Write down the title, my heart is sore. This is forcing us to admit that owe their parents do?
Play from the first day of birth, we are taught to care for the young, so how could do such a thing.
We seem to recall that when we put a bowl of vegetables carefully singled out, as my mother always hear the same voice Kingdom by the Sea down on us and shouted: "The teacher did not teach you not picky eaters do not eat vegetables get sick? of."
Then, we simply ignore a pleading look, the whole bowl of vegetables placed in front of us, such as general ordered the soldiers generally said:. "Today you do not eat these vegetables, it is not allowed to sleep."
But I do not know when to start, gradually became a style like this: When we are away, the dishes on the table no more than two parents. Can we go back, they will be instantly transformed into a kitchen god, anxious to markets in all the dishes Dounong home, the fish is done, it is cooking chicken. Filled with a table, for fear that we do not like.
"You do not like to eat broccoli, it is always born, the mother eat, you eat this ......" aside and said, while also the Western blue and sweet and sour pork in front of you in front of her tone took over. Dongkuaizi can not, we say: "Mom, I'm on a diet, do not eat meat!." The next day, the dinner table is a piece of green. (Www.daiqiyang.com)
We may not find a time when our parents become listen to us, just as our childhood listening to their words in general.
We grew up, gradually from the soldiers became generals. When we opened the door the parents will be in front of them shouted: "You do not know the first knock on the door before entering the room it?" In the many times when we called to ask when could leave, which would have to work overtime to get angry we will impatiently at them, said: "from 7:00 to now, you have to play five times the phone you have to let me do what I am not a child, not wandered off, you do not.! while a phone call, okay! "
This is sick, get treatment, you know?
Small, we dare to speak to their parents? They let us do what we are afraid to say anything, immediately executed. But now, we have grown up and independent, they become cautiously down in front of us, did not dare say a word.
Parents actually quite poor, young, work hard for the family, the son grew up, and he is slowly old. Fear of loneliness heavy affection they began to worry about anything wrong, let the children have been pressure on the big upset. So they became cautious, our tone of voice command from the beginning, and now discuss or seek, or some more please.
In fact, just because they feel they have to grow old, no longer able to protect us. Fear of losing our dependence on them, thus turning rely on us.
Heard from another friend, it made me feel.
Her parents did not know what time, should learn how to use QQ and micro-letters, but also added her friend. But for once she said on the talk eat, home meatballs, and then the next day I would see what classes to teach his mother standing in front of his home in, his arms still holding a box like a baby like meatballs . She did not know they turned out to be a friend, a friend was very angry, and did not ask illiterate parents, and learn how to use QQ micro letter. But feel that they are monitoring their own lives. She said she has still remember when she asked out loud, why should they secretly add her as a friend, like a mother to do something wrong like a child, said: just want to see more of her photos, want to know more about her life . Then panic, carefully told her that if she does not like, they'll be deleted.
Friends said at the time she was guilty too wants to forget his own death hit the wall.
We are not wicked, nor filial piety do not understand, however, why is this happening?
That's because our thoughts are changing and individuals grow stronger, we become strong from the weak position before. We always casual, not conscious enough to say those words, did those things.
But we do not understand is, that year we were young, one day will become grow stronger, and now the parents will only get older, more and more weak.
So, please put away your those casual, do not let your parents become cautious in front of you.
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