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1. Many people always feel that their efforts are ineffective because you are not aware of the cycle of effort and output. Some people work a little bit today, and they can't wait to compare themselves with others, but they don't know that what you are comparing is the accumulation of other people's three years. This comparison makes many people feel powerless. It must be remembered that today's efforts are for the sake of three. Years or even ten years later. And your state today is the result of your hard work three or even ten years ago.
2. We always like to use "go with the flow" to perfunctory the thorns and bumps on the road of life, but rarely admit that the real let the flow be, in fact, it is not forcing after doing everything possible, rather than inaction. . - Ricus
3. There is only one thing that tires people: wavering and indecision. ——Stephen Zweig, "When the Human Stars Glitter"
4. If you get something, but you think it's nothing more than that, then what you want is actually your desire. If you still love something after you get it, this is what you really want. want. popexizhi: You can try
5. What is inferiority complex? The definition given by Adler is: When a person is faced with a problem that he cannot cope with, he says that he absolutely cannot solve the problem, and the inferiority complex appears at this time. Overcoming inferiority means overcoming self. This is a competition between myself and myself, a real dialogue with myself, a process of learning from myself, and another life closely related to myself.
6. When people look lazy, it's usually because they're exhausted. Superficial stubbornness is often the result of a lack of clear direction. This is exactly the predicament the rider finds himself in. He turns around, looking around and distressed, but can never take a step.
7. Don't be afraid that a certain character will offend people. You must know that there is no character in the world that can avoid offending people. Straight words will offend villains, tactful words will offend quick-tempered people, and good-natured people will offend principled people. Some people will offend smart people...Since they will offend others, then be yourself, be yourself, and don't be afraid to offend others, because you can bear the consequences. ——Liu Tong
8. If you take yourself too seriously, there will be no real freedom in your heart. :)
9. The ability to work is to be able to break down a big goal into small steps. If the problem is not broken down, not only will you be a mess, but others will not be able to help you. A master with strong work ability does not mean that he can do everything, but that he can break down goals into small steps that either can be done by himself or can be clearly turned to others, and the big problem of how to do it. It has become a small matter of choosing what resources to do, which is work ability.
10. Laughter can indeed be said to be the electric light on the face. The eyes suddenly become brighter, and the light of the teeth flashes between the lips and kisses. ——Qian Zhongshu
11. You must have the courage to break up and leave. Only when there is interruption, there is continuity. When there is separation, there is gain. When a relationship requires you to compromise and continue, sacrificing interests to maintain, in fact, it should have ended long ago. If you don't have the courage, you will be dragged into the abyss. If you have the determination, the sun will be shining brightly ahead. How you choose depends on yourself.
12. Correct thinking comes from the correct definition and operation of conceptual boundaries
13. An Indian old man said to his grandson: "Everyone has two wolves in their bodies, and they fight each other cruelly. One represents: anger, jealousy, Pride, fear, shame; the other represents: tenderness, kindness, gratitude, hope, smile and love." The little boy asked: "Grandpa, which wolf is stronger?" Grandpa replied: "The one you fed."