Building a circle of friends
Women will use our circle of friends to locate our image and judge what kind of person we are. Many people want to turn their circle of friends into a collection of hexagrams, which are full of messy links, advertisements, etc. When women see these, they will feel that this man is very boring, and he just has nothing to do every day. Just turn these things around, so no girls will like it.
What women value is that men have quality, life, value, and taste. They all like high-quality men, but if they don’t like that kind of men who pretend to be aggressive, here’s how to properly build a presence.
1. The avatar should be good-looking and attractive
We can imagine that when we were walking on the street, suddenly, our mobile phone vibrated, and we found that there was a girl with a beautiful head to greet you. Even if there are many girls greeting you at the same time, you will still be given priority. Reply to this girl, and she will open her profile, double her circle of friends, and take a few more glances. But think about if this avatar is a girl with disheveled hair and a very average appearance, how many people would be willing to reply to her? How many more people are willing to look at her circle of friends? So a good avatar is equivalent to a ticket. If you want girls to reply to you, the proportion of avatars should be at least 70-80%. No matter how good your circle of friends is, if the avatar is bad, the other party will ignore it. You, so the first step is to have a handsome avatar.
Some classmates may ask, oh my, what should I do if I'm not handsome enough? It doesn't matter, the face value is not enough, the hairstyle and the shooting angle can also make your avatar look cool. You must find a hairstyle, clothes and photo style of your own. At the same time, pay attention to an angle of shooting. If the face value is not enough, just shoot the side face or other angles. All in all, this is to promote strengths and avoid weaknesses. Advice: There are no ugly men in this world, only lazy men.
Before taking pictures, take care to dress yourself up, I believe you will find a different self.
- First of all, the avatar must be neat, this is the most basic. Your background, don't have any messy things, such as dormitories, beds, etc. If there are, it will make your life very unquality, very low, the background of the avatar must be clean and tidy, such as a solid color background. A wall, or some very sentimental cafes, this kind of stylish background wall is all right.
- Since it is an avatar, you should put an avatar or a half-length photo, and never put a full-body photo, because it is difficult to see your face in a full-body photo, so it is difficult for such a photo to attract the attention of the other party.
- There is also the angle. When shooting the avatar, the angle should not face the camera head-on. It is difficult to capture the beauty. You can see the ID photo and the ID photo. Therefore, you should learn to choose a side or a 45-degree angle when shooting avatars, which will make your avatar more three-dimensional. The first is the angle. Don't shoot your face directly at the camera, keep an angle of about 45 degrees on the horizontal plane, or other angles, choose left and right to satisfy yourself, then raise the phone, and shoot up and down like this.
But remember, no matter how good the avatar is, if the quality of your circle of friends cannot keep up, it will be considered fake by the other party, so having a good avatar is a good first impression.
2. The circle of friends shows themselves in an all-round way by displaying photos
Moments show themselves in an all-round way by displaying photos, including appearance, height, economic level, social status, and personal taste, just to let girls know that you are different, you are more characteristic and valuable than other boys, so the core of Moments is value. We want to properly showcase our high-quality, stylish selfies.
- First of all, the selfie is not simply handsome, and it looks good when you take it, but to make yourself look like a handsome man who looks very fashionable and good at dressing up. Therefore, when you are taking pictures, the matching of clothes and the choice of scenes, including the retouching in the later stage, are very particular. So here I want to emphasize that you may not be handsome, but you must have a sense of fashion when you take your photos, so that girls will feel that you are a person with a high quality of life. When taking a selfie, you can find some decorative objects as the foreground or use in combination, such as bracelets, hats, etc., but don't put it very large, don't stand out, it will steal the spotlight. Light and angle are also very important, so as to make your photos more beautiful, so everyone must work hard when taking selfies.
- Your hairstyle should be good, a bad hairstyle can directly ruin your overall sense of fashion, what we have to do is very simple, find a professional barber shop, hair stylist, design a hairstyle that suits you, according to your face shape With your temperament, this one allows the hair stylist to give you some professional advice, which can quickly improve your personal image.
- Lifestyle photos. To put it simply, it is to show off in a low-key manner, your colorful spare time life, and you have to learn to show some petty bourgeoisie, what is rare is precious.
- Food photos. Food is something that everyone likes. Occasionally in the circle of friends, it is very tempting for girls to sell some better food. This also shows from the side that you also have requirements and pursuits for food. people. But you have to learn to take pictures of beauty. When shooting food, you have to learn to shoot the same way. There is too much food in the picture, which will make you feel very messy. Make sure that the food looks delicious and attractive, and eats. You don’t have to only take pictures of food. Some restaurants have exquisite tableware, special drinks, and some high-quality food, all of which can show your quality of life. Note that the food is not Lanzhou noodles, Shaxian snacks or skewers, etc. The purpose of sending food is to show high quality of life, and at the same time to make girls interested, ask you where is this? Is this thing delicious? And this is not your three meals a day. And being a good cook, it is easy to attract girls' favor. For example, if you put some food that sells better, or you look like you are cooking or cutting vegetables, then the image of a good man at home will also give girls a good image. There is a sense of security.
- Photos of serious work or doing things. In fact, dedicated men are the most attractive, and they give people a reliable sense of trust. For example, you can put some photos that you signed on the computer and thinking about, or photos of those water pipes at home that are broken and you need to fix them yourself. This is a kind of charm that can show your serious work. But you must pay attention when taking this kind of photos, try not to look at the camera, otherwise you will feel very pretentious, as if you are deliberately showing yourself, so it is best to ask a friend to help you take pictures when shooting, and your eyes should be Naturally, then focus on what you're doing, not posing just because you want to take a photo, so don't go straight to the camera.
- Take pictures with small animals or children. Girls are born with cute little pets, and she has no resistance. For example, you can put some pictures of yourself walking the dog, or you can feed stray cats, or some pictures of small animals, these All girls like it very much, and there are some very cute children who take pictures with them. This will also show that you are a very caring person, a woman will think of a caring man, then he will definitely take good care of himself, his family, and her partner. So a group photo of small animals or children will make you appear more attractive.
- Pictures with other girls. Post some pictures with beauties to let girls know that you are very feminine. It shows that there are women around you who are excellent, which will increase your attractiveness and show that you are a valuable person. But when you take a photo with a girl, you two should not be very ambiguous, this will make other girls think you are a playboy, which will lower your own evaluation. It’s enough to have one or two in the circle of friends. This post should also highlight the relationship between you, just friends, ordinary friends or colleagues. For example, you can say, “Oh, the almighty circle of friends, my good friend is looking for a man Friends" in this way, this can avoid misunderstandings with other girls.
- social photos. Social photos can reflect your status and are a focus of attention in the crowd. You can put some photos of taking photos with friends. Don't bring that kind of slut in. Friends gathering, the bigger the better, for example you are speaking in a meeting. Table gatherings are fine, but remember, you have to be the center. The photos must reflect that you are the core of this group of photos. This type of photo expresses your place among the same sex, is highly respected, and reflects the recognition that you are a leader. Such photos will greatly enhance your attractiveness.
3. Rich entertainment activities
There is no girl who doesn’t like boys with colorful life. Different activities can arouse girls’ attention and curiosity to the greatest extent, so as to have the opportunity to communicate and interact with them. For example, you can take some photos of people who are exercising, running, and swimming. These photos are all fine. Sending these photos shows that you are a person who loves life and is in good health. This is better than those who play computer games at home every day. There is a big difference between males. You can also engage in more advanced sports, such as skiing, surfing, and rock climbing, which can improve your style and show a high quality of life. Or you can try to send some photos of pottery, or playing the piano or singing, which shows that you also have a certain artistic accomplishment and aesthetic level. In any case, showing a wealth of entertainment activities can make the other party have more favorable impressions of you.
Any photos that are positive and reflect your value can be put in the circle of friends. The key point is to express them naturally, not to highlight them deliberately.
This photo is taken, and it needs to be optimized with retouching software. With a tall photo, you need to match the text next. Be careful, don’t directly describe what you are doing. For example, when you take a selfie on the yacht, you still post, “Oops, I am on the yacht”, this is your The photos show high value, and then you use text to emphasize it. Is this necessary? Does this make you look pretentious? Therefore, we should avoid the high value that we want to express in the photos when we match the text. For example, there is a photo, you want to express that you are driving a Porsche, you can't match the text, "Oh, it's so cool to go for a drive in a Porsche", but you need to use the topic of good days to match the text, take a picture Take a picture of yourself driving and say, "The weather is nice today, let's go for a drive". Avoid the wrong display surface.
If you want to send photos of travel, people and scenes must be perfectly integrated, and they look like people with stories. You will be full of human heads by then, and then you should not post it when you come here for a tour and so on. In a scenic spot with a very general environment, a picture of a restaurant full of tourists' taste, a picture of such a restaurant that is not high-end and has no style, is not suitable for posting to the circle of friends. That kind of over-pretending circle of friends, this matter is always based on the principle of moderation. Over-pretending can easily arouse the disgust of girls. It is like a friend who often brags to you that he is rich, and then invites you to eat only a skewer. Do you think this person is hypocritical and pretentious? So don't show something or something when you post on your Moments. Once you don't control it well, it's easy for girls to think that you are pretending. When girls leave such an impression, it will be difficult for you to change them. .
Don’t post in Moments every day, or don’t post, but post something meaningful. The construction of Moments is a long-term process, so it must be well managed from now on.