Procrastination seems to be a disease that suddenly appeared. It spread all over the country at once, and many people felt that they had procrastination. Then there were many lectures and books by experts on the market to tell people how to treat procrastination.
But the disease has not been relieved at all, on the contrary, more people feel that they have procrastination.
Strange how it was not discovered before. I remember when I was a child, during the summer vacation, I would have fun with a few friends, go up the mountain to catch birds, go into the water to catch fish, and when the summer vacation was about to end, I realized that there was still summer homework left to do, so I stayed up late to do my homework. At that time, I didn't feel that I was procrastinating, and my parents didn't think that their children were procrastinating, and they didn't blame themselves for not finishing their homework earlier, why they didn't finish their homework earlier.
After procrastination, parents will say, look at procrastination again. The child also feels that he has procrastination and is distressed, which increases the psychological burden for no reason.
There was no procrastination before, but more and more people felt procrastination, so there was procrastination. I think procrastination is not a disease, it is a normal behavior of people, but more and more people think it is a disease, and even more people think that procrastination is an untreatable disease, procrastination cancer.
Procrastination is an imaginary disease. If you think you have procrastination, then you have procrastination. If the day after tomorrow to submit a very important report. But since you don't know how to start, you played a day first today. When you go to bed at night, if you slap your thigh and say, "I'm sorry, I'm procrastinating again." And start to fall into self-blame and self-criticism and can't sleep, and vow to start writing reports tomorrow, or else Whatever happens, then you have procrastination. When you go to bed at night, if you don’t blame yourself for being playful, but because you had fun during the day and slept well at night, then you are not procrastinating, but regulating your emotions.
Another understanding of procrastination is that I always thought that procrastination is just to do something until it is close to the deadline. But when I heard someone say "Hamlet" and said "to be or not to be?" Hamlet has been hesitant to kill his uncle Claudius for revenge, I realized that Hamlet Indecision is also called procrastination. It is precisely because of indecision between "to be or not to be?" that a series of tragedies lead to a series of tragedies. It was not until he was about to die that he made up his mind to "to be" and killed his uncle. Claudius.
Actually, I think "to be or not to be?" is a bit like Schrödinger's cat, you only know the result the moment you open the lid. That is to say, no matter whether it is "to be" or "not to be", you can only know the result if you do it, and different choices have different results, and there is no good or bad. When you open a door, a window will be opened." No matter what you choose, God will arrange a way for you.
By Hamlet, I thought about myself, and I've been vacillating whether I've been leaving or not, and a year has passed in a flash. "To be or not to be?" There is no conclusion, it is easy to say, no matter to be or not to be, as long as you choose one, there will naturally be a way to go, but when it comes to choosing, consider When it comes to colleagues, myself, and family members, I hesitate again.
I think that's why people say that it's not easy to live life after knowing so much.