The identity of graduating students want to go interview a company, this company feeling is good, the first round is hr face, I thought hr surface is water, not screening people, then the answer is also quite satisfactory, I do not feel What do the wrong thing in place. Happy to wait for the second round of interviews. But totally did not expect, but still not actually hr by plane. After much deliberation is where do bad, the last thought of a fatal problem, that is, when I express no eye contact! Video interview, and then I basically did not speak the whole look at the screen, eyes probably on the camera side. Later, I tried a video yourself, imitate what they look like, feel very bad indeed found his eyes look empty and terror, people feel very bad, this time I want to understand the reason lies.
Before the interview is live or phone interviews, he has not previously aware of the importance of eye contact.
Eat a lot of losses, after a long memory.
Growth path will encounter many pits, climb out it wants, it will no longer make the same mistake.
To follow the "triangle rule" when two people look at each other with eyes dialogue.
"Triangle": the two sides are in the public distance, but not too familiar or unfamiliar, you can use the virtual eye view each other's head and shoulders three points, forming a virtual view of the large triangular space, both make each other feel you to regard him, but not too feel less natural, especially among the opposite sex.
"Little Triangle": bilateral relations in general, in a distance of about 1M, you can use this way to communicate on the visual look, his forehead at both ends as two points, plus a point at the chin, to form a virtual triangle depending on the space, it can also play a role previously discussed.
"Golden Triangle": the relationship familiar to communication from the more recent, face to face, when one party can communicate each other's eyes as two points, as the nose a little, into a three-point line, this little triangle virtual space has become, as the two sides Area. Of course, do not forget to properly make eye directly on the TV, with particular emphasis on conversation, or further confirm the attitude of the time. At the same time, the eyes should communicate with the content of our conversations, situations be adjusted, but also with our actions, behavior and facial expressions synchronized, so that heart to hand to your eyes, facial expressions, natural and revealed confident, natural, spiritual, frank eyes, to achieve the best communication results.