It’s easy to understand that the so-called Internet content entrepreneurship is basically to create manure and raise maggots, because most readers like this taste.
The sky fell fortune, and then constantly slapped people who had humiliated him before. The core of the so-called online cool text is a collection of fancy slaps.
Who doesn't like the pleasure of slapped face.
Why do people like slaps? Because I am often in frustration, lack of self-confidence, and lack of respect, I always look forward to one day, raising my eyebrows and letting others worship.
However, they do not know what true respect and admiration is.
1. Self-righteous slaps in life are but self-deception.
It's like someone who is despised by a waiter in a store and immediately takes out the money to buy and buy, and feels that he has slapped his face and saved face. Actually? After the waiter completes the transaction with a flattering look, he will probably secretly curse in his heart, hitting the stupid man with a swollen face, and then happily calculating his commission. What did you win!
In many cases, I really deceive myself and others, feel that I have won, and feel that others will admire myself, and it’s just a spiritual victory.
In fact, not to mention others, and I am no exception.
Sometimes I often come out to be awkward, you see, the decision of the big man at that time, it was stupid, what my article said at the time, it was a face.
The boss is still the boss, and he is still himself. When everyone has a stupid, if someone is stupid once or twice, it doesn't mean that you win others.
To be honest, I think when I was young, I was especially looking forward to having the opportunity to slap others. It was no different from the cool feeling of my son-in-law, yes, frankly speaking, I was also low. In fact, I haven't completely turned around in the last two years, but it's a little better than before. What's better, let's talk about it at the end.
2. Above a certain class, the difference in value and assets will not bring worship and admiration.
There is a particularly strange logic in Shuangwen, that is, a certain young master reveals his worth and identity, and a bunch of big bosses tremble and worship.
What a shame.
Why is financial freedom called fucking money? After earning this amount, anyone can talk about fucking. People with a little money, their waists are easy to harden, and will not worship more wealthy people.
Low force people probably don't understand what the so-called spiritual freedom is. After the value exceeds a certain level, the so-called difference between the value and the assets will not bring worship and admiration.
Let me give an example around me. There are a lot of rich people in my circle of friends. What everyone admires most is definitely not the most valuable person, but someone like Gao Shaoxing. In terms of wealth, Gao Shaoxing is really not a rich person in the circle of friends, but he is free and can go everywhere. In the rich world, consumption and entertainment don't cost much at all. It is more enviable to have leisure than to have money, but envy is envy, and there is absolutely no worship.
Don't talk about people with special wealth and status. I have an equal mentality when chatting and drinking tea with people who are 100 times or more worth more than me. I am not going to flatter each other or to please each other. I don't care when I meet those who don't care.
Will a person worth a billion meet a person worth 10 billion? Only low force can understand the world like this.
3. People who cross strata do not bother to prove themselves downward.
After the liberation of China, there were not many so-called traditional rich people or so-called aristocratic families, and most of the families started from being poor and white.
Then the rapid economic development in recent years, there are indeed many people who become rich. The poor become rich. They really like to show off and use the display of wealth to increase their self-confidence and increase their aura.
But in fact, after experiencing a period of wealthy life, I don’t like this way too much, and even the other way around, we must hide our wealth without revealing our wealth, for fear of causing unnecessary trouble.
In a sense, a person with assets and status, if his mentality is elevated, he would not even bother to prove himself in front of the people at the bottom.
The poor who bought a good mobile phone, bought a brand-name bag, bought a brand-name clothing, would be very willing to show off, or as a display of identity. But after a certain level, they still need these things to prove themselves?
There are many successful entrepreneurs around me. When I was just rich, I bought millions of supercars. Whether you have fulfilled your dreams, or if you said it is a show off after getting rich, in short, it is very beautiful. After a while, it took less than a year or two. I found it impractical, too ostentatious, and replaced them with relatively ordinary models. Of course, for many ordinary people, they are still driving luxury cars. After all, they also want to pursue comfort and safety. Relatively ordinary cars are hundreds of thousands. But for their worth, it is just a scooter that meets their demands.
You think he is showing off to you, but he doesn't think this thing is showing off at all. Moreover, people disdain to show off to you.
To be honest, rich people have a lot less fun than poor people, but a lot of things are too easy for rich people to get, and they don’t feel so happy. Unless they get something very desirable, difficult to obtain, and relatively small, they will enjoy the joy of obtaining.
A person who has enough time to have a certain amount of assets is generally unwilling to deliberately show off his wealth and worth to the poor. If you have a typical rich second generation that has been accumulated for many years, you will find that most of the rich The second generation is not really keen on showing off wealth. A small number of people who are keen to show off their wealth, most of them are the second generation of the upstart, have a short period of money, and their mentality has not been adjusted from the low state.
Including showing off wealth in the circle of friends, showing off wealth on Weibo, and showing off wealth from the media, one part is the kind of poor people who are rich and has a low mentality, and the other part is not rich at all, all kinds of pretends, in order to cut leeks or fish for good. child.
4. The self-confidence in the bones, people who read Shuangwen really can't realize it.
A mature and powerful person will compare himself with himself and see if he has made progress and growth. Even if he pays tuition fees and stumbles, he can gain new knowledge and new lessons.
So a mature and strong person is actually very humble, friendly, and respectful of others, because he doesn't want to compare with you at all, why should he humiliate you, why should he bully you, why should he put on a superior appearance.
I know a lot of people whose intelligence, knowledge, wealth, and career crush me. They are really scary people with bright backgrounds and identities. When you meet me with a teacher Cao, you have to be as modest and modest as you want. A small area can give the other party some new knowledge and some help, and the other party will be very grateful to you, as if you have helped much. Recently, this kind of experience has become more and more, and the stronger the person, the more humble. On the contrary, it is those who are low, and they pick you up every day. If you write a punctuation mark incorrectly, he can prove that he is more powerful than you.
The people in Shuangwen are all like crazy, as long as they have a little advantage, they will humiliate each other, sarcasm each other, and then wait for the other to reverse and slap in the face.
Low's worldview is probably like this. If you have a little advantage, you will be complacent, and you will humiliate people who are not as good as you. But they think the same is true for the upper class, and the same is true for people with status and status. In fact, people who have reached a certain status have only two attitudes towards other people. First, people who have direct relationships, cooperation or business dealings are very polite, even if they don’t think so, at least they will be very polite in face. Second, I'm sorry, ignore those who have nothing to do directly. If you want people to humiliate you, they don’t have the effort and energy.
The most typical positive case is Yao Ming. Bartley ridiculed him, but was beaten by reality and kissed the ass of the donkey. What did Yao Ming say? Yao Ming said Bartley was his idol. When Yao Ming first entered the NBA, many people refused to accept him, and many provoke him. In the end, he proved himself, but those people became his friends and he needed to beat those people in the face. What? No need.
Self-confidence does not need to show a lot of evidence, and a lot of evidence is needed to prove one's own insight, worth, and ability. Those who are not confident.
Some people must think that I just like to show off, that is, I like to slap in the face to people who have hurt me or bullied me. Why do you say I am low?
As I said in the previous article, I am not immune to it. Frankly speaking, I am quite low, but I think that with the improvement of age and economic status, people can actually be low a little bit higher. For example, even if you like slaps, Anyhow, go to slap some people with status and value, even if low is a bit high, eager to slap your face and low to force you to get what you can get, low force people have no face.
Then you said I was low, but there are still some long-term negatives.
The first is that the mentality is very bad and you can't figure out your position. People who always think about one step ahead of others can hardly make greater achievements. The so-called strong holding each other and the weak tearing each other apart, this is really the case.
Second, many opportunities for social networking and many opportunities for career advancement will be lost.
I was criticized and taught. I felt that I was humiliated. I tried various ways to slap my face. After finding a loophole in the other party's behavior, I was triumphant and took the opportunity to retaliate.
In fact, maybe people criticize education for your improvement. If you change your mindset, it will probably help you grow up. But if you rush to slap your face, the price is often your own future.
Third, it is really unnecessary to hit a swollen face to fill a fat man.
To prove yourself, to buy unnecessary things, to make unnecessary consumption, or to engage in unnecessary dangerous behaviors in order to face others, I think it is quite stupid.
The point is that you think you have proved yourself, but it's just a kind of psychological comfort.
Fourth, he will hit himself in the foot.
Mi Meng's previous articles are actually quite a lot of case stories, all of which give readers a sense of slap in the face. This is also a kind of value that she caters to readers and advertises how to finally make people who laugh at you envy you. So later, I read the report, the in-depth interview about Mi Meng, which she brought out, yes, the one who was an assistant with a monthly salary of 50,000, left and went to another company, showing off from various circles of friends, deeply stabbing I hurt Mimeng himself. In fact, that person is not that good, but he has upheld this value very well. Various circles of friends show off the set of people, in fact, in order to face the old club.
Even if she gets a million annual salary, she is still a low force, and it is the low force she cultivated.
Therefore, the pattern of being a person is a bit higher, and slapping others does not mean that you are better than others, really.
Keen to slap others is a manifestation of the immaturity of young people. Of course, I am a bit more party, and it is also a performance of low pressure. I have to reflect on myself.
An old article actually has the same meaning.