According to my past write a blog for no direct narration style, this is a title of "get mysterious."
But recently really I have been thinking about some of the problems, "mysterious", such as the method of work, direction in life and how to think more effectively.
Brain humble?
I occasionally speak with his girlfriend joked I have a single core of the brain - thinking about a problem can make me focus, two questions make me think of anxiety, I think a bunch of problems will make messy. Later sad to find that it seems not a joke.
Apparently thinking makes me so many problems above messy.
I have angrily resentment God unfair, he did not give me a brain like a cattle people that deal with more complex issues without difficulty. Later, learning the principles of multi-threaded, I am relieved, and even gave me a multicore brain, if there is no regularly threw it a bunch of questions, is estimated deadlock blocking there.
To this measure, only Daguai upgrade themselves in life, gradually into the thread scheduling optimization algorithms, divide and do the task prioritization, even though I am a single core, but also make it efficient to run out of a high frequency.
Tetsutana?
I know I have problems, and that is not done on their own or are not good at things very ashamed to show in front of people, fear of being laughed at.
For example, I will not Xiaoping Guo, unlike my sisters ingenuity in the end be able to continue to cut the skin of an apple, so at the start I was able to eat apples to eat apples, then someone advocating that Apple does not peel to eat better, then I do not care if it has a scientific basis on Xinxin Ran accepted.
Another example I grew up not shuttlecock, and then later on several occasions to participate in sports and other activities, everyone in a circle to kick shuttlecock, I was surprised to find that almost all the men and women play an ace, a lot of people will all kinds of fancy, but I generally is to try to find an excuse not to participate, or general shuttlecock flew me here, it is the end of a round, whether or not people complain, it makes me feel depressed.
The problems will hinder me to expand my world, learn and experience new things, I always knew, but this damn shame stayed with me.
In fact, I can vaguely know solutions.
For example, I have not played badminton, but then entered the current company, I decided to learn motor skills such as long-term exercise program, and began to rub colleagues wherever he goes, regardless of the embarrassment of a variety not receive the ball, make a fool would ignore everyone's laughter, looking for some entry in the online tutorial to learn ...... so stuck with it, although it is still very dish, but whatever the outcome, with the average amateur players can play together, no mocking voice.
However, such cases in my life are in the minority in most cases, I did not achieve a breakthrough of their own, not the things may not have been down.
Not cangzhuo!
Two or more "humble" puzzled me for many years, in order to reduce its negative effects, I have summarized some effective steps on my own.
The first step, to accept their own.
Accept their imperfections, they are not good to accept the fact that a lot of things. Each person's upbringing or experiences are not the same, others good at something you do not do this is normal, this is not your fault.
If you are not interested in it, then frankly with them, to tell you that you will not look on quietly enough. Give up that "if we do not know, this will not be because I do not think I'm stupid" idea, do not be too concerned about other people's eyes (we are busy), you're liberated.
When you are expansive, no longer trying to hide, then how can it not give you a negative impact? The child had said before, "know as know, I do not know as I do not know, that is knowledge."
Some people might ask, when we are playing, you had a separate dish or side, the focus is directed to your body how to do? This time, laugh at yourself is a weapon, when you yourself are beginning to belittle yourself, good or bad faith of the ridicule of others destined not receive the expected results, the basic would not exported.
And if you are interested in it and want to learn it, then take the second step.
The second step, everything is routine.
Baidu Baike in the interpretation of the "routine" was originally referred to compile complete sets of martial arts moves, now refers to the set of skills, programs, methods, and so on.
We live in the most things, there are "routine" to follow.
Such as program design in the design mode is programmed routine, can make good use of the program structure more elegant; encountered such a complex problem, the quantitative analysis, to be resolved after the split, sorted using a specific method, which is problem-solving routines, such as the way of thinking of your brain power to solve some of your habits has improved.
That we have to solve their own a "humble" simply two steps:
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Looking for routines.
A good coach, a good book, a good set of video tutorials, are there routine right place.
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Practice makes perfect.
To become a field of high-end players is not easy, which may require very hard with a certain talent; but to be an ordinary player is not difficult to find a large number of exercises after routine you can, do not be afraid not learn, after all " to the extent of the effort low for most people, simply fail to get the talent to fight ", so many people can do it, you certainly can.
Original: Large column is not cangzhuo life