Ever heard a word that makes sense:. "Competent people, not on emotional care, only work on serious; incompetent, does not work on serious and only care about the mood on the" larger pattern of people, the less love care. Because they know that excessive care of the heart, will bring endless troubles; a little less care, in order to feel the world of flowers everywhere.
Seen such a story. One uncle slipped in front of a restaurant, he hurled the intruder asks: "?! You here who is the manager of my waist hurt, and immediately took me to the hospital," Seeing the situation, the manager did not because uncle regardless of indiscriminate swear a pass and angry, but very politely said: "in fact I'm sorry, your back is all right I'll arrange it, please take a seat at?." uncle sitting in a chair, continued care about non-stop. Manager handed him a pair of shoes, he said gently: "Please put on your shoes, and now I'll accompany you to the hospital." Uncle manager to replace him shoes and handed the waiter, said: "These shoes have been worn thin heel before we come back, send it to the repair shop for a rubber heel. "hospital test results were normal, uncle mood a little calm down a bit. Manager, he said: "It is presumptuous, we repaired without the consent of your shoe shoemaker said, is followed by thinning only make your walking slippery.." And then did not hear Uncle scolding, took the shoes repaired left .
In fact, as early as the uncle come in and see a lot attendants are a little unreasonable uncle. But the manager smiled and said: "He must have slipped mood, as if we care about him, things only get worse. If you have business there can eliminate the amount of misunderstanding, why not do it? " In everyday life we also often for some trivial little things big and go to war. In fact, the real pattern of large people, bad things come from not entangled.
In a market where there is a particular business aunt fire, causing the envy of other stall. So, we often intentionally or unintentionally put their booth trash swept to the front of her stall. Each time, the aunt very generous smile, all the garbage to clean his stall in the corner. I have observed for several days, finally I had to ask her: "? How do you not angry yet," Auntie said cheerfully: "The more garbage in front of me, the better my business it has now sent the day! money to me, how I would mind it? "those who throw garbage stall hearing this, I felt very ashamed. Since then, those who refuse never appeared in front of the booth aunt. Not only that, stall holders and other relationships aunt has gradually improved. I can not help but admire the play aunt, she won with a tolerant and harmonious interpersonal relationships for themselves. People in this life, will encounter a lot of not liking things. If caught them for everything, and that will give bring endless trouble himself.
As the saying goes: be tolerant to diversity, tolerance is a virtue. Not entangled, sometimes it is not cowardice, but a retreat to the wisdom of a open-minded generosity. Not entangled with the bad things, do not sweat the small troubles, people can more easily satisfied and happy.
The road of life twists and turns, there are always a lot of things are not so satisfactory, this life can not be one hundred percent perfect. People pay too much attention to, we will live hard; things too entangled pair, we will live tired. If you can not avoid those who make us unhappy, we can not eliminate those painful thing, at least we can change attitudes towards them. The drop put down, the bearish bearish, take its own way and do their own thing, is enough. There is a saying very reasonable: If you love, where life is lovely; if you hate, where life is hateful; if you are grateful, always be grateful; if you grow up, everything can grow. Do yourself, know how to see the world appreciate the vision, know how to deal with bad people and things with optimism. Over time, the scenery around you, the state of your life will become better follow up.
Source: Net substance (ID: cystyle001) | Author: Net Jing | ANCHOR: Zhang Mengjie
