【Part 1】
Recently, my mind has been ups and downs, and many things I want to come are my wishful thinking. Maybe I want to make myself passable in the society, not let myself be the one who is in the fire, not let myself be a silly child who sacrifices himself and completes others, but eventually has nothing. It is the real way to learn to balance interests and maintain awe of the evil nature of people. It is also ironic to think about it, and gradually became a disgusting look.
People are easy to dismiss what they get for free and others take the initiative, such as the deep love of their parents for many years and the little help of an ordinary friend. The former seems to be numb, but the latter is tearful. Ha ha, want to come is also a comedy on earth.
Therefore, when you actively want to help others, even if you pay 100%, what you may gain is the other party's "Oh, I know." Looking at the other person, the pursuit of interest plus the intention of evil intentions, make some tricks, Precise placement, only need to pay 1% to get the heart.
Sometimes think about it, resistance becomes part of the darkness, then it will be swallowed by the endless night, and finally the more you live, the more you will be. The art of film comes from life, with live examples such as Liu Feng in "Fang Hua".
The only way to make yourself a good one is to maximize your interests. When you need to sacrifice yourself, you must weigh the benefits.
Think about it, a beggar on the side of the road, and the glamorous young man in the lobby, who are you willing to be friends with, so, not how the world is, you are also part of the world.
Loving a hero is a consensus. It is the simplest and most direct. When you continue to cut meat to feed the eagle, you will eventually lose the use value. You are no longer a hero. This is a vicious circle. Sleek life, crazy profit, and self-growth, your hero aura is getting bigger and bigger, even if the road of your growth is piled up by the bones of others, but who cares today, what they see is your glory The brilliance, and the twinkling eyes they adore, are a virtuous circle.
Into the world, we must follow the rules of the world, do not blindly sacrifice, and spend your time to enhance your status, strength and interests, let yourself become a steamed bun, with fragrance, naturally there is no lack of chaser.
【Next】
Why would you resist becoming a dark-minded businessman?
Because your mind cannot be at peace, when you calculate the value of your help, the nine-year compulsory education: selflessness and love, the first reaction is to resist the calculation, is a sacrifice of no return.
As the old saying goes, there is no hero in the world, only the realization of the pain and satire of life, but still with a heart that loves life, smiling and forgetting to run forward.
Like the two I met recently, one was a girl I thought I would always be optimistic and sunny. In my past perceptions, people who walked lively and happy, never complained, and often played funny with their colleagues, wanted to come. A good family and a carefree clothing owner, but later learned that the opposite is true. The unfortunate marriage, divorced women who have passed the age of fancy, will secretly wipe their tears for themselves when they work overtime to earn money and friends give up. Worrying about her situation, while licking the wound, while calming her inner sorrow, she has to look after the young baby. What is the opposite of her full of vitality and her shouldering the burden of life (female, looking for someone really looking for someone who loves you very much, no matter whether you have a strong love for him, whether he is rich, regardless of him Whether he looks handsome and artistic, he loves you is the best companion for the long years to come). She is really a very strong girl. I hope she will be treated forever in the future. When she brings joy and sunshine to others, others can also give her some visible care. In front of her, my inner strength is really thin, I sincerely admire her, I want to learn from her, life has abused me thousands of times, and I live like my first love.
The other one is the team leader in my work. An interesting person. Well, when it comes to this, it still confirms what I just said. We must continue to strengthen ourselves and let others feel that you have a flash point. Only then will you like it. You will gradually be treated kindly by others. To be honest, my team leader, my impression is from contempt, to a little fun, to surprise, to incredible. To despise, when I first came in, I only talked about the coldness of the work, and the attitude of the assembly line was very different from the few friends of my previous company, so I didn't recognize the team leader at first. After getting in touch later, the team leader's serious and meticulous work attitude and kindness (well, inner kindness can be felt) makes me feel a little funny. Afterwards, I always felt that the team leader was quite mature. I was almost amazed when I learned that his age was so small. As the days passed, the team leader always carried the handle ahead and silently carried a lot of extra burdens. For example, if a certain person did not want to work, the team leader would have to pick himself up. Someone would stab the basket and the team leader had to clean up the mess. For example, on weekends, the big guys want Ge You to lie down. If something happens, the team leader will stand up for the first time. Well, I have to admit that I will make plans for myself. The attitude to work is to do my part and improve myself. It is king, I will use my working time to read books and study, but my team leader gave me a lesson again, deducing what is a really good employee, never doing this thing, only doing the company ’s business, dedicated to the company. Are you saying that the team leader is stupid, no, people are so smart, you can think of it, the team leader can think of it. Therefore, before me is a living Lei Feng shining. I adore the team leader, a playful contemporary Lei Feng who seems to be cold and warm inside.
As the team leader said (well, it seems that the team leader is about to become my idol), the biggest misunderstanding is that I never understood it.
Have the courage to bear the consequences of your choices, and every step you take can calm your mind.
No longer indulge in the past, just like you will feel that the so-and-so popsicle candy you bought in the 90s, the very old TV series you watched, and the nostalgic games of so-and-so are much better than the present. In fact, it is not really there. How good it is because it represents your memories. Memories always make people easily fall into it. The pain of the present reality always tends to let you avoid the past years and is not willing to accept the ordinary life. The mind is full of the once scenery, dreaming of the opportunity to come again. Carrying the burden of memories will only make you more and more breathless. Let go of the burden and let the past reincarnate, cherish the present, the Buddha's words, the sea of hardships, and the end of the sea, and let go of the people you love and the things you love. You have only one heart, and only the memories of the passing away of the beauty will only make the heart lashed with scars, even if there is a better sun in the moment, it will not spill into your heart. Treat the past, peace of mind, let the years calm down.
The life of a society is full of bravery and kindness, but it is more familiar with bad routines than bad people and loves life and embraces life.
It ’s not good to study for a long time. I have been working for six years, but it is almost the same as the four-year experience of such a young team leader. Not to mention that I only transferred to IT in 17 years. Haha, down to earth. !
-Recorded at 2020-04-19 03:25