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On the last day of 2019, Luo Pang quoted a sentence from Teacher He Fan in his New Year's Eve speech: Use one's long-termism to hedge against the uncertainty of the world.
At that time, no one could have imagined that the uncertainty of the world would come so violently and so cruelly.
This year, many friends are full of anxiety, fear and pain.
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Anxiety and fear make people change
In many people's perceptions, emotions such as fear, anxiety, and pain are harmful and should be discarded.
After all, many people pursue a peaceful, happy, and happy life.
What if we want to be accomplished people? Or do you want to be a good person?
I am afraid we must learn to accept the positive effects of these emotions.
Achievement is never easy to obtain, and the process of pursuing excellence is often accompanied by pain and struggle.
Anxiety and fear are only the appearance of emotions, and the deep reason is that life has encountered difficulties or crises.
For example, the body is suddenly very uncomfortable. If you pay attention to it, active inspection may be able to stifle major diseases in the infancy.
If you turn a blind eye and continue to let it develop, it is very likely that a minor illness will become a serious illness.
In this sense: Anxiety and fear are often the starting point of life breaking.
Find out the cause of anxiety and fear, face it, and find a way to change it, and you have achieved a leap in life.
Regarding the positive effects of fear, Liang Ning said this:
A person who continuously invests 10,000 hours in one place becomes a genius because of the support of pleasure;
A person is conscientious and conscientious, everything is centered on this matter, completely forgetting himself, many times he is because of fear;
As for a young man, if he has neither pleasure nor fear in his work, you can basically judge that he will not achieve much in this matter.
In fact, as long as we don't fall into a state of excessive anxiety, moderate anxiety and fear can help us avoid danger, distinguish important things, stimulate motivation for work and life, and play an important role in our growth.
Six months ago, a reader read an article of mine: Internet people don't believe in tears , so they asked me to consult his career plan, and also talked about his anxiety and fear of the future.
The advice I gave him at the time was: determine the development route, accept moderate anxiety, and change his actions.
I talked to him again a few days ago and was delighted to find that he has made a huge breakthrough in the workplace.
If there is no anxiety and fear at the beginning, the change may not happen.
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What really drives you to become stronger is pain
My good friend Zhang Aizhi, the founder of Taoli Ventures and CEO of Chengla, has invested in a number of well-known education companies. Many years ago, he was less than 30 years old and had already succeeded in starting his own business and being wealthy and free.
Once when I was drunk with him and got so drunk, he suddenly said: I am unwilling, very painful, and I have never done anything big.
A tycoon who started his own business while he was studying and finally successfully sold it to a listed company, and a tycoon with an investment institution and an education company, in the eyes of ordinary people, seems to have achieved great success.
However, he still felt pain. After drinking a meal, Aizhi shared his more than 10 years of entrepreneurial experience since the beginning of the research. He was not reconciled to being poor so he started his own business, not reconciled to do too much, so accelerated the layout, and was not reconciled to sell the company so he started a second business.
I suddenly felt that pain and unwillingness have been driving him to achieve one after another.
Just as Liang Ning said: The group of people with the highest accomplishments have a talent called pain.
Great pain will drive a person to make great achievements.
Before founding Xiaomi, Lei Jun was in pain, believing that his life had no success but only a small one. This pain drove him to go into battle and gather a group of great people to start Xiaomi's journey to the sea.
After Musk sold his first company, he fell into emptiness and boredom. In the end, he was unwilling to live this kind of life and chose to invest all his money in entrepreneurship and achieved what he is today.
The same is true for Lao Zhou, who once followed. After selling 3721, he often fell into pain and anxiety. After the founding of 360, it was repeatedly mentioned that 3721 should not be sold, but should fight Baidu to the end.
This is the story of big bosses. As ordinary people, should we make ourselves more painful?
If the real life has made you miserable, there is no need to make yourself more miserable.
However, many of my friends around me, at a young age, have made some small achievements, but have fallen prematurely into a state of pride and complacency.
For them, it is better to have more pain!
Let them look at better peers, look at the bigger world, and create a gap.
This kind of gap will bring pain, but also the motivation for progress.
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Overcome pain to grow
Growth itself is a process of tearing, reorganization, and pain.
Some time ago, I was working out and doing strength training every day. After that, my whole body was aching.
I asked the coach: Why is it so painful to exercise muscles?
The coach told me: The essence of muscle exercise is to tear muscle fibers through high-intensity exercise and then re-grow.
This is the case for physical exercise, and the same for other growth, you will definitely experience: tearing, reorganization, pain!
Speaking of pain, I have to mention Huawei's helm: Ren Zhengfei!
Ren Zhengfei has always been a tough image. Behind his toughness, Ren Zhengfei has endured unimaginable pain.
"I understand why those executives who can't bear it in society choose to commit suicide. The problem is focused on you. You can't run without making up your mind. If you focus on the sun, you will know that the CEO is not good. Every day. After more than ten hours of work, I was still confused, wrinkled clothes, internal and external conflicts. In 2002, the company almost collapsed. The IT bubble burst and internal and external conflicts crossed the company, but I was unable to control the company for half a year. They are all nightmares, and often cry when they wake up."
This is the text written by Ren Zhengfei in 2011 when he recalled the difficult times that Huawei experienced.
Ren Zhengfei's description of the difficulties at the time was only a few words, and most of them focused on the company's operations and the macro environment.
But in fact, he experienced more things. During this period, Ren Zhengfei experienced the betrayal of love, the bursting of the communication industry bubble, international lawsuits, the death of his mother, and cancer.
Anything in it can kill ordinary people when taken out, but Ren Zhengfei walked out in great pain and led Huawei to the pinnacle of world technology.
After experiencing these pains, Ren Zhengfei was reborn from the ashes, and he developed a strong psychological quality and super structure.
How strong and strong this is! This is the growth brought about by overcoming pain!
This year is indeed very difficult. Many people have given up sports, studies, hard work, and travel.
There are also many people who face shrinking year-end bonuses, face unemployment, face difficulties in making ends meet, and face difficulties in the workplace.
But most of the time, only pain can bring real change and growth!
Just imagine, if we survive all the difficulties this year, the future will be very bright.
Overcoming pain can we grow!
Final words
Only when we really desire something, we will have anxiety, fear and pain.
And this desire is precisely the power to change us.
Live in peace with anxiety, fear, and pain.
Use these emotions reasonably to drive yourself to change, grow, and progress.
Drive yourself to achieve major or minor achievements in life.
Instead of avoiding anxiety, fear and pain, choose games, vibrato and other nipple music.
People who have not experienced fear and anxiety can hardly change themselves.
It is difficult for people who have not experienced painful baptism to achieve success.
Face the anxiety and fear and overcome the pain, the suffering of life is inevitable, but as long as you persist in growth and struggle, your life will eventually be brilliant.
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