you a lot of my mother was very happy after listening. But children will quarrel with her every day, buy a big house every day after she dreamed she would live. Children of filial piety should not be the only hope to begin filial decades later, the real filial child will start from the beginning of the moment.

  So we use "pupil rules" to guide their children, you speak with parents and agreeable; you can share those solutions of labor every day to help the mother to do housework; you can read a good book a good day, let parents rest assured, these are actually doing work dutiful son, so do not let his ambition given his life out of touch takes off. So in the process of doing the children very happy, very practical. When a good student in school, we had several children have been rated as "good student", and why the most important of these teachers after reading some of his information, be sure to specify comment is Miyoshi him? Because these children are filial piety makes them very moving.

    There is a child a week do forty-three piety, many teachers saw all impressed play from the heart. So the school can be a good student, a good citizen in society when. Many children see their elders, some old people on the train, they immediately understand your seat, so a seat, other elders Ye Hao, Ye Hao children, very moved to see, you see such a small child seat all know that we need to more ashamed, so these are the children know how to seat and let the community know how to pay and know how to help others.

  I have one younger than two years old began to learn English, her aunt taught her to read English, learn the results after a while, her grandmother took her to our house, and then began to show. You friends, have you ever done such a thing? "For elders, not to be able to see" a lot of these kids grew up in front of the family behaved insufferably arrogant, behave as if the very capable, from an early age what she was president? Pride, arrogance is one of the biggest enemies seek knowledge, a long slow heart, she arrogant. So she came to our house, her grandmother began to talk to her, she said, "Come, we study English for these elders to listen." He began to say, "how about Apple?" Said the child, "apple." "Umbrella how to speak?" "Umbrella." Say a good number no deviation, Li is not terrible? You may We heard, "wow! What a great", he was still there to clap. Suddenly the child back to her grandmother saying: "Grandma, how about books?" Her grandmother heard, said: "how do I know?" The little girl said: "! Grandma, how are you such an idiot." With the knowledge , with the skills, and attitudes toward elders did not understand the words, the higher the more arrogant knowledge, so learn the order must not be reversed, not reversed.

Reproduced in: https: //www.cnblogs.com/flysun0311/archive/2010/05/12/1733614.html

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