Now many people are not saints-depth knowledge on the first criticism, so there is no way to learn something. So proud is not long, a Pride just learned sages separated by a layer of film, is not passed through.
In the material civilization of today, the old stuff does not mean outdated, because the social truth is eternal, timeless, like the sun, though it is old, but always new every day, it not only gives human life, but also bring light and hope. Sages education, like the warm sunshine, shine on the earth, bring human happiness.
I teach "Rules" when there is just one teacher called me and he said there teachings of sages dross. Now many people seek knowledge, barriers here, have not tried to get in-depth knowledge of sages sages criticize people, so there is no way to learn something? No. He was not honest, I do not believe that criticism. Criticism is that we can criticize him than he knows, then we criticize saints on behalf of our people is higher than the sages learning. So proud is not long, a Pride just learned sages separated by a layer of film, is not passed through.
So of course we can not say, "You can not criticize," so that he can not accept? He could not accept. So I said: "ask, which sentence is dross?" We still have to be polite, "which sentence is dross?" The teacher immediately said: "The morning of the province, is scheduled faint" is dross, is Chenhundingxing dross. I went on to ask him: "Why do you think this sentence is dross?" The teacher said: "ask once in the morning, have to ask once a night, twice a day to ask, too much trouble." There is no reason? Now everyone has his set of reasons. I did not tell him positive, "you're wrong", so say he can not accept, I told him to communicate an idea, I said: "Parents are always thinking about the child, saying" no power to tear Sze Wan , less than the Diocese read the heart '. " "No power to loved ones thousands of miles Tears", indeed there are some among thousands of miles dutiful son will miss his mother, will be tears. "Less than the Diocese", not as distracted at home parents thought that child is every moment.
We want parents and his children, in the southern Fujian dialect there is a word called "sub-parents hurt long-running water," is that parents read children like water, steady, do not interrupt. But "the parents want the child tree tail wind", children want their parents as if a gust of wind, shoop, blowing gone, long time and jeer, again blowing about it, so we are compared to our parents that really care for nothing else than .
So I then told the teacher that I say this all the time parents in the study, there are some mothers even in autumn and winter, particularly large because of temperature changes, sleep may be just the time difference with the middle of the night three or four degrees there, so he was afraid the children play quilt, it may be cold at night, so the mother was particularly thin cover, and why? To the middle of the night I woke up cold, then quickly to help children to be covered. I'm talking about this period of time, a lot of mothers nodded, she is the way to do so is not only a mother, so the mother even during sleep are thinking about children.
So when we talk up the morning greeting parents, "Dad, Mom, good morning, yesterday slept okay?" Parents look, you are the shiny forehead, on behalf of adequate sleep, sleep well yesterday, he looked very at ease . Then you know early in the morning to greet him, his mood is very pleasant, so-called "Man promises a good harvest," how can there be more than filial children make their parents happy thing, so you such a question, the parents know that you sleep well, do not worry for you. Afternoon come back home as soon as possible to talk to greet parents, parents look, the spirit is quite good today, on behalf of the school have serious conflicts had happened with the students in the school, so he looked very assured, sooner or later, so long as we can greet parents reduce a lot of concern. So we do children, economically, in many life, there is no ability to help parents, so we have to do at least the Son of Man reduce parents' fears.
After I finished such a guide, the teacher said: Tsai, you learn the Chinese culture is not bad. He would not have continued to criticize the sentence is dross. He say this, we immediately said: No, no, I am flattered. The result is very powerful teacher, he did so praise me, I'll give a Parthian shot, almost equal to ask me, he said: Tsai, you have not done. Because he knew I was uprooted take forward the Chinese culture in Haikou, he said: you did not do it, "Chen province, is scheduled faint." We read people fear most people say we say one thing and do another, this fear. He was such a question, in fact, I was not nervous, I then explained to him, I said: If I ask now once in the morning, once at night to ask, my mother would scold me, she said you do not know the long-distance telephone expensive? So we asked the school not learn to stay, to be very flexible.
Sooner or later we greet the most important to let parents peace of mind, you greet the morning and evening so that parents worry about where you spend so much money, it runs counter to nature. So we are adults, and parents can make a real peace of mind is definitely not your day playing tee phone, five on the phone. What most parents peace of mind is? Is your moral knowledge, people skills so that he can really trust, that is the real parents not to worry about, so heavy nature, can not die in form. Of course, sooner or later understand childhood greeting, this is a very good habit.
So the essence is the same, is a concern for parents is to let parents do not worry, but in practice can vary. So I fixed a week is a phone call home, my mother at that time, she could hear the phone ringing on the sense that this is my son play. Playing every week, sometimes too much like her mother three days to give her back, she will have a big surprise, she said, only three days you hit back. So this means that we must grasp its essence to utilize the teachings of the sages, to be able in every age, every living among the state, it is very flexible to use, put it on its parents happy, let all of us to accept these relatives can feel a thickness of Chinese culture.
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