1, do not just share a book
readings, not only to share books, but also to discuss each topic. For example, read "Jascha talk about eating," we can just "eat" this topic, speak freely; read "How to Read a Book", you can discuss the "reading"; read "alive", the meaning of life; read "Hamlet" tragedy, and so on ...
If only those who share the stage to share a book, it would only exchange a single direction, we want to do an interactive, discussion of the book club.
Finalized, each share consists of two parts:
- Share Share who came to power (no more than 7min)
- Topic discussions and exchange (controlled within 10min, if the discussion is very active, and then consider extending)
2, to create a safe and comfortable communication environment
conference room rental, there is a headlight, open, very bright, some glare, off, a little dark, barely able to see clearly the face. After the repeated switching of the switching, finally she chose to close, leaving only some small lights around.
Like moths to a light place, who might like a little dark, a little romantic and a little insecure.
People came to the door to see inside the dark, I thought, would be quietly run out, and no one was found, so we went came in, there was hardly any people left halfway, come in, he was sharing the stage attracted.
The audience of listeners, thinking, black Ma Ma, people will not know who the speaker was, then daring to ask questions and participate in the discussion of it.
This is from the outside environment, to create a safe and comfortable communication environment.
As a host, when appropriate, to guide the audience to speak, is also very important. In fact, everyone has expressed the desire, who has anything to say, look at the audience as the host, one can see through. That looked at the screen thoughtfully, with expectant eyes that look at you, and that's been a yes or no. At this time, only needs to be one, "so and so, do you have anything to say," help things along, but the other party will be very grateful to me.
I set up a book club "liked it": "a calm, open, good at listening, positive thinking book club."
Many people have wondered, calm Shajiao a book club?
In fact, the calm is a state of mind it, we share a calm, quiet listening, calm discussion, matter, on the subject to discuss this topic, even if you think he's wrong, is not going to criticize this man, refute the notion that he can. Under calm, natural there will be a sense of security, comfort, everyone will naturally speak their minds.
3, to digress a little forgiving
if there is discussion, there will be beside the point.
For beside the point, you must immediately stifle it?
Of course not, we are a calm, open book club. If you stray from the point in which we are immersed running, let it keep going; if you are running absent-minded, that as a host, you have to promptly cut off it.
4, the control share of the number of
re-goodies, eat stays, do not feel good; no matter how good a share, if the audience did not have enough energy to listen, that is a waste.
The total enrollment of 6 share, after the end of the third share, feel and listeners have been a little tired, so the proposed decentralization of the remaining three, then finally a little time to do what recovery disk, so that we talk to participate in the study will feel.
5, finally, to share some of the feelings of the audience
"Everyone past different experiences, makes them different views of the same thing, reading this exchange, allowing different points of view collide"
"It feels like a large coffee are in and meet face to face."
"Book, is only an introduction, leads to a topic, the more important is that we thought and discussion on the topic"
the above.
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